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Hetero Male Dominant, 65,  ChulaVista, California
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Last Online:


 Dominant Male



 6' 0"





 32 minutes

Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Electrical Play  (Expert)

 Local BDSM Community  (Expert)

 Spanking  (Expert)

 Vibrators  (Expert)

 Whips  (Expert)




 Museums  (Expert)

 Anal Play  (Expert)

 Blindfolds  (Expert)

 Body Worship


 Breast Binding/Play

 Wax play  (Expert)

 Physics  (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Art Galleries  (Beginner)



 Canes and Crops


 Hair Pulling  (Expert)

 Hypnosis  (Beginner)

 Knife Play  (Beginner)

 Massage (Getting)

 Massage (Giving)

 Munches  (Expert)

 Needle Play

 Plastic Wrap  (Expert)

 Shibari  (Beginner)

 Suspension  (Beginner)

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Archaeology  (Beginner)

 Astronomy  (Beginner)


 Intellectual Discourse

 Mathematics  (Expert)

 1950s Household





 Curious About:


I am a Dom who lives alone in his own home in Chula Vista, California (a bit South of San Diego). I have been active in real-life BDSM since 1997 and I have been active in the San Diego BDSM community since 1998. I am 6 feet tall and heavy set. I have grey eyes that do look blue at times, brown hair and a PhD in science and engineering. I never took up smoking, drinking, or the use of illegal drugs. I have two children, both grownup and living on their own. I do get short visits from time to time but they do not spend any regular time at my home. I am divorced.

If you are or have been active in the San Diego BDSM community, we might well have met. You would have been introduced to me as either Master Drew or by Master of the Deep. If you are new to the San Diego BDSM community or not a part of it, I do recommend it. My volunteering in the local community has included two terms as Vice President of Club X, San Diego (the largest pansexual BDSM organization in San Diego), numerous teaching roles (more than 20 a year) at workshops and exploritoriums with a foucs on various types of electrical play, extreme vibrators, fucking machines and Sybians, and single tail whip play (both long and short whips), and a year as the official Dungeon Master trainer and Head DM for the Club X play party DMs. Also, I established and continue to own most of a BDSM lending library that supports learning in the community, I run a monthly single tail whip practice, and for a few years I ran a weekly BDSM Social at the Flame where ten to thirty people would drop by for conversation, dancing and pool. I was surprised and flattered, when in 2003 when I was nominated for the Southern California Regional Award for my leather leadership efforts by the Pantheon of Leather and again in 2009 when I was awarded the Club X Sentinel of Leather Award 2008 (Individual). I like to be active in the community and I like to share that enjoyment with my partner. I active in a Dom Poker night monthly and I have from time to time hosted play parties in my home.

What do I like? I like a relationship where the partners can communicate honestly, where they share the joys of both giving and receiving with each other and, as a couple with the community, where each is focused on enabling the others happiness, and where each cares for the others feelings and needs. I like very sensual and sexual play that often centers on the orgasmic response of my partner. I like to combine types of play, bondage with electrical and king for instance playing the components through the scene to accentuate the responses. I like to share a sense of discovery of how responses can be heightened with my partner, and particularly the satisfaction of some new plateau along the way. Feeding this sense of discovery has lead me to understand that finding things that are new to us (even things infrequently revisited) is an important component of keeping things fresh. Still forced orgasm play, cuddling after play and other favorites are like a comfortable old chair, too precious to leave unused for long. I have a wide variety of play type experiences and I have covered them as clearly as possible in the checklist but I would caution people from reading too much into it. What has proved to be highly orgasmic play with some has flopped with others and my interests in several of the more extreme types of play were the result responses to them of my past partners. While I would feel too limited with a partner who enjoyed no s of SM, there are many types of play I have enjoyed in the past I would be quite happy to put aside if the current partner did not respond well to them.

What do I dislike? I dislike dishonesty, deception, evasion, and manipulation. I do not want to be involved with anyone who is currently a user of illegal drugs or an abuser of alcohol. Responsible, social use of alcohol is perfectly fine. People with a life history of substance abuseaddiction and or serious mental instabilities need support and treatment. In my opinion, it would be inadvisable to start a relationship under such conditions.

I have allergies to smoke and pet dander. I have difficulty spending much time in my garage for the day or two after a big party (it is where the smokers can smoke) so the issues is a physical one with me. In my last live-in relationship my slave had a cat and I took preion allergy medications which nearly eliminated my pet-related medical problems.

I am currently unattached and seriously looking to get to know people with similar interests. I am not typically very comfortable with casual play but I do enjoy opportunities to get to know someone, one-on-one. If you contact me, I will respond, though with my schedule it may take a few days for that to happen. I have invested in the small extra so that standard members can contact me if they desire. Looking forward to meeting you, Drew

I am looking for a woman who is first and foremost an adult. She has mastered the day-to-day art of dealing with work, her own emotions, those of her associates or said more succinctly, life. She is prosperous in her career with respect to her needs, comfortable with her choices in life, and yet looking to find an enduring relationship.

She is looking for a long term relationship with someone whom she can share her emotions and thoughts and in which she feels an equal partner. That said she should also be seeking a submissive role in the relationship, but not a passive one.

I need a partner who can find fulfillment in service, who understands the give and take of Ds, and who has or is willing to explore deeply rooted masochistic needs as well. She should be naturally submissive at heart and at peace with those feelings. A service orientation is perhaps the most important thing that I am seeking.

Big bonus points for those who are orgasmic masochists, multiply orgasmic to the right stimulation, and who have a high sex drive. I want to be able to feel her energy not only when we are playing but also when there may be nothing more than simple service going on.

Her experience level with Ds or SM is less important than her response to our evolving expression of Ds and SM. Enthusiasm is important and she should be a lifelong learner in the things that interest her as I am. I have a strong preference for women who are slender to average build and who are agile and energetic.

She should be oriented, as I am, towards pleasing people. She will find great satisfaction in bringing a smile to my face and will manage her life with such goals high on her list. Still, she will understand that she can only empower my happiness she cannot be responsible for it and she will not blame herself for failures that are not hers (everyone has rough patches in life and it does not have to be your fault if your partner has one now and again).

She should not use illegal drugs of any kind, abuse alcohol, nor have serious unmanaged mental health issues. A significant life history of these things would be a strong caution for me as well.

She should be single, divorced, or widowed and not in a relationship with someone else. She should want a single partner. It would be nice if she lived close enough to Chula Vista that regular face to face meetings are possible within the typical constraints of people who work for a living. She should not have dependent children who regularly live with her for substantial parts of the year, though visits from children are expected. I have raised my children and the goal would be for her and me to live together in a Ds relationship. She should not be seeking to have additional children either.

If this sounds like you, please contact me and let us explore the possibilities. Drew


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Journal Entries:
11/22/2017 5:26:53 PM
So Vimeo decided that they didn't like my educational videos either so if you are not a paying member of Fetlife then they are unavailable until I can figure out another approach.

8/27/2017 1:45:21 AM
All of my toy/play technique educational videos on youtube have been deleted so the links in the journal will not work.  Some of them are in the videos on my fetlife account.  Until I can find another way to host them they will be otherwise not available.

Until I can find another site, for those who are paying members of (non paying members can't see videos there) they are posted on my profile there: MasteroftheDeep.

Update:  Trying Vimeo for some of my videos as an experiment.

Vimeo version: Password is Drew-MotD . Let me know if you have problems seeing these as this is still an experiment.

Working on high end fucking machine use for future workshop and took some videos of Holly rocking the Shockspot fucking machine and the G5 GMB vibrator together while strictly bound on the Fuckbench. with both devices on low; with G5 off and SS on half speed; SS and G5 on half speed with immediate squirting and dildo being pushed out; SS and G5 on full speed gave best in class orgasm.

8/22/2017 4:33:03 PM

So I haven’t had a lot of success posting pics and vids on this site recently so I thought I would post a link to my most recent experiments with some exceptional vibrators used both externally and internally.  I am not sure if the links will make it or be usable but feel free to ask for them in a message if not. 


Starts with finding the G5:


Trying it with other toys:


Bigger is better in some ways:


Innovation to make things even better:


Recent review of a knockoff of the G5:


6/8/2017 10:11:50 PM
So in an effort to enhance what is already the best vibrator that I know of for internal use I got the idea to use a penis extender on the large blunt applicator (note this applicator doesn’t come with the G5 but needs to be bought separately). From prior use I knew that the more powerful GK-3 wasn’t well tolerated for internal use (though it is great on clits) as its greater power and stroke (compared to the GBM) gave some discomfort against the pelvic bone. I had hoped to prevent that with the give in the sleeve part of the penis extender while also getting the advantage of a deeper and fuller feeling when inserted than with the applicator alone. Here is the video that talks about the idea . Many thanks to Holly for throwing herself on this grenade and squirting on it until they were both done. . One caution, like the proton beams in the original Ghost Busters, you shouldn't let the two applicators touch. It creates a bad pinch point for vaginal lip tissue when they do.

5/22/2017 5:04:08 PM
I am doing a workshop in June 2017 on fucking machines for those who have been asking.

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