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If a picture is worth 1000 word then I just put over 5000 words into my profile. Most people do not even bother to read them anyway. If these pictures speak to you deep inside and you truly desire to serve as a 24/7 slave to an experienced Master. I am not here to play games. I am strict and demanding in the type of girl I seek and will not settle for less. If you are a true slave in your core being then contact me.

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5/27/2017 10:31:59 AM
I am amazed by the number of you who claim you want to do this, that, or the other, who claim you are unconditional servant the make demands.  If you serve unconditionally then there are no conditions or demand for you to make.  You really need to decide which side of the road you are on and be honest about it.

The other thing that baffles me are those of you who get offended/pissed when someone asks you about yourself.  I do not care if you told a million people the answer before if you did not tell me I have no way to know.  If you are offended by someone wanting to know about your needs and desires then move on.  There are very few of you who truly have no desires besides to please. 

Most of you are very selfish and self centered who only seek to serve as away to top from the bottom.  If you find that offensive then you are most likely that type.  However if you are one of the very few who do not fit what I have outlined about be proud.  Also I would enjoy chatting with you.

1/5/2017 6:33:59 AM
Wow, talk about self-entitled submissive/slaves.  This site continues to pour out spoiled little princesses who want to be submissive/slave as long as they get what they demand, BDSM is not about topping from the bottom.  It is suppose to be symbiotic where both get what they need from the other.  The dominant/master get someone to control and mold, the submissive slave gets the structure/discipline they need.

The problem here is that too many submissive/slaves demand this that and the other just to be considered.  Most people with an ounce of common sense know the Holiday period between Christmas and New Years can be very busy.  Yet some here believe that because you are taking time with your family you are playing games.  

A specific example is a submissive, that felt I should be spending all this time getting to know them, even on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day.  Then got upset because I was not there for her.  News flash it is that clinginess that got you dumped from your last owner.  You need to understand that people have a life outside this box.

Submissive/slaves yes it is nice to have someone want you and it is great when you connect but if you go bat shit crazy on someone things will not work out.  I am not sure if this is a new wave with submissive/slave but it is happening quite a bit the last few months.  Desperation does not look good on anyone.  If you a really scared of being alone think about the fact women are living to be almost 80 now and men are just a few years behind that, which means for many of you this is not even the half-way mark.  You have time, take a step back, take a deep breath, and exhale.  It will be alright just give it some time.

4/7/2016 9:50:15 PM
People you really need to stop encouraging the scammers here.  They are only here because some of you keep sending them money.  The tip is if they "have to relocate now, have been trained and you need to pay for them,  You need to pay for them period, or they owe their master money before she/he will release them."  They are scamming you.  The only way you should ever send money is in the form of a non-refundable ticket.  That way either they come to you or they get nothing.  Sure you are out either way but at least this way you know they did not profit from it.  Keep in mind the quicker they want to come the more likely it is they want your money quicker.

3/4/2016 12:45:46 PM

I did not write what follows but I agree with it. If you this does not appeal to you then good luck. If this type of life does appeal to you then feel free to contact us and we will see where it leads.

What Does Being A Slave Really Mean?

Author: Dennis Najee

I am going to try and burst some bubbles with what I write here. I see too many who want to take a polyanna approach to this life while proclaiming to want to live as a slave. The truth is they have no clue. Being a slave is extreme in every sense of the word. Until one understand this, he or she is living a fantasy.

Your Life Is Not Yours

Consider this statement for a moment: your life is not yours. Living in a M/s relationship means that you give all power and choices over to another. This is the fundamental premise of this type of arrangement. Equality is nowhere in the equation. You life exists only to serve at his/her pleasure. Nothing about you is within your realm. Everything is at the discretion of another.

Many will say "this is exactly what I am seeking". Is it really? Are you ready to do all that you are instructed regardless of how much it turns your stomach? I found that most are not.

The simple truth is that few can exist in this type of relationship. Slavery is a tough way to live. One has no say in anything that occurs. Tremendous self discipline is required to succeed. One needs to be self confident to behave in a manner that the Master desires. It certainly is not for the weak.

Get Over Sex

Here is where many get zapped. Your M/s relationship is not about sex. Get over the polyanna ideas that you are going to live as a 24/7 fuckpiece. Sex, as most find out, is but a small part of your servitude. Your role is to serve him/her mentally, physically, and emotionally in addition to sexually. M/s is about pleasing the Master (Mistress) and not you. Sex is only a part of the equation if and when he/she desires that. Your desires are not important.

The Internet glorifies the sexual aspect of this life. Every image promotes people being tied up in all kinds of positions and used in many kinky ways. Sadly, this is a misrepresentation of the M/s life. A slave does not often serve in this capacity. Instead, her days are filled with cooking, cleaning, washing, and all the other tasks that the Master requires. We never see images of her pushing around the vacuum cleaner but that is more representative of what the life is.

Negative Connotation

"Slavery" has a negative connotation among people for a reason. It is not a path that is easy. Most who lived this way, traditionally, were forced into it. However, just because we choose to be consensual doesn't mean that it is less strenuous. Everything about you is owned by another.

Your likes are disregarded. What you want is of no consequence whatsoever. The only thing that matters is how you serve the one who is in charge. Property is often the term used to describe a slave. Your sole purpose is to please him.

Are you ready to give up all you like and live in this manner? Anything you have or can do is with permission. You have no rights after he/she meets the basic needs. The clothes you wear are on loan to you. If he/she prefers you naked, that is how it is to be. This sounds sexy and erotic to many until you consider that this can happen in front of your family at Thanksgiving dinner. There are not limitations upon you fulfilling what he wants.

Wants Versus Needs

Few have any idea what the difference is with these. Most of society is conditioned into believing that their wants are actually needs. "I need a big screen television". "I need a new car". "I need a bigger house". These are not needs; they are wants. A slave must understand that a Master is only responsible for providing needs. This includes food, clothing for protection, and shelter. That is it. Everything else falls into a want category.

If you do not believe me, consider all that you have. My question is "will you die if you do not have it"? While you might mistakenly think so, the truth is that outside of what was mentioned, you will not. Thus, everything you see before you is a want. And, if you enter M/s, there is a chance that it all will be removed from you. Are you ready for this?

"Yes, Sir"

This is to be your favorite saying (or Yes Master). "No" is not part of your vocabulary. While love is the main factor in a traditional relationship, I feel that obedience is the main factor in M/s. A slave who is disobedient is not worthy of a Masters domination. Again, this is not a life for everyone. Few can live in this manner.

Some Masters will allow a slave to interact with him/her on an equal basis at certain times and in appropriate manner. This is where self discipline enters the picture. There are many times where a slave needs to keep his/her mouth shut and accept what is being directed. "Yes Sir" (Ma'am) is the only appropriate response.

Being sassy is not cute. Many feel that being a wiseass is a way to a Master's heart. Grow up. The online community might put up with this nonsense but a true Master will not. He is not in this lifestyle to play games. Nor is it expected that you will make his/her life more difficult. A slave is owned to make one's life easier. Continually fighting with a smartaleck slave is a waste of time. That is a surefire path to release.

Being A Dumbass

I see so many who write in their profiles "I am not a doormat". This tells me these people are not accustom to dealing with a real Master. Nobody wants a doormat. A slave that falls into this category is of no use to me. I dont need a dumbass walking around my house with no clue what is going on.

A slave needs to watch, learn, and monitor what is pleasing to the Master. Nothing is more frustrating than dealing with someone who continually needs to be told what to do every moment of the day. A slave needs to learn what is expected and to assume control of the actions a Master wants completed.

Sadly, few I encounter online are able to live like this. The ones who are stating they are not doormats tend to show themselves to be total dumbasses. They want to approach this way without the maturity necessary to succeed in a M/s relationship. Often I need to check to see if I am on an adult site or the Cartoon Network. Seriously, so many want to behave like children.

It's A Wonderful Life

M/s is a wonderful way to live life if you are one who truly desires it. However, I will state that one needs to have his/her eyes open as to what it is all about. The Internet does a poor job of realistically promoting the life. Instead, it portrays things in a manner that magnifies the lie many are operating under. If you want to be a sex slave, go sell your body on the street corner and give the money to a pimp (or mafioso) because that is what real sex slaves do. Get over the mindset that you are going to live the "pornstar" life.

If you are one who wants to serve, then M/s could be your calling. Of course, before entering into any type of arrangement, I would stress that you get clear about what you want. This is not for the faint of heart. Having someone take care of all your needs and make the tough decisions holds great appeal. Nevertheless, it is not without a price. You will be expected to fulfill your part of the equation. Obedience is your new keyword. If you can accept and go along with all that is set before you, then you have a chance. Just remember, your consent, once you submit, is not required. He/she is free to use you in any manner. "No" is removed.

Is this is life that you really want?


3/2/2016 8:06:57 PM
I am completely amused by the number of people here who demand a dominant should or should not act this, that, or the other way. While stating they will only accept things a specific way, then they are surprised and start complaining that no real dominant wants them.  The fact of the matter is real dominants see that and move on.  That leaves only the wannabes and game players left. 

If you really want a real dominant to contact you look are your profile realistically.  Ask yourself do I come off as a spoiled child, as a demanding pain the ass, or someone who just wants to top from the bottom?  If the answer is yes then you have just figured out your main issue.  If the answer is no ask someone else to look at it and give you their opinion.  Chances are you did not even realize how you are coming across in that way.

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