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So I tried the Dom thing, I gave it what I could, but it just isn't for me.
Oh well. So back to being the sub/switch I am. I guess being the "blushy girlshy" type is a horrible way to go about being a dom.
If you can't reach me on here and feel the need to free me of massively growing boredom you can get me on yaho0 (Sorry have to type it like that.), tealeaf_fox_demon (Yes I like roleplay, this is a site of Kinks, so deal with it.)
***Original profile intro***
Um... I have no idea what I will say here, so I suppose I will describe myself?
My name is Mat, I have long brown hair pulled back in a pony tail. I have been called "submissive with an attitude"... Um... I can't really think of anything else?
Oh yeah! I am a work-aholic. I love my jobs... Oh and my biggest thing is loyalty. Nothing in the world means more to me.
If you want to know anything else just ask?
(Sorry if I didn't give very good information. I just don't know what people would want to hear about me?)
I have told, by the person who sent me to this site to include the following:
I am not here to spoil and pamper some woman rotten. When I am in a serious relationship, yes I do buy the woman I am with a lot of stuff, I send her to days at spas, I even clean the entire house regularly. (Mainly because I like to see a clean house.)
On the other hand, I am not going to pay any mind to some woman who assumes that just because she is female that she deserves to live life free of resposiblity. I could careless how "Skilled" you think you are at dominating.
When I see the "You will pay for this and that" line all that comes to mind is a spoiled child. Someone who has had daddy give them everything their entire life.
Anyways, that was all. Sorry if it seemed rude, but I did mention the attitude problem. What can I say? I have yet to find someone "skilled" enough to break me? I am too much of a smart ass and ass hole.
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I have generally been nice, but I can't help but laugh at the arrogance of this...
I have heard the beautiful tales of submissives or doms recieving messages from other doms with things like "Screw off!" or "That isn't how it is done you are an idioit." You know, something with a little originality, but never has it been my great displeasure to recieve such a letter.
Until tonight. Yes my dear friends I have found the one neadrathal who did indeed send me a message. Appearntly she didn't like my profile so meesages me to tell me "Fuck you" (either that or it was the worst offer I have ever recieved) Either or being the case, let me make on ething clear... YOU ARE OUT OF HIGH SCHOOL.
If you left your common sense behind that is fine, but let the rest of the adults do as is need. So to UAreMyBitch Thanks for the offer, but I wouldn't fuck you if you were the last female on earth and the world depended on the two of us for sole survival.
Have a good day.
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Okay, I am sick of FAKE wannabe Doms, who use their postion as an excuse to turn a guy in to an ATM.
I am leaving this site for awhile, because if I recieve one more e-mail Along the lines of "What do you wanna buy me?" Or "Are you ready to submit to me completely?" and then I look at their profile to see they want nothing more then a bank, I WILL BE THE ONE HOLDING THE WHIP.
I may come back here eventually, but I doubt it for now.
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Just something that has been driving me nuts.
Don't not read this and send me a message trying to justify it. I don't care what your excuse is.This is just a personal complaint, and only applies to those who are actually in a relationship! NO ONE IS MAKING YOU READ THIS!!
I keep coming across profiles of females asking for another female, that is all well and good if you are a lesbian. But upon further investigation, I noticed a lot of these are women who are in a relationship with a guy dom already, and quite a few are real relationships, outside of BDSM.
Here is the problem I see with this. I get the whole Poly thing. It isn't for me, but I get it. But if you are going to be in a poly relationship why can't a girl be with another guy? Has morality sunk so low that the other guy is forcing them in to a three way with another girl?
As you can tell I do not vouch for three ways. AT ALL! I am sure some of you reading are thinking "I bet if two girls wanted to do him together that he would be all over it. You are wrong beyond belief.
I have been with several girls who wanted to experiment with other girls, with me, and I refused. I am too logical for that. The problems with three ways are:
1. They create jealousy in a relationship.
2. It will all ways be awkward for two of the member of the three way after that.
3. Three it can wreck a relationship completely if you do not give both the equal amount of attention.
I understand the idea of some guy wanting to stroke his ego by having a house full of women at his beck and call, but we no longer live in the middle ages. And honestly, most guys can't satisfy one woman, what in the HELL makes you think you can satisfy two or more?! Seriously!
None the less, this was just a personal bitch I have, cause I have spent one too many days permanently blocking profiles that start "NO GUYS, My dom is looking for another girl to play with." Or something to that effect.
Being a sub means submitting yes, but you are still human and should at least hold more respect for yourself then that. If it is a real relationship, and you are more then just a sex toy to the person, You should be able to look at them and ask why you alone aren't enough to make that guy happy.
Once again, this is only about those people who have a relationship with their dom outside BDSM, AND DO NOT MESSAGE ME ABOUT THIS!!!
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Alright,
Since I have been trying to explore my Dom side, I am currently looking for people to help me explore that.
True I do lean more towards the submissive side, however, I have kind of enjoyed taking control. So if anyone is willing to work with me on this, please feel free to contact me.
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It's my b-day monday, so as customed, I will probably spend it alone.
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So here is the plan....
Get my check on thursday, send for my tax rebate.
When
I get that money (money I was originally gonna use for heathers
engagment ring) I set it aside. Wait another two weeks and get that
check. Between the two I should have roughly 600-700 dollars.
Then
I take that money, and move. Where too you might ask? Good question. I
have decided yet. I am think back to bryan, also looking at places in
florida, and even wyoming. It is kinda hard to decide.
Also if anyone is looking for a room mate? Let me know, that could sway my descion as well.
Further
more, do not blame heather, she has done nothing but be herself. I will
not tolerate any shit talk about her as per usual. I love her yes, but
I finally snapped and got tired of the bullshit.
This WILL NOT
be another nikki situation, heather was given the thing nikki never
got. A second, third, fourth, and even fifth chance. So that is that.
I move, restart life as the guy I was before. And all is done.
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Well that was short lived...
For those few of you who read the "I am no longer available" bit, disregard it.
Not even two weeks in to a simple vanilla relationship with my ex, and she proves herself worthy of our previous relationship. She has been lying to me and playing with a guy on the side.
I know someone of you could careless, it is just the explination for the taking back of those words.
For any of you doms out there "Perving" my profile, Just remember to read all my entries before you assume I am just another sub.
Lastly... and probably most important, the only real thing I ask out of a dom is one thing... LOYALTY!!!
-Mat
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If you do not catch me on here, I do have a YIM (yahoo instant messenger) account. Send me a message if you want the SN.
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Due to a lot of people requesting it I have been told to discuss what I am looking for "relationship wise"... I will do my best?
I am not really a picky person. As I stated before, my biggest thing is loyalty.
I know, I know... Some of you reading this are like "What right does a slave have to say I have to be loyal?" Let's get something very clear right now, I AM NOT A SLAVE, I am a sub. There is a diffrence and I suggest you learn it.
As far as what I am looking for mentally, physically, and life wise? I prefer someone who can out smart and outwit me. It is sadly one of the only ways to break me down and completely control me.
Physically, I could care less how you look. I am not that shallow, however I do ask that you keep in mind my age limit. I will not "date" anyone over the age of 25. Um... I kinda have a weight limit. Don't think me rude by saying this, seriously... please don't. I have dated "larger" women before, I have nothing against it, I am just notreally into that. Outside of that Ihave nothing wrong with anything else.
Life stlye wise? I do not care what you do with your life (jsut remember the loyalty thing) I am here to make YOU happy. So I would at least prefer you know what you want. If you are a smoker, fine. I usually am not, but I have started smoking to please a mistress before. Drinking is fine with me, so that is fine, and... um... what else? Oh yeah... I guess I do have one Hard Limit in life style. NO DRUGS!
Um... I would prefer a mistress who knows the how to abuse my weaknesses, but it is not a must.
About myself:
Um... I am a very intelligent person, (or so I would like to think) I care deeply about what my Mistress wants, I love to spoil the person I am with in a relationship. Honestly I do. There is nothing I love more then to watch the face of my mistress light up when she sees me open up a jewelry box for her, or her favorite video, or game.
I love cooking for the woman I am with, I will clean, do laundry, and many other things on a regular (Most the time a day to day) basis. I really do suck at yard word though, so don't expect much of a gardener out of me.
As for my personality? Um... I am very shy, very blushy. I have been told I am too "innocent", of course I was raised by the ancient christian life style. I am not the type of guy to want sex, look at porn, or even make perverted jokes. I make a perverted joke from time to time, but I usually have no idea what the joke means.
I suppose that is about all. If anyone has any questions please feel free to ask.
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| Age: 49 |
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