Send me something interesting...like a business email address....or your partners email...send me a photo of you and then your secretary's email address...send me your address maybe I want to come visit you :)  Send me something risky and lets play!

Oh where has the time gone?! I have been so busy working on a special project. 

Now I am back on CM for some fun...

Actually,  I am not going to waste time with subs who don't have anything to offer me.  

I don't really have the time to invest in a slave who I won't see a return on.

Having 2 slaves do the cold ball task...

Overall Question:

• Mistress, why don't you answer my messages?  Even if i send you more than 4 messages?  I am BUSY! Also I hate responding to messages lol.  I do respond after a day or so. Or when I feel like it. 

Okay now I am going to hold a contest. I want to see which of my potential slaves can endure a task for the longest period of time.  I have a test slave that I will see if it is even hard for it to try and complete the task.

The slave who does this task the longest they will win a prize! If you want to have the same task then you need to inbox me I will send you the web link to join my mailing list.

I won't be on cam for a while.  I spilled something on my Macbook and now I don't have a cam until I replace it.  I really don't enjoy using my desktop. ___________________________________________

I have been ignoring a few slaves ...not really on purpose. I don't think some of the slaves on this website realize that I have a very hectic life.  Besides meeting a few of them irl for session or playtime I also work a full time job. When I am IM'd on yahoo usually I am not online.  I keep it up so that I can be notified if I have a gift sent to me online.  So those who have said hello to me on Y IM I will be on later tonight maybe. I will catch you up on my life then.

I like relationships that I have built thus far from people here and other websites. I am always interested in meeting new slaves in the Northern Virginia/ Washington DC area. Everyone outside of that area will most likely not get that much attention.  I don't love the idea of a ton of online play.  I prefer real life.  I also enjoy using my slaves as much as possible.  

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A side note...if we haven't talked before and I don't know you ...do not request a friend accept.  I only allow slaves or potential slaves who I have built a relationship with to be on my profile.  I made the mistake of allowing a few people early on and now everyone thinks it is okay. 

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I will be adding some new photos in the next week or so.  

I have a wanna be slave who needs a D to whip him into shape. I assigned him a writing task and this is  the result.  Also there is a picture 

Mistress NeedNVASlave's instructions:

"Write up a bio on why someone would want to own you. What qualities you offer to your D. Why they should choose you. Take a photo and attach it in an email."

So first question, why someone would want to own me? my first quick response would be for Their amusement. To be Their secret, the friend in public and toy when at home. To be there when They want to indulge in Their fantasies that may be darker or dirty compared to Their normal vanilla life or world.

Second question, what qualities can i offer? Respect, loyalty, honesty, 'my cherry'. i do want to sub, albeit my first time so She is the one who get to mold, shape & train me and not have someone elses 'project'. i would assume having only a few limits is one too, givng as much of a canvas for Her to work with.

Why should She choose me? A virgin slave to use, abuse, degrade, humiliate, punish, have serve Her.

You should be eager and willing to please me...however you should not be a type 1 stalker type.  I have a life and you should also.  I will want you to be in communication with me.  I want to know what your plans are each day.  I will require you to get permission for most activities..however I know there might be one instance a month where you do something without asking permission. 

I require you to verify via picture that you are completing the task for that day.  I may require you to write my name on your wrist in perm marker ...or carry a butt plug in your briefcase in case I need you to do an insertion task after your lunch.  I might require you to wear a pink thong that day.

I don't want you to be female ..but I do want you to realize I am in control of everything.  Just think of it as being able to give up control. It will make your life so much easier.  Not having to make any decisions on your own is very liberating. 

I need a hip hop dancing slave.  I want you to bend over touch your toes and bounce your ass.............do it on Skype.  I will watch you and instruct you over Skype.

I am very disappointed.  I had a pedicure last weekend and had them apply Gel nail polish. I LOOOOOOVVVVEEEEDDD having my feet massaged...the technician almost made me cum in the chair.  Well now I am looking at my choice of color and I want to get it redone.  I wanted a rose petal red.....instead it is a pink. I am very unhappy.  I wish I had a slave here to carefully remove the gel polish...but it takes more skill then any of you pathetic wanna be slaves can handle. One of you potentials will be pushed to the top of the list once you pay for my pedicure to be redone. 

slave to Skype with me NOW

BLACKMAIL slaves NOW

Also ready to train a new beauty slave.

Asshole Slave Task:

Go to the bathroom..close the door...get the  plunger straddle it..lower over it and accept your future.  I don't care if you are wearing your cage...just make sure you thank Me!  

I can't wait to put good use to this new paddle!

I am no longer dealing with "it".  He is free to seek other ownership.

Anyways now it is time to find a slave that is a better fit.

Okay there seems to be come confusion on what it is that I am seeking.  This might not be for everyone...and that is PERFECTLY FINE.  I am a 22 year old D and am seeking a mature s who is willing to serve me.  Here I will outline the basics of what I seek.  IF you think this is something that you can handle...then we will discuss it and then meet.

• I want full ownership of my slave; Mind, Body, Income, Assets, and Possessions. you will own NOTHING.
• you will obey me at all times and will ensure my comfort, pleasure, and well-being above all considerations.
• you will follow my orders 100% and will always do as told.
• you will have no privacy or concealment. 
• you will re-mold your body, activities, habits, actions, and attitude in accordance with My desires.
• All duties that I assign you will complete and they will be non-negotiable. 
• you will be responsible for any domestic slave tasks that I find fit for you.
• you will report to Me at all times.  You should be easily contactable by Me.  You should also contact Me to request permission before you start an activity.
• you will always be truthful, honest, open, loyal, obedient, and respectful.
• you should long to give Me physical, intellectual, emotional, spiritual and financial pleasure through offering submission to My Superior will.

Of course there will be a slave contract that is signed by both of us.  

I was disappointed with it today.  He informed me that when the words Mistress show up on his phone it is embarrassing enough.  Mind you I have about 75msgs a day asking...no not asking BEGGING to serve me.  Knowing that serving me will be the highlight of their pathetic life.  So I start giving this want to be D turned s into the perfect little sissy slave! I have invested multiple hours with this slave.

I have even gone as far as cam verifying for it...because it didn't believe that the passwords to it's fake BDSM account should be turned over until I the Dominatrix verify's.  So I was thinking okay this might be fun.  slave seems normal enough.  So I allow it to have my phone number and text me.  All that I have gotten from it is issue after issue. 

Then it has the audacity to ask me if it can serve other Doms closer and if I will put in a good word.  Does it not realize how offensive it is to ask a Mistress who you have yet to put in real time service too that you are already looking to service another Dom.

Then you have the nerve to post on your profile that you don't want to do anything in public because of your privacy...did I command you to show your phone? Did I ever say anything about introducing this lifestyle to your family? NO. SO remove that bullshit off your blog NOW! Stop misrepresenting my tasks.

If you are not happy with serving me then I have no problem moving on! I also don't understand why said want to be slave insists on only serving if I can spend the night at his hotel room.  Also that it wants to be able to lick my pussy because it turns it on?! I don't remember saying Hi I am a Mistress looking to make you cum.  Anyways think of this post as a warning.  I am currently still accepting slaves and I suggest you either shape up or be replaced!

After reading slaves blog post I am pleased.  He realized what he did wrong during our video chat session.  I am hopeful that he will do better once I allow him to view my cam.

He has been doing well with his daily GM texts.  They are coming in on time. He will soon be here for his visit and I have a few things planned for him.  I get so wet just thinking of how to break him. I know that it is much more enjoyable for a slave to be pushed past their limits and he will soon feel that pleasure. 

If I don't write back to you ...but I have read whatever attempt at amusement you sent as an email...I get about 75 msgs a day.  

I don't have time to go through them all and respond..however the creative ones always get a response.

I am excited to have found 2 very interesting potential slaves and we shall see how long distance and local slaves differ for the time being.

Off to the spa! Time for a nice Mani and Pedi!  

I added a new photo.  

I must say I do LOVE this lifestyle! It is so fun to be able to find such willing slaves to serve ME...

I want a shoebitch so bad! Someone who will buy me sexy heels and fill up my closet! 

Aww look I am getting educated on CM...

I need a cuck slave who enjoys getting me sexy panties outfits, makeup ect. Then I can tell you how much better my dates are than you :) 

Maybe allow you to lick my crotch once me and him are done having sex. ... okay maybe that is too much to handle.

So I have a date tomorrow. I have the cutest outfit EVER.  I can't wait to see him!

FAQ 

YES I TAKE MONEY FROM YOU 

Damn....

But ty for the Giftcard xx