It's been disappointing interacting with some of the couples that I've met on here.  Rather than rehashing the latest issue, I'll just post some guidelines that I feel are necessary.

1.  Both people must want to do this.

2.  Don't "surprise" your significant other and expect them to jump right into it like in a Dear Penthouse letter.

3.  I'm not a replacement for the love that you don't feel.  I'm just there to provide a specific facet; the D to your s.  If you don't love each other, that love isn't going to spring up just because you introduce me to the bedroom.

/vent