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If this is too much for you, then so am I.





















Do NOT bother me if

*you are over 55 or under 43 years of age

*you are not submissive

*you are not going to ever leave your computer

*you have no current photos of your real face immediately available NO EXCUSES

*you like children, animals, scat, blood, edge play, dry ice, or any of my hard limits

*you are in another country and have no way to get into the USA without help

*you are not disease-free and willing to prove it

*you are going to lie to me for any reason

Such time-wasters are mocked and blocked.



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I am seeking a man. He is single, childless yet desiring children, and in appropriate health. He has a means of supporting himself and the resources to explore his wants. He is kink-aware, yet not trained into hard habits. He has a working brain and a working penis, yet does not use them interchangeably to think. He has read my entire profile (including the journal below) and figures out how to write a good introductory message so as not to earn mockery. He has a dry acerbic fast witty sense of humor while not taking himself too seriously. He also puts the toilet seat down with the cover before flushing and *rolls the toilet paper under.





Those males who have read all of this and still think themselves compliant should message me with a weird fact about themselves and attach a photo of their elbow.















*negotiable

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3/30/2018 12:03:43 AM
I make clear in my profile what activities I do not like/have no interest in; so when a rude lying moron contacts me with a very specific activity I loathe in their user name, blocking them is very common. Opening a message to block the user is quicker than loading their profile just to block it and is less misleading, in my view.

Yet a certain child chose to keep contacting me with multiple profiles, all having the same activity in the user id, the same attached photo (which is clearly years old), and the same line about how they are not a liar and will do anything I say (while ignoring my profile).

I really don't get the point. I am not interested, I will never be interested and I'm not cunty enough to string you along for money and gifts until you give up. So stop contacting me and leave me alone.

Copy and pasted to all the relevant profiles since they can't read this from blocked profiles.

2/15/2018 12:48:33 AM
I am very glad I stayed off CS the entire 14th.

2/4/2018 4:34:06 PM
I care enough to say go eagles but other than that I am really bored at my sibling's house "watching" this game. At least their wireless doesn't have filter like at Mom's so I can wild ... on here?

11/22/2017 1:19:09 AM
I have been getting weird messages from couple accounts that seem to be hidden trying to hack my system through redirecting my browser.

I am henceforth immediately deleting without opening all messages from couples/couple accounts unread as well as any message that shows code when I hover the mouse over it

If you get one of these, delete the message. Don't open it, don't try to block the sender.
Should you do that, log out of collarspace, restart your browser, log back into cs & change your password!

I got tricked into opening a message with code and I started seeing another person's account when I logged in here. Logging out, clearing browser cache & history and changing password on collarspace cleared up whatever my virus scanner quarantined.

Live and learn and keep your information safe!

10/22/2017 1:00:16 AM
I stayed on about an hour longer than I had planned but it was interesting exchanges.

I might do this again.

10/21/2017 9:08:36 PM
I still intend to have my 'live chat' this weekend.

Should collarspace be up, and you have seen this, feel free to contact me between midnight ET Sunday the 22nd and 2 am (9 pm-11pm PT).

I will be checking my bulk folder too so even if you don't fit what I am looking for in my profile, but have a question or polite comment, then shoot me a Cmail message.

Edit: I had to repost this again so if you see it 3 times instead of 1 edit ...

10/21/2017 9:08:23 PM
I have changed this twice now due to collarspace's server being down but I still intend to have my 'live chat' this weekend.

Should collarspace be up,
and you have seen this, feel free to contact me between


I will be checking my bulk folder too so even if you don't fit what I am looking for in my profile, but have a question or polite comment, then shoot me a Cmail message.


9/15/2017 2:01:09 AM
It seems to be a new trend of submissive guys writing to me like we are in the middle of a conversation. Then when called on it, claim to have found an old message and responded.

My profile, until just about 3 weeks ago, has been hidden for the last two years and I had not signed into what was collarme for over a year.

We had no conversation, nor will will we now that you have called me a forgetful liar.

Gee, what a productive use of time.

8/22/2017 11:25:05 PM
I have turned on my profile again. Perhaps I will find someone I like who is turned on by it.

3/19/2015 8:03:55 PM
Read my profile and follow instructions therein.

It is that simple.

2/9/2015 3:44:25 PM
I admit the last time I signed in this place it was collarme but I don't understand why the new profile I edited is not showing up. Its a lot less harsh than the one currently being displayed. #themoreyouknow

2/6/2015 3:14:03 PM
My profile is back on again.

I will be checking for messages when CS sends my email notice that I have messages on CS.

Sending me a note on an internet website does hold behold me to you. Neither does a response.

Unless you are prepared to marry me on the 14th, don't bring up that day. We are not that close.

I do keep dick pics and repost them to other parts of the internet.

8/7/2013 3:41:20 PM

"But I didn't know that was important"

 

I made it clear from the beginning of our contact that honesty was required.

 

When you signed the play contract, you had to sign your name twice under separate lines that had 'I will not lie' and 'I understand I am to be honest with Miss Macey at all times'.

 

So when you repeatedly lied about the same thing and I told you I was done, your surprise was silly. Creating another account to bother me again was even dumber. 

 

My profile is unhidden again. I am now available to consider other submissive males.

 

ATTENTION:

If you cannot be honest with me, do not even bother messaging me.

Particularly if you are too "special" to follow my profile instructions.


11/3/2010 6:19:45 PM

Here is a special finger to randyflyboy 


Hope your spamming goes poorly and your IP gets banned


12/3/2009 3:41:37 AM
In return for all the penis, balls, ass, and other seriously undesirable photos of naked flesh I have been sent, I offer this link to a full-on nude spread. No credit card, no sign-up, no nothing extra (if you can read this, you have all the equipment) needed to view. Enjoy. http://tinyurl.com/ynupj4

8/15/2009 8:51:24 AM
IF I DO NOT KNOW YOU AND YOU SEND ME A MESSAGE WITHOUT A PICTURE OF YOUR ELBOW ATTACHED TO IT, I WILL DELETE IT AND BLOCK YOUR PROFILE. There is also a good chance I will send you a message mocking your time-wasting stupidity first. For those who show respect by reading my profile & this entire journal then following instructions therein, I reward them by reading their profile and asking a few get-to-know questions. Anyone who can't be bothered to be respectful isn't worthy of more.

7/20/2009 2:07:53 AM
To all the "special" people. If you have the skills and equipment to go online, create a profile and upload some kind of image, you have the ability to read and follow directions. My profile clearly states I will ignore you if you do not have a picture of your elbow attached to your [initial] message. Since I put that filter in, I have received nearly double my usual message load. 98% of which contains no image (either attached or on profile) at all. Of this grouping, 95% claim they cannot send me a pic but if I....blah, blah bullshit. Even the ones with profile photos (the most amusing ones having full body shots) claim they cannot do a pic of their elbow but if I...more blahshit Seriously, don't waste everyone's time with such contact. It just makes the CM delete-rator run slow and my list of TimeWasterProfiles get bigger. IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A PICTURE OF YOUR ELBOW ATTACHED TO YOUR MESSAGE, I WILL DELETE IT AND BLOCK YOUR PROFILE. There is also a good chance I will send you a "wow you are a yutz" message mocking you. Go find something better to do, like join another site where you can be a girl and have netsex with another fakerwanker without annoying real women.

7/11/2009 6:15:11 PM
I have been "perving" a lot of profiles of late. I have been reading the messageboards and clicking on interesting posters and then some people on their friends list. Its nothing personal that I don't message each and every profile I view. So if you find me on your "who's viewing" list, know that I found something about you interesting enough to look for more.

6/21/2009 5:24:57 PM
New filter: Those males who have read all of this and still think themselves compliant should message me with a weird fact about themselves and attach a photo of their elbow. Chose differently and I will chose ignore/block.

4/20/2009 5:37:16 PM
I know why people lie, but honestly, why do they think they can get away with the bullshit? I want a connection based on honesty. If I consider you based on your lies, your "reality" is going to be "an issue". At least I was able to get some perspective--before anything else was damaged...further. I am discovering I can be seemingly everything a lot of people think they want, but I am usually the one left wanting. 8-pegger seeks eight-hole'r, not six-square'r.

4/2/2009 12:59:38 PM
I had considered one person but then they chose not contact me again. As fate is want to do, nearly 30 hours later I met a wonderful guy who I am considering for everything.

Because of that, I am wrapping up correspondence on here and will hide my profile at the end.

I believe things happen for a reason and I am very glad I waited!

1/20/2009 2:52:20 AM
All the preferences have been written in this journal. If you refuse to bother, I chose to ignore and block. Its that simple.

12/12/2008 7:50:56 PM
If you know you cannot afford a long-distance relationship, then don't search for and contact people who are far away! I am to the point where anyone who is more than 10 miles away might as well go into my bulk folder as they are spam unworthy of my time. Surfing profiles when you're not serious is bad enough but stop contacting me with "well ur far away but r u interestd". Really, stop typing like a child. Put some effort into your words and if you are unable to afford a bus ticket across town, don't bother people halfway across the country (or globe even) with bullshit. We get enough of that with our politicians.

10/16/2008 11:13:15 PM
I turned my profile back on a few weeks ago. Apparently people can't read and comprehend time stamps.

8/12/2008 6:48:52 AM
I am getting seriously burnt out with this site--so I am taking a break for at least a week. i will be blanking my profile today and eventually hiding it when I'm sure everyone I want to has the message. If you have my new email address, use it exclusively. I will not be answering messages here on CM for awhile.

8/9/2008 11:53:45 AM
My profile clearly states that if you do not follow directions, you will not get a response. I also note that no photo=no reply.

Sending me a form message with no photo? No reply message.

Sending a second message calling me names for not replying? Profile blocked--without a reply.

Creating a new profile to send me the same message--again without a photo? Profile blocked and both reported.

Actions that prove you cannot follow instructions, have no respect and are unbalanced? A journal post on here and lots of mocking.

8/9/2008 11:39:08 AM
I read the forums/message boards on collarchat. If someone writes something that interests me, I check out their profile.

To those who feel that I am being misleading by viewing their profile when they are clearly incompatible with me--you are entitled to your feelings, but nastiness is unneccesary.

I deleted your foul messages and blocked your profile.  Try not to write anything interesting so no one will bother you again.

It is not a crime to want to know more about someone. Only when you do it in a wrong manner or when they want you to stop and you refuse--then its stalking.

8/1/2008 7:40:48 PM
I am not interested in those who already have children.

I do not care how old they are, with whom they reside, or how "little they will interfer".

I am especially not interested in you if you are married, engaged, "hanging wit chu baby mama til da fine Dome cum", or otherwise attached to someone.

People make choices. Respect my right to chose different.

7/20/2008 2:48:59 PM
I am not a fake.

If you want cyber, "discreet" hook-ups, and "private training" go bother someone else.

I would rather have an empty inbox than pages of bullcrap from people too lazy to google bdsm porn.

BDSM compatibility only does not make a connection. Only real humans interested in discovering "vanilla" compatibilities should contact me.

7/11/2008 1:21:32 AM
I expressed my feelings through words on a screen. I did not threaten anyone nor did I use their personal contact information for childish abuse.

I have the right to refuse contact from anyone. But my right to a private email address--and the knowledge of who had it--was deliberately breached by those upset by a post containing the username of someone violating the TOS [against me]; itself not a violation of the TOS.

Sharing private off-site information with the intent of harassment

Vs.

Posting a username--which can be changed or removed at any time--on a site only accessible by members who would have access to the name anyway (which is not a violation of the TOS in effect as of October 23, 2007 and last modified December 26, 2007)


One was a greater crime of "outing" than the other. The post was deleted, my email address cannot regain its privacy.

And while I will continue to get spam, the member did not suceed with me.

Everyone has the right to say No to someone and refuse further contact. It is listed several times in the Terms of Service. Not only does Collarme ask its users to respect that right but the BDSM community at-large notes it as a basic right of anyone.

I have no interest in anyone who has no respect for rights.

7/8/2008 6:16:42 AM
There is a difference between the following messages.

"hey u get wet by the floods cuz u makin me wet i got a place 4 u!!!!"

"I see your getting a lot of rain. Are you alright?"

"u cute got rain i can dry u off"

"Were you in the flood area?"

"u a bictch for bein mean 2 peeps abut da floods i care bout cm in truble"

"ur a cunt who should die in a flood bitch"

7/5/2008 11:56:04 PM
I am residing in Iowa.

To all the males who messaged me about whether or not I was affected by the floods--your cheap attempt at empathy was pathetic.

To those who I had let know I wasn't interested before, but who felt compelled to message me about the floods--your attempt was even sadder...especially weeks later.

If I wanted to share my experiences, I would put them online, maybe even in this journal. However,  I will certainly not pour my heart out to several chumps who took to labeling me with childish names because I called them on their tactic(s).

"but i wuz just tellin u i card" {sic}

No.

I will not be forced on anyone else's schedule. Threatening to 'out' me for refusing to do what you think you want me to do for you is why you are still single, with no Real experience (online does not count), and trolling for single females at 3 am.

I do not regret blocking any of the referenced people.

6/30/2008 4:27:53 AM
Why I don't have good experiences with Doms: {note, this is his third message and while he approached me, he was still in the bulk folder}

<<Yes I fully agree with you on these fakes on here,I have been on here for 6 mo. and have not found anybody,what a joke? yes it is very frustrating,meet a woman for 2-4 chats then they block me? I cannot figure it out,I like your likes,My Mistress left to go back home someware in the midwest and cannot find her,I did not talk to her for 6 mo.due to family problems,I just loved being her body worshiper,she called me her privite sucker,I really love pleasing a woman even though I'am a dom,so why cannot 2 doms get along???? yes I would be very pleased to have a BEAUTIFUL lady as yourself chat with me,what do you think of my wants? and picture? would love to see you in a bathing suit? you see I'm not into just sex, it is about a realationship.well singing off now have to get early for work.Hope to hear from you soon I loved it.Sincerely FirstName LastName>> {note: it was deliberately bolded in the original message as well}

1. Google spell-check is your friend.
2. The space bar is a bigger pal!

Trying to slog through this run-on mess is irritating. But since I'm a generous mood, I'll dissect it for the kiddies at large.

Yes I fully agree with you on these fakes on here,I have been on here for 6 mo. and have not found anybody,what a joke?

As anyone who has been on here more than six months will tell you: a) there are a lot of fakes on here because its free and accessible--but if people paid, less quality people would try and CM would become a joke; and b) trying to approach both dominant and submissive women with conflicting stories will not get you anyone fast--which makes you a bad joke.

yes it is very frustrating,meet a woman for 2-4 chats then they block me? I cannot figure it out,

I expressed sympathetic frustration in my previous response to him. Echoing my words exactly really doesn't do it for me.

And what does he consider 2-4 chats? Is he using the CM chat, a instant messenger with a few exchanges, or is that the aggregate of what it took me--three messages--here on CM?

If he can't figure out why both Dommes and female subs quickly block him, its no wonder he thinks everyone's a fake--they're onto his game!

I like your likes,My Mistress left to go back home someware in the midwest and cannot find her,

First, if he likes my likes, then why does he do several things I REALLY DISLIKE? I remember posting previously that talk of "the last one that got away" was one of my danger signs. But of course this guy claimed to have read my profile and journal so he should know that!

And second, for "a dom whose never been into dom girls", why exactly did you have a Mistress then? And what did you do that you cannot find her now? I'm hoping thats by her choice!


I did not talk to her for 6 mo.due to family problems,

I'm guessing your wife discovered something and you had to lay low so Mistress took the opportunity to disappear.

I just loved being her body worshiper,she called me her privite sucker,I really love pleasing a woman even though I'am a dom,so why cannot 2 doms get along????

So, that claim of never submitting to a woman was just a warm-up so you could tell me about how you body worshipped--at least I hope thats what privite part of her you were sucking--your previous mistress. Because thats going to turn me on?

And you love pleasing a woman but you're a dom so I should get along with you because I'm a domme--even though "only real sub women need apply" in your profile.

I wonder if this how Jimmy Carter got that peace treaty signed?!


yes I would be very pleased to have a BEAUTIFUL lady as yourself chat with me,


I get that I'm beautiful. If I didn't think I was cute-ish, I would put deliberately bad photos up to ask people to pretend to like them. And if you're so pleased to be chatting with me, then why do you have to stress it over and over--in exactly the same creepy way--like you're wanking to me?


what do you think of my wants? and picture?


Let's see, you told me you like my likes but I'm supposed to accept your wants and like them. I think not much lines up in our interest lists--aside from body worship.

Oh and your picture? I got tired of complimenting the out-of-focus, far away shot of a guy in tennis shoes, long socks, shorts, a t-shirt
with a ball cap shading the face. It could be Tom Cruise or Will Ferrell--especially in the height department.

Honestly, if a guy is a few inches shorter than me, I really don't care as long as the other stuff--like interests and toilet paper roll-way--line up.

Most females I know feel this way. Its when guys lie about it and then claim fear of honesty "then you wouldn't like me" that it becomes an issue. Let us get to know the real you and decide for ourselves if we like you!!!

Nothing pisses us off more than to find out we fell for someone who doesn't exist because you made yourself up! And not even in a fake-it-til-you-make-it kinda way, just flat out whoppers like "I'm single and have no kids". Ya know, stuff that WILL BE DISCOVERED--especially in a Real Relationship, offline, in-person, and face-to-face.


would love to see you in a bathing suit? you see I'm not into just sex, it is about a realationship.

I haven't seen you and already you're asking for a more explicit photo of me? Followed by "you see I'm not into just sex"? Oh my, let me pause to howl for a moment...

Wooo. I needed that belly laugh.

"it is about a realationship" OOOOOOWWWWWWWWWW

Whew. Okay. I'm guessing you deliberately spelt realationship as such because you want a real one. Alright, a real relationship starts with honesty. I have never had a lasting connection with someone when everything they first told me about themselves turned out to be a lie.


well singing off now have to get early for work.Hope to hear from you soon I loved it.Sincerely FirstName LastName

I did not know he could sing. Oh, right, the 'I'm supposed to interpret what they mean because they can't be bothered to take the time and write a real message with spacing and punctuation like a grown-up' thing--that I'm tired of doing.

I'm not sure what they're getting early for work but I'll wager they were wanking off beforehand.

I did respond--a few hours after they sent it, but almost five minutes after I read it--with a polite "not interested anymore" and "do not contact me again" message. Which was more than he deserved, but I did get more material for this blog and I don't want a karma bite.

Whether the name he gave was real or not, I'm not the type to keep it, his city name and his picture on file. But there are those who do it--specifically to check when people with the same pictures, form introduction, and plagiarized profile contact them again. I'm not that cynical...yet.

----

I learned plenty about this person-all what they chose to reveal about themselves.

1) They lie.
2) They claim to be a Dom wanting a female sub but also a Dom with a previous Mistress who also thinks a Domme will work for him.
3) I am their current wank profile here on CM.
4) They have no real experience and do not know what they want because no one is playing their fantasy the way they want it--which is what makes them A DOM.


I still hope to have more than one pleasant ongoing exchange with a male dominant on here but my energies are better wished on find a true male submissive who lines up with me!

6/28/2008 3:55:23 AM
God gave men brains larger than dogs so they wouldn't hump women's legs at parties. ~ Ruth Libby

Me     Them

Tell me about yourself.

Pretend you are sitting across from me. Pitch a little woo, puff yourself up and impress me.

Miss Macey
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Miss Macey,
"You look very beautiful tonight. Are you in the mood for a full body massage? You have an icredible body that I know needs massaging." When you have had enough of the massage I would say "Miss Macey may I paint your toenails for you if you need them painted?" Then after that If you allow me I would  say "Miss Macey can I start at your toes and  start lick whole body?" I would stop at the hot spot and spend a lot of time there and then go to your abdomen and breasts and if I am lucky I would get to kiss you. If I am really lucky you would allow me to have intercourse with you but if not we would lie together and hold each other.

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Really? Right to the body and sex? I am disappointed.


That definitely told me about you.

Miss Macey

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Goodnight Miss Macey

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Gee was it something I said? {NOT SENT}


6/25/2008 12:34:04 AM
I check out the "Who's Viewing Me?" when it turns red.

If its an unknown screenname, I check out the profile. If I am interested, I'll write.

But for those who repeatedly view me even when I make it clear we are not compatible--go google porn. I'm trying to find Real People.


6/17/2008 1:19:51 AM
I had a solid birthday.

Thank you everyone.

6/4/2008 7:38:17 AM
Another "Dom" sent me a message letting me know what was wrong about my profile and then telling me how he switches erotically and he'll send me a picture if I respond.

Dear clueless:
If you had followed the directions in my profile--about reading this journal--you would know how stupid your 'information' was and why I had a good laugh at your cheap expense.

Also, not including a photo is further asshat-ery. How hard is it to include any kind of image. But I forgot, you are a Dom and oh so special!

Now I get to wonder if you'll report my profile which would force me to wait for the admins to resettle something from over a year ago.

Really, did you have nothing better to do?
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I list misszoe's name because she refuses to take down my photo. The admins have already dealt with this and bringing it up again is a waste of time for everyone.

I'll reiterate again--I am not interested in people who refuse to follow my instructions.

What is really sad is that in the entire time I have been on here only one "Dom" has been a decent person to me. The rest are faux brat assholes who:

1) are Doms but will switch for me--but they can't change their profile "because everyone knows them as a Dom";

2) send me ridiculous messages full of crap regarding information that is already addressed in my profile and this journal;

and

3) "believe domes {sic} are just needing a real Dom to fuck them straigt {sic}.

I guess I'll have to go back to blocking all Doms from contact since the few need to mess it up for all!

 

6/2/2008 10:19:53 AM
I find it very telling that the people who felt compelled to write me and point out I don't currently have a photo up are all listed as male dominants. And you fellas wonder why most female Dominants have no interest in dealing with y'all. Since it can take up to 72 hours for the human moderators--who I am sure have lives beyond this site--to approve photos, I have no idea when my images will reappear, as the other three are not visible without an approved main photo. And you cannot move an additional photo to the main position without the same wait time. But thank you to all the buttwipes who reminded me why I have every message from a "Dom" send to my bulk folder for deletion. Its sad they had nothing better to do--like put a photo of themselves up. Only ONE of the people who contacted me about this great travesty had an image on their profile. Do remove that glass before some clueless sub crawls over it to pelt you with one of your own stones, little boys.

6/2/2008 2:44:29 AM
No photo, no reply.

No follow directions=no reply
.

If you want to know why you did not get a response from me, that is why.

Read my profile, read this journal. Absorb the information and follow the instructions therein.

No photo in profile and/or no photo attached to message? NO REPLY.

I don't care how breathlessly you are kneeling at my feet. I have no respect and absolutely no desire to dominate anyone who choses not to follow my very first direction--INCLUDE A PHOTO.

I'm not looking to collect images. I'm not looking to 'out' anyone. I want to see if you are compatible with me. Those with brains enough to follow the direction show this--and get rewarded with a response.

I don't care what you do or who you are, if you refuse to follow a basic simple instruction, I will ignore you--YOU are not special enough to be an exception.

5/23/2008 9:31:29 PM
If you "went to all the trouble" of writing a nice message and then didn't include a photo, it got deleted.

If you then sent an empty message with a photo attached, it got deleted.

If you then sent me three messages full of vitrol because you didn't follow my instructions, you were blocked.

Because you then set up another profile and resent the nasty messages, you were reported.

And yet you still don't get it.

No follow directions=no reply.

Acting like a child=no contact.

Being a complete psycho arse=reported.

5/9/2008 12:22:33 AM
I just blocked another one who claimed to have read my profile and journal, yet made an incorrect reference to one and then was surprised when I did not respond to them. That they failed to include a photo in either message was bad enough but lying to me with their first words--about having read my profile/journal--was not worthy of more attention. If you read my profile and journal--this being it right here, BOTH state that no initial message without a photo attached or a photo in your profile will get a response. I even shortened it to help the challenged: No photo-no reply. Messaging me again whining will not change my mind. If I cannot trust you with a simple instruction--INCLUDE A PHOTO--then I will not bother to read on about "how gorgeous, wealthy, hung and ready to be my utter everything if I would just respond". If you cannot read and follow directions, I have no interest in you! No Photo=NO REPLY

5/8/2008 12:28:31 AM
How not to waste my time:

1) Write a nice message.
Tell me about yourself. Woo me with something that would interest me. "yo u hot, wanna fuck" is a BAD example!

2) Include a photo.
If you think you have some special reason to not include one in a private message, you are too special for me. I will not even reply with a reminder. No photo=no reply.

3) Accept my decision.
Changing your profile, altering photos and forgetting previous details will not get you a second chance. No means no.




And to the extra-special douche who burned my friend and then tried to justify his actions with a new line of bull to me--I hope your family finds out just what kind of person you really are! We are too good to bother more with you.

4/25/2008 2:52:22 PM
I do not get it. People take the time to read enough of my profile so that they say something about my family situation and thats supposed to make me swoon over their 'caring' and just let them slide on everything else--like a photo?! People, if you want me to believe you are worth my interest, show some respect and obey my initial instructions (laid out all over my profile and this journal)!! Grr. Do it right or do not bother, it is a waste for all.

4/13/2008 11:15:29 PM
Pretending like you know me does not excuse you from the picture rule. No photo=no reply. I already took a chance putting my image up. No bravery=no reward.

4/13/2008 10:10:43 PM
WHY did I not respond to your (last) message? No photo in profile and/or attached to first message=deletion! This is 85% of my trash on here. Unrequested naked photos, foul language and foreign continent location are the immediately banned 10%. The final 5% are just plain incompatible. Learn to follow the simple direction of including a photo with your message or Do Not Bother to contact me as its a waste of MY time to delete the dumb stuff and ban you from contacting me.

4/2/2008 9:05:56 PM
How to get no response from me--

1. Send a message without a photo.

If you have no image in your profile nor one attached to the initial message, you will be ignored for sheer laziness.

2. Send two or three message without a photo, then a blank message with just the photo attached.

I ignore, ban and delete regularly. I don't read no-photo messages from unknown people. So getting mad at me that I don't immediately fall at your feet because you didn't follow directions will just get you blocked and reported.

3. Sending me a message more than six months after initial contact with no information.

I seriously had a guy from 19 MONTHS ago contact me today. No photo in profile, repeated "hey baby remember me" messages (with no photo attached to any of them) and then a pissy one because I wouldn't respond.

Newsflash.
I don't remember, let alone keep the various images sent to me. The photo demand is my first test of compatibility--and intelligence. So sending me messages because I replied to you once two years ago will not get you anywhere.

If I do not remember you, remind me. If I do not know you at all, follow the contact directions in my profile and journal. 

Aggressive pushiness is NOT a good tactic to take with a Dominant. Period.


3/21/2008 10:11:12 PM
Due to family illness, I am in the NW region of Iowa (I'm putting Sioux City as a reference point, not actual location--I'm not looking to get outed).

I will be 'here' for the rest of March and all of April for sure with tentative plans for May.

If someone reading this is interested in getting to know me to possibly play together, do the following:

1) Write a nice message.
Don't send me the same bullshit form letter you do all the Dommes. Don't try to guess at what I want to read. Pretend you're reading it to my face.


2) Get a recent photo of your face online--to include with the message.
I'm not looking to out anyone. But if I can't trust you now, I won't trust you later.

3) Be real in your profile.
I will be looking at this too.
No bravado about your skills, your penis, or your wallet. I want to be woo'd with the truth, not something I'll be disappointed about later and probably dump you for lying.

Have a nice weekend everyone. I'm looking forward to the cheap chocolate on Monday.

12/11/2007 1:19:32 PM
November was fun but I'm taking December for my family and 'real life'.

I will be back in Minneapolis during January. I'm still looking for that special One but I'm having a lot of fun with whats available now!


10/10/2007 7:52:11 PM
September was so nice I've decided to try and up the fun by doing it again in November.

If you are from (or will be visiting) the Twin Cities area and would like to meet with me during a weekend (Fri-Mon) in November, write me a nice introduction message and include a photo.

Woo me.

8/28/2007 3:45:32 PM
Alas, things did not work out as I had hoped. But hope springs eternal.

I am spending most of September in the Twin Cities (Minneapolis/St. Paul) of Minnesota.

If you are interested in a session, write me a nice message on here and attach a real and recent photo of your face.

Should I like your message, I will contact you further about meeting--which will happen before any play!

If I think your message is pathetic, small and a waste of my time or doesn't have a photo or is a combination of the above, then I will ignore it by not replying, delete it and put you on ignore--meaning I will not see another message from your account again.

No consideration will be given to:
1) anyone wanting scenes from my hard limits list;

2) someone who is under 30 or over 55;

3) anyone who does not follow basic hygiene and mental health standards;

4) anyone wanting random hook-up sex--this includes oral, vaginal and anal of me and oral of males and oral and vaginal of females.

So be careful before contacting me!

8/14/2007 10:16:07 PM
I have suspended my sessions while I seriously consider someone.

To be fair, I am not looking at anyone else until after the 'trial period'.

Should things not work out with this person, I will be resuming both my search and doing sessions.

Until then, please DO NOT CONTACT ME.

I suggest you look around here and hopefully things will work out.

7/14/2007 4:19:07 PM
The sessions I am doing are playdates. People cover expenses, like they would on a 'regular' date, and then a BDSM scene or fantasy is played [out].

While there is some sexual contact (CBT for example) of the other person--there is NO sexual contact of me. I remain dressed.

That should aleviate some of the questions I have been getting about my sessions. I consider them no different then getting together with my game pals and flexing our Mah-Jong skills.

Until that right person comes along, I am doing sessions to keep up my BDSM interests. NOTHING MORE.

If you are someone truly interested in me as a person as well as a Domme, write me a nice message and be willing to communicate honestly with me.

Oh, and thanks everyone for the support regarding my stolen photo, but PLEASE do not contact and/or harass the screenname of the person who swiped it. The CollarMe.com staff has made their position clear (they can't tell who to believe) and I don't want to lose MY account!!

7/8/2007 8:10:16 PM
I am still doing sessions.

My schedule is very busy with life and such so sessions are secondary--which means my calendar fills up fast.

Do NOT contact me if you have no photo or want sex.

4/6/2007 12:17:44 AM
I am booked solid through to June.

I do not yet know if I will be doing sessions after that, but if people are interested, here is what you need to know:

1) you will be paying.
I expect my transportation (gas, airfare...), location (hotel room...), food (subway, red lobster...) and any toys and/or clothes you want to be covered.

If you want free, I ain't she.

2) you will email me and have at least one IM before I consider meeting you. I do not randomly meet strangers.

3) There is no guarantee.
I will not have sex with you but I can give you a happy feeling.
If I get a weird vibe about your no-window van, sloppy appearance and talk about "the last one" I will leave and there will be no play and no further contact.

And finally, if you do not send a photo yet demand more of mine, I will delete your empty message and block you as soon as I see it. Clearly you are too stupid to google porn.

3/14/2007 1:39:21 AM
I will be doing sessions until May.

There are very strict and unbreakable rules people must follow in order to be considered.

First, if no photo is sent with the first message (especially if there is not on in your CM profile)--it will be deleted without response.

Second, my expenses will be covered by the other person(s). If you are too cheap to handle this, do not contact me. you are not special. I will not break this rule.

Third, unless someone has their photo taken during our session(s), they are not entitled to more photos of me. If you're looking for photos and a fantasy by email, it will cost you.

Fourth, if you refuse to give me information about yourself, I will not give you any of mine. I have already taken the risk by putting myself on here and am willing to back up what I write. If you are not, bugger off.

Failure to comply with these rules will get your id blocked and I will see no further communications from you.



2/27/2007 11:06:01 PM
Why does everyone think they are entitled to be the exception? I have preferences listed for a reason.

Also, if you do not send me a photo--I will ignore and delete your message.

Plus, if you cannot send me a real message instead of the same generic one to everyone, then you are too lazy for me.

I was really disappointed this month. There are a lot more people here on CollarMe who just want beck-and-call Dommes to use as sexual mistresses rather than any real relationship. Sad.


2/1/2007 9:45:49 PM
If you lie in your profile and your message ends up in my Bulk Folder, it will get deleted without a look.

If you do not send a photo with your first message, it will get deleted.

If you continue to send me messages after I have generously told you to either send me a photo or flake off, you will be blocked--and reported.

If you send me a photo and cannot remember what you look like in it, clearly you are going to be blocked.

And to the child who stole my profile photos and put them on their profile and website, people let me know and I have filed complaints. Just because your profile says you are in another country does not mean you are hidden.

I can back up my images with others that were taken at the same time. I look like my photos, both fat and thin. If you are looking for "a real person" and you use photos of another, you are just setting up your own house of lies downfall.

1/31/2007 11:23:51 PM
Gimme gimme gimme.

I was asked for more photos, so I put more up. I was asked for more explicit photos and I said no.

I was asked for contact information, I gave out my personal IM name. I was asked for my home phone number and I said no.

I was asked to prove that I am a girl, so I took a rather obvious photo of my naked torso. I was asked to pay for a call so they could listen to me describe myself, and I said no.

Why is it the more I prove I am who and what I say I am, the faster people disappear and yet people have the nerve to claim I'm being pushy or nosy when I ask them the same information they are demanding of me?

Judge not yet ye will be judged? Or I will dump you before you can dump me even if we really are not right for each other anyway?

I do not get how hiding is supposed to help find a Real person. If you cannot be yourself with the masks of CM, a free email account and photos of everything but your face, then you really should not be looking for another to see the "real you underneath".



1/28/2007 11:29:17 PM
This is specifically for the snotty persons who feel the need to point out that the two photos currently available do not show my face and thus my bravery claim and demand for reciprical photos is silly.

Bugger off.

My third photo was not approved after I wrote the profile. I have since submitted two more photos for approval.

I am amused that those who felt compelled to take me to task were all male doms. No wonder most female Dominants do not want to deal with you fellas.

1/28/2007 2:25:55 AM
Oh wow!

I received so many responses I thought the message box was messed up.

Thank you to those who followed directions. I replied to every one of you.

To those who are older than 60 or younger than 27, you were deleted--especially if you also did not have a photo.

To the guy who sent a message I deleted and then sent a photo and then sent another empty message, I blocked you for annoying me.

To those people who wanted to know what a dry ice box involves, its this---a box thats usually coffin-sized for one or two people, filled with dry ice pumped from the outside.

Its meant to heighten sexual contact as a form of asphyxiation (I spelt that right?). You have to be careful not to use too much or time it wrong or you'll die from the fumes. It can also be used for sensory deprivation.

I no longer will have anything to do with dry ice.

And finally to the person who sent me a picture of a dick photoshopped into my boobs--I blocked you too creepy.

For being in the middle of nowhere, I am surprised how many people are happy to want to visit. It can be a fun place...with me.

1/27/2007 1:37:58 AM
Hello all.

My name is Macey.

I started getting interested in BDSM in college. I was active both as an undergrad and during certification.

Now I live in a small town where there is not much local activity.

I am looking to have fun with people and work on my skills. I figure the easiest place is to start online but I want to end up with real offline in-person play.

Anyone contacting me must have a photo either in their profile or with the message they send. This is not negotiable! I will delete all first messages without photos and not read them.

I look forward to hearing from y'all.

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