So here’s my fairy tale dream version of our first date:  You come across my profile on here and you’re intrigued.  Maybe you’re familiar with chastity devices, or maybe not.  But either way, you’ve been looking for a FLR and just haven’t been able to find the right guy yet.  Whether from your own experience or my description, it’s clear that being a Keyholder could play a powerful role in your version of the fairy tale so you decide to give me a shot.  We’re relatively local, so after exchanging a few messages we decide to meet for dinner.  You choose a nice quiet place where we’re able to have a private conversation, we decide on a date and I make the reservation.

When the night finally comes, it probably gets off to the awkward start typical of a first date.  You can tell I’m a little nervous, maybe intimidated or just dumbstruck by your beauty (turns out to be all three) so you bail me out and help break the ice.  After a bit of small talk the awkwardness starts to fade and we’re beginning to click.  Eventually you decide to take the lead again, shifting the topic away from small talk and towards Femdom and FLR.  And this is where you give me the first hint of your wicked creativity.  We’re obviously already familiar with the basics of what we’re both looking for but when it comes to details on limits and likes/dislikes on specific fetishes, you start to lay out your plan.  You also enjoy using your sub’s fear and anticipation to really amp up the intensity, so to be able to do that later you want to remain a bit mysterious for now.  Your plan is to integrate me on a very wide variety of topics, from your “must have” favorites to things you have absolutely zero interest at all and everything in between.  That will help you to know you’re getting honest answers from me rather than just what I think you'll want to hear.  Using this technique, in short order you’ve developed a very accurate picture of my likes, dislikes, fears, desires, hard and soft limits etc. without really disclosing too much about yourself.  You’re meticulously building your future tool kit of what will be useful as fun playtime punishments versus genuine punishments.  

Throughout the conversation, even though I’m completely in the dark about specifics I can tell by your reaction that we seem very much on the same page and there’s some very real chemistry developing.  As the dinner is winding down, you confirm that by asking for my phone number.  I’m delighted to hear that and provide it without hesitation.  But when I ask for yours, you flash a wickedly sexy grin, shake your head and say “No, not yet”.  First you want to know if I’m actually wearing a chastity cage tonight for our date.  I confirm that I am indeed, and that wicked sexy grin widens.  After leaving me intrigued, aroused, and a bit confused for a moment, you reach into your purse and pull out a necklace.  As you’re putting it on, I notice there’s a key dangling from it and suddenly my confusion is lifted!  Once the necklace is on with the key resting perfectly between your breasts, you seductively ask if I’m interested in a second date.  And clearly only thinking with my dick (which at this point is throbbing in the tightening grip of the little cage) I instinctively reply “absolutely”.  

“So am I, but I have one little condition” you say as you pull the small padlock from your purse and unlock it using the key on your necklace, “Unzip”.  And right there at the table you instruct me to remove my lock so you can replace it with yours.  “Ooooh, a steel cage I see!” you giggle as you snap it shut.  After giving it a little tug to ensure it is safe and secure, you stand and whisper in my ear “Thank you for dinner.  Sweet dreams”, give me a sweet little goodnight kiss and teasingly say “I’ll call you” as you turn and walk away without looking back.

And the rest is history.