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I'm an intellectual first and foremost. I'm a sapiosexual. If My mind isn't stimulated there's just no chance of anything else happening. My interests include good Wine and Conversation. Philosophy and Theology. Meditation and Yoga (the easy kind - I'm lazy). Art. Theatre. Mysteries in all their forms. Politics. Research. Chess. D/s. Interior Decorating. Landscaping. Power Tools and evenings at the beach. I am like nothing you've met before. I fit no mold nor stereotype. I'm D/s with a BDSM kink not the other way around. Completing my PhD. Relocation from FL is not possible many years. My Ideal Person: I've learnt that I really hate the strong, silent type. Any kind of silent type actually. Pains in the ass. Monosyllabic answers are sure to raise My ire. Communication is important. If you know you have problems with effective communication, save us both the stress. If you know you live life looking behind you and not focused on your future, again save us both the stress. Looking for an intelligent white slave ...similar interests both D/s and vanilla; one who likes the beach and would enjoy living in the Caribbean. I am into contradictions and opposites. One who strives for perfection and knows his place without having to be beaten into subjection. I seek a deeper submission: surrender. One who can relate to children and dogs in a purely non-D/s sense of course. Someone who knows how to laugh and have fun (sometimes laugh at himself). Ability to eventually relocate is mandatory. I'm looking for My male wife (24/7 slave) to complete the package. I prefer white, single, tall men, 6' and above, no weight requirement - I really don't care, 25-50 years old. **Bald, completely bald heads make Me hottttt!!!!!!** Tatts? *swoooon* Yes, take Me to court for not wanting an online slave. I have this fault of wanting real...well....never mind. I have much to offer the man who knows how to move ideas well from conceptualization to realization . Be passionate about life, love, service. PASSIONATE!
Do a search for My posts in the CM forums. you will perhaps get a better idea of Who I am as a person, My thinking processes, My ideals and expectations. If you feel inclined, your Email should say more than "hi!" Include a pic (No nude pics, please. Give Me something to look forward to. Delayed gratification can be a good thing). A head shot that doesn't make you look like a mental patient is quite satisfactory. I reciprocate in kind if I'm interested.
6/10/2017 10:10:06 PM
Wrapping up my weekend in St. Augustine. Loved Casa Monica. I will definitely stay here again. Last trip until July. Medieval Torture museum - see it; love it!

6/4/2017 9:29:43 AM
Winding down my D.C. Trip. About to have Brunch at Le Diplomate. Then a final walk around. Heading home tomorro. As usual D.C. I love everyth you offer. 
5/24/2017 5:02:49 PM
Something mundane - doing laundry for my trip, wrapping up some work. I recognize my privilege. I hope to leave this world in some small way  a better place than I found it. CM is often a place of obfuscation and weakness.  i hope none of that ever wears off on me. 
5/21/2017 12:31:27 AM
My best friend lands in about a few hours for a 2 week stay in London. I was supposed to be there too but I have to be in DC in a week. Up watching Midsomer Murders and waiting for the I'm safe call. Random post because I'm awake. I should be writing but I don't want to. Do you know that there are some very interesting people on CM? A Dom????has been sending me chat requests all night. I deny he resends so I blocked him. Persistent + trouble reading =annoying. I should be writing.
5/12/2017 6:52:16 PM
Batter up! D.C.
4/26/2017 10:24:41 PM
Loving San Antonio. Fiesta was wonderful. Enjoyed the food and wine. Flambeau was better than expected. I'm recommending Fiesta to all my friends.

4/14/2017 1:40:38 AM
At it again! I'm looking forward to TX.
3/28/2017 10:30:44 PM
NC was good but Ohio is better. I love it!
2/12/2017 6:36:23 PM
NC and OH on deck next. 
1/28/2017 2:22:59 AM
From the Golden Spike to the Griffin to Salon of Beauty to Tequila Bar to... and the night continues. I love Vegas!
1/27/2017 3:52:12 PM
Ahhhhh! Vegas! I love this place. 
1/16/2017 12:04:21 AM
Gearing up for Vegas again. I think I'm slightly obsessed. It's a good thing I don't gamble 
1/9/2017 8:40:59 PM
"Madam, I'm shy so I'll send a face pic in time." * has attached a close up pic of his dick however* HMmmmm, I don't believe the word shy means what he thinks it means. 
12/28/2016 10:49:07 PM
Some profiles have had the same pic for almost a decade. seriously?!?! Would an updated pic not be logical?
12/27/2016 10:21:15 PM
Vegas was excellent!!!! Maybe Ga, Al and Tx next. 
12/17/2016 9:03:00 PM
Loved Vegas so much, I'm gonna do it again :))
11/26/2016 10:59:56 PM
*wonders if smoked gators taste like chicken* GO NOLES!
9/23/2016 5:54:07 PM
Loved Vegas. Even the grittier northern parts. Had a great time on the Strip and Freemont.   Going to end my evening at the Bellagio then its homeward bound early tomorrow. 
9/21/2016 3:58:12 AM
Vegas bound! It's an early morning.
8/6/2016 11:12:33 PM
When you wake up on the middle of the night with an anxiety attack because your last year officially begins tomorrow. The Dr. Train is getting ready to leave the station. WTF!!! This is happening. Woop sahhhhh!
4/13/2016 12:34:41 AM
D.C. Was marvelous. One of my favorite places. Glad to be back in my own bed though.
4/6/2016 7:30:22 PM
Packing for D.C trip. I hate packing :(
3/28/2016 12:37:32 AM
Business trips leave me totally exhausted. I've been sleeping at every opportunity since Friday and now I'm wide awake :S so it's Jstor and chill. Ok Jstor and no chill but there's always the hope lol.
2/1/2016 11:24:22 PM
Someone tried to school ME on spelling tonight. Lord, why do they try?
9/6/2015 4:58:26 PM
"And I still haven't found what I'm looking for." Sometimes I am really frustrated. I move in the direction of my other goals. PhD going well, great friends, time conflicts haven't allowed me to connect with the very small local community but I don't sit around complaining about my rate of failure in the male wife search. It's just that sometimes...SOMETIMES and all that jazz.
4/26/2015 9:44:05 PM
It's ridiculous to want something you can't have. Or maybe I just think I want it.
12/20/2014 5:47:13 PM
There are some crazy muthas here on Collarspace.  Do they think we're all idiots?? You chose a famous person's pic and say he's a sub.  Really? REALLY? Here on Collarspace?  Christian Grey comes to Collarspace.  DDI men desperation is unattractive.  Lies are even worse.  Be yourself.  
9/20/2014 9:16:40 PM
They nearly killed me but they pulled out the win. Go NOLES!
9/13/2014 7:20:12 PM
This made my day! Thank you :) https://www.facebook.com/video.?v=192981627528245&set=vb.104653344178&type=2&theater
8/8/2014 9:53:52 PM
Moved to Tallahassee.
12/17/2013 12:16:17 PM

I got accepted into the Ph.D. programme!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Overjoyed.  Now to celebrate :)

11/30/2013 12:08:51 AM

If it appears that I am viewing your profile quite frequently, I'm not doing so intentionally.  Not sure what's going on with CM and My laptop but the page jumps first up, then down.  So I'm clicking next profile but the page jumps and I end up clicking the picture and voila I seem to be obsessed with your profile when I'm not.  If you're tall, bald, earrings, stunning eyes and tatts then pay no attention to my disclaimer - yes I am obsessing on your profile.  

11/4/2013 1:45:32 PM

Now that I'm back home I miss Jacksonville terribly.  I miss My snuffleuppigins and lovely auntie snuggles late at night watching Netflix.  Just waiting to hear what the Uni says.  *sigh* Miss those little people.  

10/28/2013 9:27:00 PM
WHEN I heard the learn’d astronomer;  
When the proofs, the figures, were ranged in columns before me;  
When I was shown the charts and the diagrams, to add, divide, and measure them;  
When I, sitting, heard the astronomer, where he lectured with much applause in the lecture-room,  
How soon, unaccountable, I became tired and sick;

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Till rising and gliding out, I wander’d off by myself,  
In the mystical moist night-air, and from time to time,  

Look’d up in perfect silence at the stars.

 

-Walt Whitman

10/18/2013 5:37:43 PM

Packing.  I hate packing. I hate unpacking. I hate repacking and I had the subsequent unpacking BUT I love the travel.  

10/14/2013 1:20:44 AM

The Steelers decided to win today.  Normally I'd be screaming STEELERS!!!!! but it's a cautious steelers! Not sure they have it truly together yet but 1-4 is better than 0-5.  

10/3/2013 4:57:33 PM

Tickets in hand.  Will definitely be in Jacksonville, Fl. in two weeks.  Looking forward to the trip.  

9/29/2013 9:10:01 AM

Packed and heading home.  These trips are good but tiring.  Can't wait to sleep in My bed.  I need My own pillow to truly fall asleep.  Out to the airport.  

9/27/2013 11:43:47 PM

madshus33 has been helping Me study for the quant part of My test.  he's very very good at this.  Wonder if I could shrink him and take him along to school.  

9/25/2013 9:43:27 PM

packed and ready to go.  

9/24/2013 7:19:36 PM

Putting off packing until tomorrow. I'm just too tired.

9/21/2013 10:24:16 AM

Barron's Quant prep test is kicking my ass!!!! The Verbal is a breeze.  I need a Quant slave.

9/16/2013 2:51:18 PM

Moved my chess pieces around the board just now.  Been forever since I played.  I just haven't been motivated.  Black queens should always take white kings off the board in my universe ;)

9/15/2013 2:26:49 PM

Though nothing can bring back the hour of splendor in the grass, glory in the flower, we will grieve not; rather find strength in what remains behind.

 

There comes a day when you let go and look ahead.  I have accepted the things I cannot change.  There's a year until I relocate for school.  I spend every day committing my beach to memory; every wave, every grain of sand.  I lock it in my heart in preparation for city life.  

lorrain0012
 
 Age: 29
  Colorado