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I have spent over 22 years in this lifestyle. I am currently looking for that one special person who can fill a certain part of my life. Simple and easy. I am strict and demanding.

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4/10/2014 8:25:34 AM

I want to touch on this problem I have been seeing a lot of.  And that is this thing of submissives saying that they are collared.  I want to make sure that people truly understand why that isn't possible.

 

First off a slave is collared.  Not a submissive.  And this goes back to when there were actual slaves.  The collars were there to keep the property from running away.  It also showed that that person was property.  This lifestyle isn't that different from those times.  When a person wants to be a slave, they are giving up their rights.  They are becoming property.  And thus are collared.

 

Secondly, the reason why a submissive can't be collared, is because that person isn't giving up their rights.  They are just accepting a role to serve a more dominate person than they are.  That is what a submissive does.  The willfully submit to a more alpha person.  They aren't giving anything up.  They are just choosing to follow.  So by that very nature they are never owned.  And thus can never be collared. 

 

Thirdly, a slave has a Master and a submissive has a Dom.  If you are a baby girl, then you have a Daddy Dom.  Not a Daddy Master.   So if a Dom tells you that he is your Master and you are a sub, then that Dom doesn't have a clue as to what he is talking about or doing. 

 

Lastly, remember this if you ever want to know what you are.  " A submissive chooses to have choices, while a slave chooses to have none."  


3/6/2014 7:22:11 AM

I am constantly amazed by the people who take selfies.  If you are going to take a selfie in your bathroom or bedroom, at least clean your shit up.  Other wise you just look like a fucking slob!


1/31/2013 11:55:40 AM

50 Shades of Grey has fucked things up!!! 


12/23/2011 1:17:32 PM

Some days I just can't win for loosing.  As 99 would say.... I was this close

 

UGHGHGH back to the old grind stone again.


11/12/2010 5:22:48 AM

Well it is the Friday after Veteran's Day and I wonder how many people actually called a Veteran to wish them Happy Veteran's Day.  I say this because it all goes towards knowing who your friends are.  All of my friends know about my military service, but I did find it funny how only one person called me. 

 

Now don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining, but if you look at those who you can truly call your friends, how many do the little things that just make you happy?????

 

And that statement segways into service.  I have had some interesting conversations throughout the week and I got to thinking.  How many subs/slaves understand how to truly make their Doms/Masters happy?  And no I don't mean serving them food or getting them a drink or massaging them. I mean doing one small insignificant thing that just makes them smile. 

 

So when you are serving look at something small, something that normally you wouldn't pick up on and try to see if it makes the one yoru serving smile without really knowing it........


8/2/2009 6:15:07 PM
If you are going to email me or talk to me, then make sure you type things out.  I'm not into this stupid "text" typing. 

Those who do that, are just to lazy to do it properly!

7/9/2009 8:04:41 PM

As I sit here comtemplating life in general a thought struck me.  How alone are we.  Better yet, how alone am I.  I look at people and wish that the depth of emptiness I feel could be transfered and expelled so that I could be whole.

No matter where I am, i'm alone, empty and cold.  Even if I'm in a room full of people I will always be set apart from everyone.  An outsider, a thing that isn't quite whole. 

I'm not saying that life is bad, but when one has lived the life I have and learned to compartmentalize things it makes life difficult.  It is never easy to open up and never easy to give freely.  There always seems to be some reason for something, and it never quite makes sense. 

I push and I pull to figure out how to become more whole and full in not only my heart but my soul.  Have I been close?  Absolutly, but does fear keep one from taking the leap of faith or does the unkown of everything keep one from leaping? 

When given the chance I think it is easier to run and hide.  Delving into the depths of a cold heart.  Why???  Because it is familiar.  Because it is a place that one knows will never be entered by anyone else.  Life is a bitch, but the cold is always a bit easier to take.  The black is always there.  The brain, heart and soul know it.  They live there, revel in the depth of misery and pain.  Do they know where the exit is? 

We all want peace and we all want hope to be part of us. We all want to feel that part that makes us jump for joy when no one is looking.  I of all people wish I could have the simple joy my niece has. When I watch her just run and giggle.  But for me, that will never be there.  Joy was pushed out a long time ago and I'm afraid will never return.

I have pushed it away before and am sure it will happen again.  Why?? Fear.  Fear is the great equalizer.  It keeps things at bay and allows others to come in.  It is what allows us to know we are right or wrong. 

I don't have all the answers to life.  I wish I did, but I do know, that I had the chance at one time to be happy and let fear in and lost it.  Not because I was afraid of the future, but afraid to leave the dark.  And that is what keeps me empty!

5/10/2009 1:57:38 PM
Happy Mother's Day to all !!!!

5/5/2009 7:10:43 PM
Holy shit batman, it has been a long while since I have written in this journal.  Last week  I did a little test to see who my true friends were.  I purposely stopped talking to several and all but two have at least sent me an IM.   It just goes to show you that no matter how much or how many time you talk to someone that they are never truly a friend. 

So I pose this to you..look at the people you talk to.  Look at the people you give advice to and try to mentor and see if they are truly worth it.

For now I know who is worth my time and who isn't.

12/7/2008 5:21:54 PM
Wow, it has been a while since I have written in here.  I always wondered why some people are so chicken shit that they can email someone, and then block them so they don't see the response. 

I have come to the realization that they are just people who are scared of the truth or scared to face the music, so to speak. 

So to put it in a nut shell...PUSSIES!

10/8/2008 3:37:22 PM
Man, there are some days I just can't catch a break! 

10/5/2008 4:59:24 PM
I am getting tired of taking the time to write someone and then just having them fall off the face of the earth.  And it isn't just about having bad conversations.  It is about have great ones, and then all the sudden nothing. 
So I am saying this, if you don't want to take the time to have good conversations and you don't want to take the time to move forward, don't waste my fucking time!

10/3/2008 3:39:44 PM
I look at these profiles and I see how a lot of people talk about not answering one liners and not talking to people who don't have pics with their emails. 

The question begs, if someone takes the time to actually write a decent email, then why not take the time to reply with more than one sentence.  I know that it has happened to me several times and not to name anyone, but they are usually the ones who have those stupid statements in their journals. 

Talk about bullshit!


9/27/2008 7:19:25 PM
Loneliness is such a pain in the ass.  No matter how much we try, until we are totally complete, we will always be alone.  We work hard on finding the right one and we work on searching for that one elusive needle in a field of haystacks. It can be difficult and the search always seems to take longer than one expects it to.  All we have to hold on to is thought, desire and wanting for that elusive needle. 
And while we continue our search we are again alone and still bitching it out.

9/15/2008 10:33:12 AM
I haven't written in here for a while, but wanted to express a thought on something I read yesterday in a profile. 

i read that someone was looking for a couple who both were dominant.  Well as many of you who have talked to me in the past know, that I believe it is in the details that allows a D/s or an M/s relationship work.  And here is one of those details.

While I can understand someone looking for both parties to be dominant, there is ALWAYS someone is the the "Alpha" of the relationship.  I don't care how you slice it, dice it or cut it, that is just the way that it is.  Yes, one might be dominant at certain times, but in ALL cases there is an "Alpha" of the house. 

This being the case, that would mean that there is ALWAYS a bottom.  While there is a fine line in this argument, if you take a step back and look at it, it is that way.  It does not matter if the male or the female is the "Alpha" they are still the one that everything goes back to. 

So while people say they don't want to be a sister/brother slave or sub to anyone, but want both to be dominant, they need to understand that they will in fact be that.  The only difference is that there is a lead submissive.

So while we talk about serving and about wanting this and that, let's look at the fine details and then see if that is really what we want and expect.



6/26/2008 5:35:11 AM
I just love dealing with wanna bes and fakes on here.  It makes the whole thing worthwhile.  What a joke!!

1/31/2008 12:56:12 PM
Well this is my first time writing in this journal.  i am not sure if it will make me feel any better or not, but what the hell, i'll give it a shot. 

I am amazed at people.  When you take the time to get to know someone, and work on developing a quality base for something greater, why is it that they either stop talking to you or decide that they no longer wish?

I can definetly understand that if they have found someone else that they are starting to get more serious with.  But at least have the honor and courtisy to let the other person know.  What happened to honor, respect and common courtesy?

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Florrie1855
 
 Age: 21
 Louisville, Kentucky