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I've been in the lifestyle for about 4 years now but have been a kinky bastard since childhood, when I discovered the joy of tying people up. And I was a goner. I have grown since then, or at least gotten older, and started my journey into BDSM as a dominant. I have made many mistakes and the wreckage is still smoldering in some places. Even so,I believe this journey, though not nearly complete, will make me a better man.
Me outside the lifestyle is much like me in the lifestyle.....one of my lessons learned is to be my authentic self in all things. I am nice, witty, handsome(?) very geeky, and sometimes even charming. I love a good laugh, even at my expense. I have a warm and fuzzy side that I show sometimes just to prove its there. That said, I can also be an arrogant controlling sadistic bastard. I am a DOM, after all. I am not above using my powers for evil.
BUT.......
I DO NOT BELIEVE BEING A DOM IS SYNONYMOUS WITH BEING A DICK.
This is a major pet peeve of mine. We all come into this lifestyle as equals, and deserve respect. I am lucky to be part of a wonderful group kinksters that have taught me that, as well as the importance of being myself. I believe in life long learning, if it isn't growing its dead. This is not always so easy to do. We are all human and screw things up but we move on and try to take heed to the lessons that are there.
I would describe my play as primal, sadistic, sexual, intense, I love the raw intensity that comes when you let go of convention and let raw animal passion and carnal desire take over. In my world, biting beats kissing, moans, grunts and growls speak louder than any words.
I'm looking for a female sub to serve me in and out of the bedroom. My eventual goal is a 24/7 LTR. I'm a loving dominant with a nasty sadistic streak so you need to have a masochistic streak. Geeky is a plus. I expect honesty, respect, and the prompt obedience of a submissive heart. These will be rewarded with loving guidance, and respect for your gift of submission. I'll respect your limits, but I'm also willing to experiment and help you reach new heights.
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I think you can learn a lot from how a person entertains themselves. So here's some helpful hints for learning me:
*My favorite movie is Airplane!
*My favorite movie characters are Darth Vader ( not Anakin Syywalker, mind you) and Yoda
*If I could be in any movie, I'd want want be a Bond Villian
*If I were stranded on a desert island with only one album to listen to it would probably be an outkast greatest hits cd...but I'd try to sneak a miles davis cd too
*Also I can tell you the outcome of any episode of Star trek , TNG, and probably DS9 after watching the prologue.
You Scored as Dominant on our quiz
Oxford Dictionary: Dominance: power and influence over others (sexually)
Sadist 100%
Dominant 100%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur 89%
Experimental 68%
Switch 46%
Bondage 39%
Masochist 18%
Vanilla 11%
Submissive 4%
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