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It is not the kiss of the whip, but the whispered word... To please ones flesh lasts but a moment to touch ones soul lasts a lifetime....Many inexperienced Doms believe that all that is required is simply ordering your sub around as you choose. Its not. Theres much more to be said about what being a good Dom requiresDomination is not just giving random orders. A good Dom will find a way to cause the sub to desire pleasing the Dom. A Dom, or Dominant, is the protector, teacher, and lover to the sub. As the teacher, the Dom must be wise and, above all, right.The Dom has to be respected by the sub. Respect is a quality that is earned by the Dom. You were born submissive it is your nature...You were not born a slave or know how to be a slave...a slave comes out of training.A strong Master, to me is one that knows who and what he is before anything else. He is comfortable in what He has achieved in the world and is like a rock when it comes to the turning of the tides and how they crash upon the shore. He is in many ways unyielding in His expectations, but he remains realistic. If He is a Master and an owner of slaves, He keeps them held to the highest standards and expectations. When he says something, he means what he says, and doesnt mince words. He is compasionate and caring, swift to punish as needed, but also swift to reward as well should he so choose. He is a man that speaks his mind, but can keep a cool head on his shoulders. He is noble as well as honorable. With that being said.Im somewhat sadistic, somewhat sensual, always strict. I have been active in the BDSM lifestyle for all my adult life. I have Mastered various BDSM techniques and I am always looking for new things to try. Although I wont try anything new until it can be done safely. Being a real Master involves much. Not only being sadistic and strict but also keeping ones property healthy and safe.
Protect the property
Report anything that at any point will affect the ability to serve immediately.
While this is a short list of rules and it may seem a simple list to follow, it is more difficult then it sounds, so please DO NOT take the rules lightly. The rules can and do at times make it difficult and painful to serve . Sorry will never bring absolution for breaking the rules.
If you are true of heart, mind, and soul, have the personal strength and competence to take on the responsibility and offer the devotion that it takes to honestly call yourself a slave, then i would love to get to know you. Trust me when i say, if you succeed, you will become awakened to how compassionate and caring a true Master can be and find yourself in a very loving home. Although possible to have, you will not need a regular job when you are owned by Me, as I have the means to keep you in a very comfortable lifestyle. I do not hand out velcro collars and once you are owned you will not be cast out for insignificant reasons.My approach is to explore My subslaves interests as well as her limits. I believe strongly in safesane consensual play. submission is a gift and one I value greatly. Trust and respect are everything. If youd like to learn more Id love to hear from you. I take this very seriously and hope that you do as well. Any questions you may have can be answered thru email.
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I am a dominant man. I am just that. I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser. I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body. I am not, nor would I want to be, dominant with all women. Yet to you, I am your Master.
I am your Master only after earning your trust and embracing your submission. I have looked into your heart and mind and have seen your desires and passions. You have thrown away your fears and inhibitions. You have told me of the needs of your heart, mind and body and given me access to your soul -- I accept that honor and responsibility.
We are not equal. You are a woman, and you are not weak or inferior because of it. You are a treasure to be cherished. I am a man, and have strength of body, mind and the instinctive need to protect, possess, defend and provide for you. Your needs and desires encourage and give purpose to my efforts. We are halves of a whole. We compliment each other, and together, are complete. My desire to dominate you is instinctive and not to degrade you, nor is it degrading to you because you are as secure in your femininity as I am secure in my masculinity. We each recognize and accept our roles, worth and needs, as well as our desire to trust the other to fulfill those needs.
You are sure, strong and proud in your womanhood. You do not submit as acceptance of inferiority, but from strength and passion. You expect a man to stand strong and be a man. You desire and flourish in his strength, control and masculinity -- and in return, you present control of your heart, mind, body, and soul with unconditional trust, honesty, and the faithfulness of your heart. I have listened to your words with both my ears and my heart, and by opening myself and my soul to you, I have earned your submission and trust. You have given me a treasure... you have given me dominance over you.
What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural and the rarest of gifts a woman can give to a man. You have given me complete and unwavering assurance of your commitment to me, and to us. Your submission is both a magnificent gift and sacred responsibility, one that I accept from you with both humility and joy. I understand the rarity and purity of this gift -- that it is your body and soul, and your heart and mind. When you kneel before me, know that in my heart and in my eyes, you are raised above all woman and all treasures. What you give to me freely can not be bought, and that which circles and adorns your neck as a symbol of your ownership and commitment, so too circles and surrounds my heart. |
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Too many have the perception that domination is accomplished by stripping one of her values so that she has no alternative but to follow his lead. I know that the most wonderful thing a Man may ask in life is to see one grow to her absolute finest in every way, able to come and go freely, yet choosing to stand beside Him.
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Sub vs. SlaveThis one has been kicked about on kink boards and by many for as long as I can remember -- and of course, just about everyone has their own definition. Now, many feel the difference between "sub" and "slave" is the slave consents to give up all control of her life to her "Master", where the sub (submissive) consents to give up only certain portions of her life to serve her Dom (Dominant). Thus, you have the two dynamics: the Master/slave (or M/s) dynamic and the Dom/sub (or D/s) dynamic. (But note: "D/s" is also short for Domination and submission, just depends on the context in which it's being used.)As such, many view the slave as consenting to give up more control of her life than the sub, with some arguing that the slave then trusts her Master more than the sub trusts her Dom because the sub is giving up less control than the slave. This of course causes all kinds of disagreements between those who refer to themselves as subs or slaves because the subs maintain they trust their Doms just as much as the slaves trust their Masters -- the sub simply elects not to give up control over ALL aspects of her life, where the slave does. Thus, perceiving the difference between sub and slave in this way implies the slave has given up her goals, career, interests, etc. in favor of serving her Master's wants and needs -- leaving many to classify themselves as "sub" instead of "slave" because they desire a career, a life, and so forth. Essentially, the vast majority view a slave as living a life of service to her Master, and not her own -- of course, this is based on the dictionary definition of "slavery" at its most basic level. However, given we ALL know that BDSM is CONSENSUAL, in reality there are no REAL slaves or Masters under the dictionary definitions of Master and slave. As such, it's often her physical actions (i.e., following orders, sexual and non-sexual service, limitations upon her freedom, and so forth) that many view as slave-like behavior. In my opinion, this is where many get it wrong -- as it's not the PHYSICAL, but the MENTAL/EMOTIONAL that separates the two.Personally, here's how I view the sub/slave thing... To be a slave does NOT mean that one is tied up in a cellar somewhere, kneeling 24/7 in cuffs, or giving up her dreams, career, educational and/or vocational pursuits, aspirations, etc. While many kinksters think that's what it means to be a "slave", I disagree. For me, being a "slave" or being "slave-wired" is simply a MINDSET... it goes to where her PRIMARY motivations, happiness, and so forth begin and end -- where her PRIMARY fulfillment is derived from. A sub, though submissive, tends to primarily focus on (or give equal weight to) HER fulfillment from submitting to another, where a slave tends receive her PRIMARY fulfillment from HER MASTER's pleasure from her submission -- it's where the focus is, and has ZERO to do with any particular activity(ies). It's all MENTAL/EMOTIONAL... where does her PRIMARY fulfillment come from? From HER submission, or HIS pleasure in her submission. If it's the latter, then that's slave-wired. Note: I'm not stating a "sub" does not seek to please her Dom, nor am I stating a "slave" does not receive pleasure from her service, it's simply where the PRIMARY focus is.Okay, another example... picture two girls kneeling. Just looking at the two, the action itself (i.e., the physical act of kneeling) is the SAME. So which is the sub and which is the slave? You can't tell, can you? Again, that's because it has ZERO to do with the physical -- it's all mental/emotional. If she's kneeling because her submission gives HER pleasure to do so, she's likely a "sub". However, if she's kneeling because her fulfillment is derived from pleasing her Master -- again, she's focused on the pleasure HE receives from her submission and from her service -- then she's likely a "slave". Make sense?!! Unfortunately, many girls will shy away from the term "slave" because of the silly connotations and nonsense the fantasy folks associate with it about losing all of her freedoms, goals, aspirations, and so forth. But again, the physical does not a slave make -- it's the mental/emotional. Thus, a "slave" absolutely CAN have a life of her own, a career, outside interests, and so on, as these things and being a slave are NOT in any way mutually exclusive. We're all people first and anything else second. And please note, neither sub or slave is better or worse than the other, just different.LimitsAll (both subs and slaves alike) have "limits" (i.e., those activities they do NOT consent to participate in, or are not ready to push), and like anything else, where one's limits are and what they are comfortable pushing comes with both time and TRUST -- as well as communication and commitment. For me, those are the BIG THREE... Communication, Commitment and Trust -- all of which leading to love. Communication = If you can't freely talk about everything, you have nothing. There's no such thing as toughing it out. That's the WORST thing many bottoms do. We're not mind-readers, so if something's going on in your head or heart, you must share it -- and without fear of reprisal or loss.Commitment = If there's no commitment to the relationship, it's doomed. Training another, for example, is a TON of work. If she's of the "I don't feel like submitting today" sort, then she's broken her promise and commitment. Same holds true for him. If he's to be her Top/Dom/Master/Owner or whatever, then he now has a RESPONSIBILITY to her, and can't be too busy to hear her.Trust = Comfort in knowing (on both sides) the other would never intentionally hurt you (mentally, emotionally, or physically), or violate the aforementioned "commitment" that's been established to lead or follow. Many don't get (or may even disagree with) the above... but in my opinion, the vast majority of those that call themselves "Doms" or "Masters" on kink sites are fakes or wannabes anyway, and who can't cut-it with a strong, independent "vanilla" woman, so they go online, learn a few buzz-words, pick up a pair of dark sunglasses, leather pants, check the "Toppy" button in their profile, and POOF... instant Master of the Universe. In short, they turn to the sub/slave girls thinking they won't challenge their already fragile egos, thinking they'll roll-over at the drop of a hat and commence humping their leg. Idiots. They see the Power Exchange Dynamic as only flowing in one direction. It doesn't... both are cut from the same cloth, just from different ends -- and with HER commitment, follows HIS responsibility to (and for) her.But note, there are just as many fake and wannabe femsubs/femslaves as well, as there are those that seek to PLAY THE ROLE of sub/slave and those that ACCEPT (and ARE) a sub/slave. For those that are the "real deal", they know what they need to be happy, have made a choice of service to (and use by) another, and understand that with her choice follow responsibilities of her own -- to both herself and to him. There's no taking the day off from being his -- she either is, or she isn't -- and she TRUSTS that he would never intentionally abuse or betray that trust, or her heart. But she also understands and accepts that he will likely know what's best for her, even when she can't see it. That's trust. Any girl can submit when she WANTS to... it's the one that submits when she DOESN'T want to that separates the players from those that are truly prepared to belong to another.Use vs AbuseWith reference to the aforementioned "abuse" above, I've never quite understood why some (not all) tend to abuse their sub/slave girl -- mentally, emotionally, or physically? I mean, from a Top's perspective... he's spent time training her to be PERFECT for him, he values her use, service, and self-sacrifice (because submission/slavery is a CHOICE, and he'd have booted her out the door if she didn't please him), and likely finds her beautiful. So, why abuse one that has WILLINGLY given you so much?!! Yeah, yeah, yeah... I know about the whole she's his "property" thing and all. But c'mon... if he "owned" a Ferrari (just as he "owns" her), is that not too his "property" -- and one that also provides use, service and holds great value? I'll bet he wouldn't intentionally damage his Ferrari, so why intentionally damage her -- again, either mentally, emotionally, or physically? Now add to this that she likely LOVES her Dom/Master. So, he's going to abuse that which he's invested so much time and energy in, the one that's surrendered her use and service to him, and more often than not also loves him?!! Just doesn't make sense to me. Instead, I say feed her mind, fill her heart, show her she's the most important thing in the world to you, and she'll give you TEN-FOLD what her fearful, insecure, abused counterpart will ever be capable of offering.Monogamy vs Polygamy vs FidelityIn its simplest terms, "monogamy" is a relationship/dynamic involving two people (the couple), where "polygamy" (or "poly") is a relationship/dynamic involving more than the two primary people. But note, if the primary/core couple occasionally adds a third person (male or female), and all parties involved are completely aware of the third person, then that too is often termed a "monogamous" relationship/dynamic -- sometimes even termed, "Monogamous, but with room for play", so there has been no breach in fidelity. For me personally, once she has consented to become mine, then no man will ever put his hands on her again, nor have I ever betrayed a girl's trust in my life.However, for those that seek more than one partner (even on an occasional basis), the Power Exchange Dynamic can leave room for this. Thus, in my humble opinion, there is simply NO REASON TO EVER CHEAT!!! That's why it's important to make clear what you're seeking (or comfortable with) from the very beginning. If you want monogamy, then say so... if you want poly, then say so... if you're comfortable with something somewhere in between, then say so as well. But to attempt to change the rules on your partner at some point down the road is not only dishonorable, but hurtful in the extreme. And as to the alleged Doms/Masters out there who do this and/or who cheat on their sub/slave, they are anything but a "Dom" or "Master". Cheating is a lack of self-control, and a poor quality in ANY person -- let alone in one who calls themselves a "Dom" or "Master". Whether you are a sub or slave, the relationship/dynamic is about TRUST and CONSENT. As such, if you have NOT consented to share (or be shared), then consent has not been given, and your trust has been violated. Consensual non-consent is one thing, where respect is another... and violating trust (via cheating, or being cheated on) is no different than violating a "hard limit" -- and anyone doing so has not only disrespected their partner, but violated their trust.The GiftFinally, there is much disagreement with those in Kinkville USA about whether or not her submission is a "gift" or not. On one side of the fence are those that feel her submission is no more a gift than his Dominance is a gift to her -- thinking, if she's submissive (be it sub, slave, or whatever), then she's simply being herself (just as he's being himself), which does not qualify as a "gift". Also, many view the whole "submission as a gift" thing as giving her too much power/control in the relationship/dynamic, as it's giving her submission "value", so to speak, where none is often deserved/desired by either person.Now, on the other side of the fence, you have those that feel her submission is, in fact, a gift because if it wasn't, then she'd freely give it to the world, as opposed to the one she's consented to give that control over her heart, mind, body, service and use to. It's NOT seen as "giving her too much power/control", but that SHE HERSELF -- not her specific/physical acts of submission -- is both important to him and that he is proud to call her his. Personally, I fall into this group and feel the mistake the other group fails to recognize is that SHE TOO views him as a gift in her life. For me, she is not just my sub/slave, but my friend, lover, joy, passion, and in time.... possibly even my wife. In short, she is both everything and nothing at the same time, gives me as much purpose as I give her, and together we build a HEALTHY relationship -- with the Power Exchange dynamic acting as a backdrop and means to simply define our roles to each other in all aspects of our relationship and life together.I am a Dominant ManI am a dominant man. I am just that. I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser. I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body. I am not, nor would I want to be, dominant with all women. Yet to you, I am your Master. I am your Master only after earning your trust and embracing your submission. I have looked into your heart and mind and have seen your desires and passions. You have thrown away your fears and inhibitions. You have told me of the needs of your heart, mind and body and given me access to your soul -- I accept that honor and responsibility. We are not equal. You are a woman, and you are not weak or inferior because of it. You are a treasure to be cherished. I am a man, and have strength of body, mind and the instinctive need to protect, possess, defend and provide for you. Your needs and desires encourage and give purpose to my efforts. We are halves of a whole. We compliment each other, and together, are complete. My desire to dominate you is instinctive and not to degrade you, nor is it degrading to you because you are as secure in your femininity as I am secure in my masculinity. We each recognize and accept our roles, worth and needs, as well as our desire to trust the other to fulfill those needs. You are sure, strong and proud in your womanhood. You do not submit as acceptance of inferiority, but from strength and passion. You expect a man to stand strong and be a man. You desire and flourish in his strength, control and masculinity -- and in return, you present control of your heart, mind, body, and soul with unconditional trust, honesty, and the faithfulness of your heart. I have listened to your words with both my ears and my heart, and by opening myself and my soul to you, I have earned your submission and trust. You have given me a treasure... you have given me dominance over you.What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural and the rarest of gifts a woman can give to a man. You have given me complete and unwavering assurance of your commitment to me, and to us. Your submission is both a magnificent gift and sacred responsibility, one that I accept from you with both humility and joy. I understand the rarity and purity of this gift -- that it is your body and soul, and your heart and mind. When you kneel before me, know that in my heart and in my eyes, you are raised above all woman and all treasures. What you give to me freely can not be bought, and that which circles and adorns your neck as a symbol of your ownership and commitment, so too circles and surrounds my heart |
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Am I the only one who finds it funny when a person says not to use form letters or " cookie cutter mass letters" then sends you the same message 2 times in a 5 minute period. Funny the double standard. And for the record none of my letters are form letters. How many times and ways can a person say the samething. Then people complain about 1 liners and longer ones are form letters. What is the happy medium |
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I just wonder how stupid some people are on this site. I am talking about the scammers fron africa and from asia. I have seen several new entries with the same pictures as others and all seem to be from a different country. Eithor they move alot or have many twin sisters. The ones fron Asia ask for money within 5 minutes of talking to them. Not all but most. And all from africa have lost there family to a plane crash or car accident. Hell I never want to visit them because the odds are death by car or plane. |
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Am I the only one that finds it funny when you read a pofile and it is interesting to you and it says write me and send a photo and "I will respond" So you write them and send a picture and they do not respond. Are they lying or is there another excuse. |
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I am getting my private pilot license now this is so cool |
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Can someone please tell me how you can be under the protection of some Domme or Master online????????? That really makes no sense to me at all. If you need someone to read your messages and tell you who to write back why would anyone want you anyway? You should be smart enough to chose who intrests you all by yourself. |
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On my way to Costa Rica  for 2 weeks. Everyone hve fun and be safe. |
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Wow I did not expect to get all the positive messages from my last entry. Only 1 was being a stupid follower of tiny boy.She was blocked. Thank you all who have wrote me I was sure I was not the only one here who had those feelings. |
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