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I am no longer looking for any type of relationship or play partners. I will be here strictly as mentor only.
So, a little more about me since theyre insisting profiles be at least 150 characters now.
Ive been involved in the lifestyle to some degree for about 18 years. My range of experience includes online, face to face, 247, pet, sub, slave, kajira, little, brat (not the spoiled kind), and switch. Yes I do have some experience as a Mistress. I am bi, have been monogamous and currently poly. My Dom is married, yes she not only knows but we are friends too. I currently live alone in my own apartment, but have weekly sessions with him at his house. Right now I would describe our dynamic as TPE Ds. I have been described as a pain slut.
I have made some of my own toys in the past. Currently I am learning to make things out of paracord, and I am enjoying it immensely. Cuffcollar sets, leashes, belts, mini floggers and keychains are what Ive done so far. When I get more established I will post the link to my FB business page and hopefully get some people interested in buying from me!
Although some of my views on BDSM and Ds dynamics might be considered old school, for the most part I have a more modern approach. I do not believe a Dominant needs to spend time training as a submissive before they can be considered good Dominants. First of all, there is MUCH more that goes into making someone a good Dominant, and having any kind of experience as a submissive is really low on my list of qualifications. Why? Simply because most Dominants will NEVER be able to experience things the same way a submissive does. Sure they can experience all the sensations, and learn to follow orders, but as a Dominant, especially if they dont have a submissive bone in their bodies, they will not be able to process the experience the same way most submissives do. Plus, I have met a few good Dominants that were never submissive, and more than a few not so good ones that claimed to have that experience.
With that said, I also do not believe that claiming a label makes it so. I get such a good laugh at some of the profiles here, especially the Dominant ones. I am DOMINATE, and you will address me as Lord Uber Master Sir. Sure, as soon as I pick myself up off the floor from laughing so hard, then I might, oh wait, nope, just cant do it. You want titles of respect? Then you EARN it. You dont demand it. The ONLY person you have the right to demand anything from is the one submitting to you. Thats it. Your character is what earns you respect, not your title.
The same idea applies to submissive types as well. The slaves are the ones that get met the most. I am true slave to do whatever you want. Oh, uumm, you want me to do what? Oh no, I wont do that, I dont like that idea, it makes me uncomfortable. Now dont get me wrong, I DO believe slaves can and should have limits. However, there is a HUGE difference between CANT and WONT. A slaves limits should never include anything they just dont want to or dont like the idea of. If there is anything you CANT do for medical, physical, or mental health reasons, those are legit limits for a slave to have. Dont even get me started on whether or not someone with such limitations can be a slave in the first place. A slaves service comes first from the heart and soul. Everything after that is simply a reflection, not a requirement.
Something else about some slaves that really makes me laugh. Quite often I will see a slave claim that they are a true slave because they follow the original definition of what a slave is. Sorry to burst your bubble sweetheart, but no, youre not a true slave. First of all, true slavery is ILLEGAL just about everywhere now. Second, part of the original definition of slavery is being held in slavery by force. True slaves are slaves against their will, there is no such thing as consent. Not even consensual non-consent. So if you consented to be in an Ms dynamic, and youre not being held in it by force or against your will, you are NOT a true slave.
I also believe that slaves should NEVER enter a new dynamic as a slave from the very beginning. I dont care how much experience you have, you are an IDIOT for giving so much power to someone you dont know well enough to trust completely. Anyone demanding a slave give full submission from the very beginning is not just an idiot, but more than likely also a dangerous, abusive person that should be avoided at all costs. Hell, no Dominant of any type should be demanding submission of any level from the very beginning! I dont know how prevalent this is among female slaves, but I see it far too often from males. Oh Mistress I want to serve you completely and let you do whatever you want! *Blink blink blink* Excuse me? Back up a minute. You dont know me, have no clue what Im into or even if Im a good person, and you want to submit completely to me, right now? Oh yes Mistress, please!! *facepalm*
Has anyone published BDSM For Dummies yet? I need a few copies...
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I have a choice.
I was taught pain.
I choose healing.
I was taught fear.
I choose trust.
I was taught hate.
I choose love.
I was taught darkness.
I choose light.
I wanted to die.
I chose life.
I have a choice. |
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This was posted by someone else on another site, so it is not mine. So many people here need to read this and take it to heart. This applies to everyone, every submissive type as well as every Dominant type. If you think it doesn't, then you seriously need a refresher course in BDSM basics.
"One thing I've seen uttered by people who totally miss the point of the need to get consent before engaging in their kink with someone is that "people are here for....."
They're absolutely correct in their assessment that some people are here to be humiliated, to be submissive, dominant, tied up, random sex, to find a Daddy or babygirl and a thousand other things people are interested in exploring. But no matter what their kink is, no matter what their desire is, whether it's to be someone's pay pig or be a Dom to a stable of subs, they're a person first and not only do they have a natural right as to who they will and will not give consent to engage in their kinks with, but they shouldn't be subjected to being the unwilling participant to someone's elses kink either.
No matter what you're kink is, get consent before engaging in it. That includes sending Domly and aggressive and sexually explicit messages to people who haven't granted you that consent.
It's not that difficult of a concept to understand." |
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Why is it that so many of you need to schooled on how NOT to approach a woman? Yes, I said WOMAN. Not submissive, not slave. Not potential fucktoy. A WOMAN!!! Are real women on this site so rare that you've forgotten how to treat one? Or is it the real men that truly know how to treat a woman that are rare? If you can't respect and treat me as a woman first, how on God's green Earth do you think I'm going to trust you to respect me as your submissive? Just because this is a BDSM dating site doesn't mean that basic social etiquette gets thrown out the window! Come on gentlemen! If someone such as myself, that has trouble understanding social protocols, has a firm grasp on that concept, then it shouldn't be that difficult for you!
Oi vey. I don't know why I bother anymore... |
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Wow. Only 5 messages into an exchange and someone asks for nudes, "something to arouse him". Seriously? And you guys wonder why so many subs have the attitudes we do... |
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If you expect me to act submissively towards you from the very beginning, then please, save your time and energy for someone else. Before anything else, I am a woman and when you talk to me, it is not unreasonable to expect to be treated as such. I have chosen the submissive role because it suits my needs. Do NOT mistake that as me being submissive. I am seriously annoyed with all of the Dominants out there that seem to think they can order me around, claim me or any part of me as theirs, and expect me to conform to their rules right from the very beginning. Then they have the nerve to attack me for my "bad behavior" when I remind them in no uncertain terms that they don't have the right to do that. Well, here's a newsflash for you. It doesn't work that way! |
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If you think you can get to me through my sexuality, you're wrong. Yes I am highly sexual. Yes I am horny nearly ALL/THE/TIME. Yes I would dearly love it if someone would come fuck me senseless. However, that is all meaningless to me if I don't have the mental connection first. I can get sexual interaction just about anytime I want online, but I want more than that. There is SO much more to me than my sexual desires. You really want to grab my attention? Then treat me as a woman and a lady first. Not just another clit to play with. |
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Is it sad that one of the reasons I'm still here is the amusement I get from dealing with so-called dominants? |
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Seriously in need of a local play partner! |
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So, our slave got here today, and will be here until the middle of next week. I'm already having way too much fun with the poor boy! I do believe I am going to enjoy being on the Dominant side of the rope ;) |
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They say you should learn to be happy alone before you truly be happy with someone else. Ok, fair enough. I get that. However, can someone please explain to me how the hell you're supposed to be happy when you have such an aching, empty hole in your life because the deep, primal needs and urges that can ONLY be met by another person are going unfullfilled? I have been trying so hard to learn not to rely on anyone else for my happiness. To be whole and complete all on my own. To not NEED anyone for anything. I can't. I just can't do it. This emptiness, this ache, needs to be relieved. It's killing me. |
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Tonight my first batch of tumbled rocks will be done!! I'm so excited, they are turning out SO well!!! |
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I get to let my Dominant side out to play this week! This could get interesting *grins wickedly* |
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7 Habits of HIGHLY Effective Dominants
In 1989, Steven R. Covey’s popular self-help book, 7 Habits of Highly Effective People was first published. It has since sold more than 1.5 million copies. In the book Covey presented an approach to being effective in attaining ones goals by aligning oneself to what he calls "true north" principles of a particular character ethic paradigm that he presented as universal and timeless.
Since Covey’s book was released and became one of the bestselling nonfiction self-help books of all time, many writers have attempted to capitalize on the popularity of “7 Habits” by using it in the title of their own writings to present ideas and concepts they saw as something important to share with others. So here is my contribution to that as it relates to dominants in the BDSM lifestyle or one of the several subsets thereof.
By way of a small disclaimer, I do not present here something I claim to be a universal guide or some enlightened path to the proverbial “one true way” applicable to every dominant. This is written simply from my own perspective as a Dom and represents my own opinions that are based on my own experiences over the years. Every dominant, every submissive and every D/s relationship is unique so of course your mileage may vary. Still I hope that anyone taking the time to read this will find something useful here that seems worthy of inclusion in his or her own journey.
1. Know Thyself
The words “know thyself”, often mistakenly ascribed to Socrates actually predated him and ancient Greece by many years. These two words it could be argued are the foundation of all philosophy. I also think them representative of a foundational principle for dominants.
Any male can take on the title of “Dominant” but sadly not all who do so are men with the integrity, strength, character and behaviour deserving of the title. Being dominant is not the same thing as being loutish or domineering. I have encountered those who dress up abuse as dominance, mask pure sadism as discipline and conceal exploitation as kink. True dominance is none of those things.
Being dominant requires a desire to fully embrace the essence of one’s nature and a commitment to learning to effectively channel and express dominance within the context of a relationship with a submissive partner. It requires effort and there is a great deal of work involved in it. I think being dominant is a need for dominants, not just an interest or a hobby. If it isn’t a keenly felt need then why play at it?
Imagine the qualities that you see as being essential to an ideal dominant – fair, affectionate, firm, patient, nurturing, munificent, etc. Keep them always in mind and proactively take action to reinforce those qualities in you until they become second nature.
2. Be Trustworthy
Trust is important in any relationship, even friendships but it is vital in D/s relationships. Without trust the whole dynamic falls apart. You may be able to struggle and still get by with other character qualities needed by a dominant but you cannot struggle with being trustworthy. It is the lynchpin of it all. Always be a man of your word, keep your promises and do what you say you will do. Be a man that your submissive feels she can trust completely. Trust is difficult to earn and nearly impossible to regain if lost.
3. Never Stop Learning
In the years since I was introduced to the lifestyle and my first D/s relationship, I’ve learned a great deal about dominance and submission and I’ve acquired a good many skills but I don’t know it all. Far from it. And I'd suggest, neither do you, whether you’re a new dominant or have been a practitioner for years and years. Attend seminars if they are available to you and learn new skills or hone existing ones.
When my submissive and I started discussing the possibility of forming our relationship, we discussed our respective kinks while exploring compatibility and she had lots of interests that I lacked the knowledge and skills to include in scenes. You can bet I am working now to acquire the necessary knowledge and skills because those are things she feels a need to experience and explore.
Beyond seminars there are numerous books and interweb resources where dominants can acquire education. When I first embraced the lifestyle years ago there were only a handful of useful books available but now there are literally hundreds. Don’t fall victim to inertia. Don’t become complacent and self-satisfied with being able to do only those handful of pet kink activities you enjoy most. If you do, I’d suggest you don’t get too attached to your submissive because she is going to grow and acquire new interests and if you don’t grow with her, chances are good you will lose not only her interest but eventually her as well if you are unwilling to add to your dominant knowledge base and tool box.
If you are a novice dominant, I urge you to find an experienced dominant to mentor you. Having a qualified teacher is always better than going it alone and trying to get everything from books and web resources. An experienced, seasoned submissive is another possibility when it comes to mentorship. She can help you gain a better grasp on the submissive side of the coin.
The more knowledge you soak up, the more skills you master, the more confident you will become and the more your dominance will shine through. That I promise you will not be lost on your submissive. It will be evident to her and appreciated.
4. Recognize the Gift
Yes, not everyone, even some submissive women I have talked with, agree with me but nevertheless I firmly embrace the concept that submission is a gift and I think dominants should recognize it as such. It isn’t a gift in the sense that a submissive offers her submission without the expectation of getting something in return, of course she does. That is why she submits. She has needs that she knows must be met. It is a gift however in the sense that she willing gives it. She consents to offering her power and consents to submit to the control of her dominant. It can’t be taken from her by force or it isn’t submission but abuse. So with all due respect to those who see it differently, submission in my view is a gift and I think dominants should be mindful of that.
Submission isn’t easy in the world and times we live in. It takes great courage and great character for a woman to literally put her life and well-being in the hands of a dominant. In addition a woman who submits is going completely against the grain of everything she is being inundated with by society with regard to women’s rights these days. She is told relationships are all about equality and self-determination, not placing herself in a submissive position to a man. That dynamic might sound appealing on the surface, but a strong, capable submissive woman understands that she can feel happier and more fulfilled by submitting from a position of strength and independence to a strong, dominant man she trusts and respects.
She understands that submission isn’t about being a doormat because she knows she can take on the world outside of her relationship. She can manage her own career, her own finances, her own material wants and wishes but she still can choose to kneel at the feet of her dominant and serve him with pride and affection, adhere to his rules and protocol and submit to his authority and discipline.
A dominant is truly being handed the keys to the kingdom when a submissive consents to give herself to him. So recognize the gift. Appreciate it, honor it and treat the gift, as well as the woman offering it with the care and respect deserved.
5. Don’t Get Lazy
Sloth or laziness is one of the seven deadly sins in Christian moral traditions and it is just as deadly for the dominant in the context of a D/s relationship. A submissive taken for granted is a submissive that will soon be lost. I can tell you this from bitter personal experience. One of the loveliest, most sensual, intelligent and challenging submissive girls I ever had left me for that very reason. I became complacent. I got lazy. I stopped exercising dominance and control. I started to rely on the sex to keep the relationship alive and ultimately that did not suffice. I can assure you I won’t make that mistake again.
Since becoming active on this site, meeting and chatting with lots of different submissive women, I have come to identify a mind-numbingly common theme, “My dominant is really up for the play and sex but doesn’t seem interested in the D/s and I don’t feel the control I crave.” Almost every single time I hear this, the submissive will acknowledge that the play and sex are great but will then immediately condition that with “it just isn’t enough, it isn’t meeting my core needs as a submissive”. So you can be great at the play and the kinky sex and she may be regularly be experiencing those mind-blowing, speaking in tongues, I really saw God, Meg Ryan ain’t got no shit on me kind of orgasms, but if sex spiced with SM is all you are bringing to the table, for many submissive women, that just is not going to be enough.
Kinky sex is the new cool today. The fact is your submissive can probably get great kinky sex from most any adventurous vanilla guy she may meet on almost a daily basis, some of whom might be a hell of lot hotter looking than you. She chose you because she needs and wants more than that. She wants the dominance and the control piece that channels her submissive nature. If you aren’t giving her that, let’s be fair, she really doesn’t need you. So if that is your strategy, again I wouldn’t get too attached to her. Don’t take her or the relationship for granted. Be consistent. Bring your “A game” every single time. Go big or you may find yourself going home, alone.
6. Know Your Submissive
Equally important as the first habit, know thyself, is knowing your submissive. You should come to know her better than any other person she knows or has ever known. It is imperative that you gain a window to her soul and come to understand exactly what makes her tick – what her specific needs are, what kinks she finds meaningful and how often she needs to experience them and what motivates her to submit. You must insist on total and complete transparency and you must provide an environment where she feels safe being that. You need to see the innermost workings of her psyche to be an effective dominant for her. Things that worked fabulously with submissive women you may have owned in the past, won’t necessarily work with the one you have now. There are some commonalities but at the end of the day, every submissive is unique. They are not all motivated by the same thing and submission doesn’t mean the same thing to every girl.
Some are motivated because they crave the endorphin rush from an intense scene. Some feel the need to let go and to fly in subspace. Others experience a catharsis from an intense flogging, spanking or caning. For some submission is simply the means to hotter sex and for still others they seek intimacy and bonding that they just cannot get from a vanilla relationship. Service and pleasing motivates some. Regardless of submissive type, most hunger for that feeling of being controlled that is literally palatable. A dominant needs to be intimately acquainted with the motivations behind his submissive girl’s desire and need to submit if he truly cares about meeting the need. It is person specific so a dominant can’t rely on a bag of tricks that worked with a past submissive.
7. Take Your Pleasure and Often
This last one is one of those things that should be obvious to anyone who knows anything about D/s but seems like the stickiest wicket of all for many dominants. Within the context of a relationship, it is often simply an unspoken rule that the dominant will instigate sex. If that is not your understanding as a dominant, if you want your submissive to offer herself to you regularly instead, then you better have a chat to her to see how she feels about it. That is because among the few things that seem to be common among submissive women is that they want a dominant man who is dominant when it comes to sex. If a dominant ever finds himself sitting about bemoaning the fact that he isn’t getting his sexual needs met often enough, he better give himself a hard look because the submissive is certainly not at fault for that.
Yes, I am generalizing here just a bit and doing so on the basis of the purely anecdotal evidence of my own past experiences, but a submissive generally craves to be used sexually and harbors the expectation that her dominant is going to do that on a quite regular basis. She doesn’t want to be asked if she fancies having sex or being played with, persuaded, cajoled or bribed into allowing her dominant to do as he wants with her. That is what fundamentally separates a submissive woman from her vanilla sisters. All those moronic vanilla games are put in abeyance, eliminated from the equation.
A submissive wants to please her dominant with her body, even though at times she may not be particularly aroused or interested when he requires her to do so. A part of it, being used may be that she is made to do those things she isn’t quite sure that she likes, or only likes when she gets into subspace, or those things she knows she likes but feels a little ashamed for liking them because they are “dirty” or perverted or risky or whatever. But the question of whether she will let her dominant do them has already been decided. She has already agreed in advance to do anything that does not violate her disclosed limits so the dominant pretty much has carte blanche to do with her as he pleases, when he pleases. There are always limits and they must always be respected, but that leaves a lot of space to work in. Often a submissive is most aroused when sexual performance is expected and when her dominant decides he requires sex at any given moment he decides to require it.
So a dominant should feel free to awaken his submissive from sleep to service him, to instruct her to drop to her knees to fellate him and to take his pleasure from her when he arrives home regardless of the mood she might be in if he wishes. Her responsibility is to pleasure him and to meet his sexual needs and most often that is a huge ongoing turn on for her. She wants to please him and to put his sexual needs first. Once the play is in motion or she is servicing him sexually in the way he needs, she typically gets caught up in it and her pleasure invariably follows as surely as if she had instigated sex with him.
A submissive in most instances signs on to willingly and consensually be the sexual plaything of her dominant. It is not her responsibility to initiate sex or play or to make or cajole her dominant to take advantage of what she offers. When he takes his pleasure she is generally going to be happy about it and will feel most fulfilled and satisfied as a submissive. Personally I think a submissive should be given the freedom to ask for or feel free to attempt to seduce her dominant if she wishes, but that is not her responsibility. Dominants should take their pleasure and often.
Again this is not offered as a universal guide, but adopting and practicing these suggested 7 habits of highly effective dominants should for most contribute to being not just an adequate, or good but great dominant that a submissive girl can truly enjoy and find meaningful to serve.
Finding a great dominant is not the easiest thing in the world because the demand always seems to outstrip the available supply. So unless a dominant has irrefutable proof that his submissive feels he is the greatest dominant she can imagine, he would do well to do those things that foster within her that perspective.
The blunt truth is because submission is a keenly felt need, not an occasional interest or a hobby, many a submissive woman does settle for far less of a dominant than she really wants because understandably getting some of your needs met, at least some of time is better than not at all. A wise dominant does not give his submissive reason to think about trading up if she is a girl he wishes to keep. |
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There are some very important details that should be kept in mind when taking your picture. First off, clean up a little, would you please? I get it. We all have frumpy days, and nobody wakes up looking like a soap opera star. However, first impressions are HUGELY important! You don't have to go get all spruced up in your Sunday best, but at least make the effort to make yourself presentable.
Make sure you're aware of your surroundings before you take your picture! The background of your picture quite often tells me so much more about you than your face or your own words ever could. Remember what I said about first impressions? This applies to what's behind the face or body you are taking the picture of. When you have a sloppy appearance combined with a sloppy background, how appealing do you think that's really going to be, ESPECIALLY if you are claiming to be a Dominant?
I am ever so glad that you are proud enough of your genitalia to post pictures of them for the world to see. Really, I am. However, most of us that are halfway decent are FAR more interested in what's between your ears than what's between your legs. So please, save those for later, or at least don't put it up as your main profile pic.
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I give up. Nobody should have to accept being abandoned. I sure as hell am not going to. |
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This is turning out to be one of those days I just want to hide from the world. Feeling like I'm not much more than just a pain in the ass to everyone. |
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I finally got my rock tumbler set up! By the end of the week I'll have some pretty stones I can start making things with! |
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Wondering what the hell possessed me when I listed orgasm control under "Tolerates". Should have gone under "Hard Limits" because I am NOT, in any way, shape or form, tolerating this at all! *grumbles about evil Dominants* |
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"Darkness is needed to see the stars." I love this... |
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You know, keeping my snarky, smart-ass attitude in check is really, really hard some days! |
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Another sleepless night. Yay? |
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I have been entirely too hyper for my own good today. I am so gonna pay for this! |
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I'm a bit disappointed. I can't set up my tumbler until tomorrow cause I don't have everything I need to mount it properly :( |
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I accidentally stepped on a praying mantis! I feel horrible!!! |
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I love swings. And roller coasters. Except when it's mood swings and emotional roller coasters. Those really aren't so much fun, ya know? However, I am absolutely determined that it's going to be a good day anyway!!! |
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It's Friday!!! I get my rock tumbler today!!! I'm just a lil bit excited, can you tell??? |
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Another belt notch smaller today!! Woohoo!! |
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I really can't wait for Friday to get here. I am so super excited I could just burst! I've developed an intense interest in pretty rocks and seeing what I can make out of them. Friday my rock tumbler gets here so I'll be able to start polishing all the rocks I've been collecting! *does happy dance* There are some real beauties out here, and I can't wait to see what they look like when they're polished! |
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As much as I joke about all the possibilities open to me when I'm left all alone and unsupervised, I really don't like it much. Well, it's happening again today. Going to be on my own all day. We haven't had a good storm in several days. Guess what's being predicted for today??? Yeah, thunderstorms. Guess what happened last time I was left alone? One of the worst storms we've had this season. I suppose I should mention that I am REALLY scared of thunderstorms. I don't wanna be a big girl today :( |
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Feel like an absolute lump today. Want to eat but nothing tastes good. Have lots of things I should be doing, but just don't wanna. I know I should anyway, because that's one of the ways you fight depression, but I seriously just don't wanna. Part of it is because I'm fighting a sinus infection and just generally feel yuck. Maybe if I take a nap I'll feel better. I hope anyway. |
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I really hate nights like this :( |
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Bored, with a bad case of the don't wannas. It's gonna be a long day... |
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Going to be all alone and unsupervised again today. I need a co-conspirator. A partner in crime. Who's up to getting in trouble with me today??? |
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Talking to the so-called Dominants that infest this site can be so amusing sometimes. I just love how they get all pissy and bent out of shape when I point out what they're doing wrong. I just got called arrogant and blocked because I redirected one to go back and actually read my profile before asking me questions like what I am seeking in a Dominant. I took the time to write something in my profile for a reason. Please do us both the courtesy of taking the 30 seconds of time it'll take to read it BEFORE contacting me. Please? Everything you need to know is right there, so if you message me asking me questions you would have already had the answer to if you'd just read my profile, then you deserve every bit of the snarky smart-ass response I'm very likely to give you. |
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Well this just won't do at all. Hump Day and I'll be all alone and unsupervised most of the day. This could be interesting... |
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We can go home tomorrow!!! |
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They're saying It's going to be about another week before they'll let anyone back in the evacuated areas. A friend was able to pay for our room tonight, but we're still trying to figure out how we're going to afford the rest of the week. If I was a hardcore masochist I'd say I was willing to do anything for anyone willing to help us, but I have far too many limits to do that. |
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It's been a very long week. We had to evacuate out of the path of a forest fire. We've been staying in a motel but tonight is the last night we have money for. They have no idea when they're going to start letting people back home. You can look up the Dog Head Fire if you want more info. There are also a few facebook pages devoted to it. Two of the local tv stations here are KRQE and KOBE if you want to look them up too. We're doing everything we can to get more help but we keep running up against dead ends. We have started a fundraiser so if anyone is interested I can get you the link. |
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This is one of those nights I just want a Daddy to curl up with me. |
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It's been said that pain lets you know you're still alive. I am definitely feeling very much alive right now! Thanks Fibro. |
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I have to laugh at the people that think just blacking out their eyes in a picture gives them some form of anonymity. You obviously don't realize that there is FAR more to being able to recognize a person than just their eyes. How the mouth is set, the line of the jaw, shape of the forehead, even your ears and hairline (if you even have hair). And that's just from the neck up! If you're showing a full-body picture, even fully clothed, your stance, your build, your clothes, are all clues a very observant person can use to identify you when combined with the rest of your face. If you're that worried about being recognized, it's a far safer bet to just not post a picture at all! |
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I simply adore a good text-based role-play. Almost anything goes when I delve into the world of well crafted words, so if you're interested, shoot me a message. |
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I'm thinking I need to make a new profile. I'm wanting to change my name, since this one doesn't exactly convey the idea that I have a Dominant side now. Since I can't just change my name though, I have to make a totally new profile. Again. How fun... |
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I just love discovering how creatively people can express themselves! How do you say you're a sadist without saying you're a sadist? This way: "I do partake in pain delivery exercises...". I love it! |
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| Age: 30 |
| London,
United Kingdom |
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