Hello - I am new to this, so please be gentle.
First, the honesty (and don't feel compelled to write to me if you're judging me): I'm married, and he doesn't know I'm doing this, so (a) discretion is a must and (b) yes, I've brought it up, and his view is that BDSM is a sign of mental illness. Enough on that topic.
I've never been able to scratch this itch I've had ever since reading 'The Story of O' a few years ago. I don't want time to pass me by and it to become too late.
I list as bisexual, because there's no option for being curious, but I've never actually tried it. I'd very much like to, and trying the submissive role with a male/female couple seems the most comfortable way to scratch both itches. :)
Failing that, provided that you're gentle (at least, at first!), I would consider a dominant female alone.
I will not send pics online, but I am attractive, if somewhat curvy (not model thin by any means) but in good shape as I hike and play softball and otherwise get plenty of exercise regularly. If you like a little bit of muscle on a woman, that's a plus. If we trade messages and there's any interest, I'm happy to meet for coffee to see if there's a physical attraction.
Please be within 10 years of my age (either direction), and please note that I'm not interested in someone who is (a) a single male OR (b) is not close enough for it to be reasonably convenient to get a cup of coffee.
Wow - already had to edit mail controls so that out-of-state and single male messages go to bulk. :(
2/1/2013 8:10:14 PM
Odd to get a friend request without having ever received a message.
