Important definitions: Sex: either of the two main categories (male and female) into which humans and many other living things are divided on the basis of their reproductive functions.</>
Gender: the state of being male or female or other (typically used with reference to social and cultural differences rather than biological ones).
So there is a difference between sex and gender. Sex is what's between your legs and gender is what's in your brain.</>
Okay, so I fiddled with the idea of being a dominant and yes, I can dominate others well, but that's not who I am. I get no joy out of dominating others so I have to ask those that want me to dominate them, "What do I get out of it?" Like giving a guy a blow job. (Been many years since I did that but still), I got nothing out of it and during my sexuality experimenting days, I ended up asking said guys, "What do I get out of blowing you?" No one had a decent enough answer, so blow jobs are off the table forever. I'm still open to dominating others but "What do I get out of it?" will still be there.</>
Update: NO MEN. Friends with guys is fine, but that's it. Next, the most dominant I am is 20%. The rest of me is submissive. I'm not looking for online only. I'm looking for my forever! Done...
Something to be stated, I do not blindly follow any dominant who tries to control me. I know what I'm looking for and I know what I don't like or want. I will not blindly submit just because you are female and dominant. I will fully submit to the woman who earns my trust just as I expect I will need to earn her trust. I will fully submit to the woman who shows me that she can be what I need. I am not an overly sexual creature, in fact, I have a fairly low sex drive most the time. What I seek doesn't have to have sex involved at all, though it can have sexual aspects, I don't mind that. But what I seek will not revolve around sex.
My vanilla girlfriend dumped me and I"m hurting over it.
I read something on a profile that I agree with. It basically said that there is no such thing as being too needy for a little. It says that we are wonderful BECAUSE we're needy and not in spite of it. So if you can't handle a needy little, then you are not a paternal dominant.
Okay, update on my position, I have surgery on Feb. 12 2018. I'll have larger breasts. It's only a matter of time before I have bottom surgery...then this profile is getting a COMPLETE work over.
Something to note, I don't tend to send the first note. It opens me up to being attacked by those that are closed minded and see me as nothing more than a freak.
Okay, time to post this even though it breaks my heart to. Here's the thing, I was born with a birth defect for which I'm fixing. If you message me just to harass me about this post, I will report you. I am a transwoman unfortunately. I hate it and I am fixing it so I never have to give this stupid explanation again. However, because most don't see me as a real woman and are so closed minded to not understand that a transwoman IS A WOMAN, I have to post this so I don't come so close to finding what I long for just to have her shun me because I was born with a defect that I'm correcting. You want to know why I don't put "trans" under my gender? BECAUSE MY GENDER IS FEMALE! My sex is trans for now, but it won't always be that. I'm a fucking woman and I deserve to be treated as such! Now, if you are too closed minded to see me as a woman, don't bother messaging me, even if I message you first. If you have nothing good to say, say nothing at all.
I'm gonna add in some of my likes and dislikes so that people can stop asking. I'll also add in what I'm looking for. Now, first off, I have no money, so I will not pay you to give me what I seek. Hell, if it were possible, I would love to be spoiled in that way! Though that's not at all a requirement.
Likes: The things I'm most excited to try are forced clothes wearing and bondage. That doesn't mean that I don't want other things to try, but those are at the top of my list. I'm still learning what I like and don't like really.
Dislikes: So, I have a low sexual pain tolerance. I put on a good front, but I can't take a lot of pain and it's not fun for me. Another negative kink is anal insertion. That one's a soft limit for the right woman, but it triggers my PTSD and doesn't feel good at all for me. I also will not do anything that involves pee, poop, vomit, etc. I'm not interested at all and it's not my kink, I find it super gross.
What I'm looking for: What I'm looking for is one of two things really. I'm a submissive to a degree and as a submissive little, I'm looking for a mama that will love me, teach me, spoil me and play with me and in return, I would give my mama anything she wanted that's within my power to give.</>
As a dominant, I'm looking for a girl to do anything I ask just to make me happy. There would be no road that would be off limits because she would know that I would respect the things she doesn't like. And in return for doing all I say, I would take care of them in all aspects as I can as a true domme should</>
And what's obvious, or what should be obvious, is that I am more submissive than dominant and the first thing I'm looking for is preferred. And I'm going to add once again that I lack pictures on here because I don't know you or trust you and I don't want my pictures used by others. If I find someone who I think could be what I need and want, then I'll happily give up pictures.</>
Another thing to know is that I have mental and physical issues. Before someone takes me on, I will divulge those details, but I'm not going to open myself up to ridicule by talking about them in my profile instead of in private. Thank you.</>
Update: Okay, I'm updating my search criteria. Yes, what I want is still on the other spectrum, however, seeing as finding a dominant that will give me all I need and want is damn near impossible, I'm extending it to subs and switches as well. Can't wait to hear from you.
Something to note, as a submissive, I am a little. Not a baby, my little age is pre-teen. I require patience, love, understanding.
As a dominant, I'm a loving domme. Granted, I"m not a doormat. I will snap and punish if you step out of line.
Hello, I've tried other sites to find what I'm looking for and I haven't been able to succeed. I made a profile before, but it didn't go through for some reason. So, I'm making another profile here. I lack pictures because I prefer my privacy, but I am willing to send pictures once I've gotten to know you better. I also know what I'm looking for and I'll happily discuss that with you if you wish. I will completely honest and I'm willing to answer most questions, if not all.
Also, if I don't respond it's because I don't live at my computer though it may seem like it most days. So I will respond to your emails, just have some patience. Sometimes I'm sleeping, sometimes I'm running errands, sometimes I'm having a house meeting...Either way, I'm busy and I will get back to you when I am less busy.
As much as I wish it did work, hypnosis doesn't work on me. I haven't tried it in person, but I have tried reading it, doing it over voice and watch a video and none work. My apologies.