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Please read my profile before emailing me. It took time and thought to write, and I expect you to read the whole thing if you hope to earn a reply.
First, I want to thank the Daddies who have helped me explore this aspect of my sexual persona on the phone and online. I've had a wonderful time! I've also finally had a handful of real-life experiences. It has been a surprising journey and I think I've come to some conclusions. However, I also expect that I will continue to evolve.
I think that in real life, I want a pretty vanilla-looking marriage with a loving husband. I'm looking for my best friend, confidante, lover, helpmate, companion, etc. All the standard stuff you'd find in a normal personal ad.
Behind closed doors, I'm looking for a Daddy. A very special kind of Daddy. The kind who is a teacher, mentor, and cheerleader who loves inspiring success in his girl. I'm not into intense pain or harsh punishment and I react badly to both. What turns me on is taboo and naughtiness and occasional, playful spanking. Acting dirty but not being made to feel dirty, or even being aware that what I'm doing may be considered very dirty, indeed. And like any girl, I love to play with toys.

I'm also looking for a Daddy with a strong enough ego (without being an ass) to handle the Domme aspect of my personality. I really need balance in my life, which means I need to top and be served as much as I need to be topped. I'm not sure if I want to top my Daddy, or if I need another playmate for this. In fact, it might be fun to find a Daddy who could enthusiastically order me to top a male playmate occasionally and supervise me to make sure I do it right. ;)

I'm not into age play, I'm into roleplay around the themes of experience/inexperience and wickedness/innocence and knowledge/ignorance. So I'm interested in playing daddy/daughter, professor/student type of roles. I love the teacher/student dynamic. Playing on the phone is a fun way to pass the time, but ultimately I'm looking for a husband. So here's the standard personal-ad stuff. In addition to being a wonderful Daddy, I'm looking for a SWM who is:
  • Single (yes, had to say it twice--I want to get married, remember?)
  • Available (If you're already married or own slaves, I don't count you as "available.")
  • Probably no older than 60 (I have an extremely high sex drive and tend to wear partners out.) I prefer someone between 47-55.
  • Successful, secure and happy with his life -- the only thing missing is me!
  • Smoke-free, drug-free, addiction-free
  • In excellent general health, H/W relatively proportionate, low-carb a plus
  • Free of insane ex-wives and/or unmanageable alimony payments
  • Free of live-in children (either minors or failed-to-launch "adults")
  • Very intelligent, educated and conversant in current events
  • Libertarian or conservative
  • Kind, very affectionate, caring, considerate, and kinky
  • Attractive, well-groomed, well-put-together, and sexy
  • Confident, self-assured, and comfortable with the man you've made yourself into
  • And finally, I have to find you smokin' hot. The chemistry has to be there.
So, that's where I'm coming from. I honestly don't expect much beyond phone fun from CollarMe, but in the off chance there's a real man out there who fits this description, I'm giving it a shot.
If you would love to be with a sexy, sensual, smart, and successful woman who longs for a Daddy to look up to, please write and tell me about yourself and why you think we could be right for each other.

Your email and/or profile should have at least as much information in it about you as my profile does about me. Generic emails and blank profiles are a waste of my time and are therefore ignored.
Here's why I didn't reply to your email:
  • I ignore one-sentence emails, especially ones that say "ask me anything." (Okay, I'm asking now: "why are you so lazy that you can't write more than one sentence about yourself?")
  • I ignore emails from people who haven't looked at my profile.
  • I ignore emails from people with blank profiles, UNLESS you've written me a lengthy email describing yourself, what you're looking for, and why you think we're a good match.
  • I ignore emails that demand submission, are crude, or vulgar, or insulting.
  • I ignore emails that ask for permission to contact me. I don't own you, so you don't need my permission.
  • No, I don't use instant messengers or go on cam. The chat rooms on CM are the only ones I will use.
Thanks for reading, and best of luck to you in finding what you're looking for.

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8/3/2010 6:28:37 AM
My desire is to grow, and learn, and be the best girl I can possibly be. As someone new to the Daddy Dom concept, it's disconcerting to discover how many Daddies seem to secretly hope that their little girl misbehaves, because they so look forward to punishing her. (Severely punishing her, in some cases).

I don't understand why a Daddy would want that...why a Daddy would have a girl he couldn't be proud of. I'm looking for a Daddy who wants to praise, not punish.

7/25/2010 11:41:56 AM
When I say I want a relationship, the only men who contact me are casual players. When I say I want casual play, the only men who contact me are looking for a LTR. What's a girl to do?

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LongHairedBlonde
 
 Age: 22
 NYC, New York