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I’ve been on this site for many years (back when it was CollarMe). While the current profile is relatively new, that’s only because I needed to recreate it. Suffice it to say, after 35+ years of experience and exploring with a variety of people, I know exactly what I want in play and in a person. I will not settle for less than what I desire. Now while I do enjoy sex in all its forms, I love the sensuality of being a sadist. Is there no one on this site that loves the sweet seduction of sadism? one who loves to feel the slow, methodical increase of delicious pain as it courses over their skin. Someone who craves to feel the helplessness when their body betrays them and the pain turns into pleasure… It takes a special person who can find the eroticism in feeling the cruelty of being used by a sadist. It’s not about how hard one can spank or whip, but getting someone to that point of nearly being broken, only to pull back… a bit. Then switching gears to truly fuck with their mind. Be that as it may, some of the profiles on this site astound Me. It’s quite obvious that a great many people on here have no fucking clue what D/s and BDSM is truly about. No one appreciates the long slow dance that goes on between a Dom and their sub any more. It’s all fun and games being played by those who don’t know what game they’re really playing. Far too many playing at “50 shades” and not enough dealing with reality on here. And then the dance begins…

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12/6/2023 6:56:00 PM

'Tis the season and all.  I'm always hopeful that I'll get the present I know I deserve.  I scrumptious little subbie who satifies My cravings.


7/8/2023 2:50:49 PM

Why the fuck are men contacting me? I'm NOT interested in men. If you're part of a couple or trans, fine. No fucking solo men! 


1/14/2023 9:35:45 AM

I was debating as to whether I was going to say anything about this or not, but I decided to say fuck it and get it off my chest.

The past couple of weeks I've had meetings set up with people I've talked with on this site.  Three meetings to be exact.  Three different people.  Well, four actually, as one was with a couple.  All three meetings were to be in a public place of their choosing as I wanted them to be comfortable. All three meetings were, of course, different days and times.  I was also upfront in letting them all know I had others I was considering.  ALL of them were supposedly fine with it.

First meeting, she shows up.  We talk a bit, have a drink before dinner. We sit down for dinner, order, we eat, we talk, by all appearances it's going well.  I need to step away for a bit.  I come back and she's gone.  No idea why as she's ignored all contact now.  I hope she enjoyed the $300 dinner I just shelled out.

Second meeting, the couple. They show up, have a couple of drinks, get ready to have dinner, they turn around and leave.  I follow them out to ask why and they said they only wanted the free drinks...

Third and final meeting.  She does show. Unfortunately, she's also there to meet 2 other men at the same time!  All three of us were confused, but all three of us said fuck off and walked out.  She has been in contact, but I told her I'm no longer interested.

Look, it's fucking simple, just be real.  These people wasted my time, wasted my money, all for free food and drinks.  If I make it a point to actually want to meet you, I'm interested!  Don't fucking play games.  I only wish I could mention their names, but CS won't like it.


10/16/2022 7:07:56 PM

One person decided to email Me and attempted to point out a supposed grammatical "error" in my previous journal post...  I suggest she look up the phrase "scare quote".  


9/29/2022 5:00:24 PM

You know what I am attracted to most of all?  Intelligence.  Put some thought into your responses to Me.  Don't just send a one word response or ignore a direct question.  And, yes, spelling and grammar counts, too.  I know CS, for some idiotic reason, tends to delete the apostrophes, but even if they're gone, the spelling of the word is still there.  So those ladies who know the difference between "your" and "you're" or "there", "their", and "they're", they're the ones who are going to get My attention. 

I should also note that there is a reason I said "ladies".  I am not looking for men, unless you're part of a couple.  I love all things feminine.  Women, trans, and couples.  That's it.


9/23/2022 7:00:25 PM

The more I talk/email people, the more the fakes keep coming out.  It's fucking ridiculous.


9/20/2022 2:38:58 AM

Man, there are so many so called submissives on here who claim to want to be "completely controlled" and yet balk at the simplest of things. And forget about actually talking and getting to know one another, asking questions is apparently something I shouldn't do as I should already know all about them.  Being sub is just a fantasy to many on here and not real life. SMH.

Anyway, as I look at my profile, I notice I should make changes, mainly my age. At this typing, I'm 60. Also, no idea why it's not checked off, I'm also interest in submissive trans. I'm not going to go through the effort to change the profile and have it wait in stasis for months.  So this will have to do.  


7/17/2022 9:29:15 AM

Are there any real, true submissives on this site? The few I've talked with were just on here to fuck around and fantasize. It might be time to start naming names....

I know I sound angry, but I absolutely hate My time being wasted.  I'm serious in what I'm looking for, I'm not here to play games or have an online "relationship". It just feels like most of the people on here are fake.  SMH.


4/17/2018 7:24:54 AM
I hate spelling and grammatical errors. If your profile or your email to Me is full of them, I won't respond to you kindly. Seriously, it's not all that difficult to know the difference between "your" and "you're", or "there", "they're", and "their". If you're lax in your spelling, that says a lot about you.

12/25/2017 11:43:12 AM
MAJOR pet peeve: people who never respond to emails. Sending a few words is not that fucking hard, even if you're not interested.

11/4/2017 9:11:36 PM
Some of these profiles on this site and some of the people behind them.....? They have no fucking clue as to what D/s truly is.? It's just a little game for them to play.

Idiots.

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Lonewolfssub
 
 Submissive, Age:  50
 Toronto, ON, Canada
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