A message I just recieved:
"So you were a sub who is now a dom. Terrific. Now you can demean women and control them as opposed to not being in control. I wonder how at war you must be inside: sublimating the "sub" to be a "dom." And what a shame it is that you hate women so much that the only way you can be with them is to control and hurt them. There is nothing in your profile whatsoever that states any respect for my gender...only pride in yourself that you have "switched" sides and can now actively demonstrate your hatred for women. I wonder if that came from being dominated by them for so long. Is there no such thing as being a gentleman and a dom? In your case...I guess not."
Dont you just love constructive critcism? I think it is funny how this can all be learned from not a single exchange, not a single word shared, but from one paragraph that I wrote on my profile. The woman dosent even consider herself a sub, but can degrade what I have gone through. On top of it all, she blocked me right after she sent this message so I couldn't even respond. Go figure. |