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LadyAingealicia

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I am still looking for my girl. She will know her place, understand her belly, and respect all in the house. I will expect her to have a slave belly* with submissive abilities as well. If that is confusing, send me a message and I will explain. If you do send a message, be mindful of your place and tell me a bit about you. I am only looking for a female.



*Slave belly -A slave belly is that belly that fully desires to serve and that is what is truly in their being. It is almost consuming like a fire until it is quenched with the right owner.



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My results of the BDSM testing.

Results from bdsmtest.org 99 Primal (Hunter)94 Dominant92 MasterMistress91 Voyeur87 Rigger81 Sadist79 Non-monogamist69 Experimentalist59 Degrader52 DaddyMommy48 Switch47 Ageplayer44 Exhibitionist44 Owner35 BoyGirl11 Submissive3 Brat2 Vanilla2 Rope bunny2 Primal (Prey)1 Slave1 Pet0 Degradee0 Masochist

4/11/2018 12:58:25 PM

Aftercare

     One of the most important things for the submissive/slave and Dominant is aftercare. This helps the play time to come to a close and make sure that the submissive/slave and Dominant are mentally, psychologically and physically okay. During playtime, emotions and endorphins will run high and memories can be woken as well. You never know psychologically what will happen to the parties involved during time spent together. Emotions can be woken that were unexpected. So it is important that aftercare is used to make sure that all are balanced afterwards.

     Also on a physical level, depending upon what tools were used, there may be things that need to be tended to. Creams to apply, possibly bandages, it is also important to look for bruises and tend to them. This is a great time for the Dominant and the submissive/slave to sit down and talk about the experience. What they did or did not like. How they are feeling mentally and psychologically.

    It is important to remember BDSM is not meant to break the spirit. It is for enjoyment of all parties involved and growth. It is not for psychological damage or mental destruction and most certainly not for permanent damage of the body. Though there are fetishes and kinks that do include permanent body modification; that is consensual and after a period of time that trust has been established. That being said, always remember aftercare for all involved.
Whips and Kisses,
Lady Aingealicia

1/15/2015 8:00:58 PM
I have been picked up by OSL Publishing. You can find my writings on Amazon and Kindle under Lady Aingealicia. 

Whips and Kisses,
Lady Aingealicia
9/24/2012 7:50:03 PM
A few things about me... I am a natural Domme, have been my whole life. I grew up in Colorado and then traveled from Alaska to NYC and landed in Wisconsin to settle down and find a home. During my travels I have been a Chef, a writer, a journalist, to name a few things. I fell ill about 3 years ago and during that time I had 5 near life experiences and a 5 day coma. Thus when I am asked what I do for a living I guess one could say, beat death and fight for our Constitutional rights as a writer/journalist. I will list within the next few journal entries things needed and goals I have to accomplish Faythe's Revenge. Until later My lovelies and others, Lady Aingealicia
9/24/2012 11:22:04 AM
What is Gorean? This question is asked by a great many. To answer the same question, several times to a lot of people separately is time wasting and allows the knowledge that many want to know, few actually ask. I choose my words carefully as to explain from my point of view without stepping in toes or misguiding interested parties that are new to certain thoughts or ideas they may not agree with or understand. To me being Gorean based fundamentally and mindful is about an honour code one should uphold, not only of themselves; others as well. Honour has many definitions and can be varied from person to person. There is however a common thread; truth, blind Faythe, defense of one's belief to the death, following through with one's word, defending those whom cannot defend themselves, and many codes of the Olde Guild and connected sorts. Also, to keep one's word; for my word is my honour, my honour is my soul. Take from what I write as you will.

The next question...what does it take to be a Gorean slave? ( or similar questions.) One must be able to carry their weight and the weight of their Dominant on their back, so choose wisely upon who's collar is begged. Also, seek out others in this side of BDSM, ask if they may talk to you on the subject, it is also called a search engine, read the books. As kind as I am, never mistake this as weakness. I research, I expect any possible sub or slave to do so as well. I expect those who might wear my collar to have and use the muscle between their ears. That is attractive and worth my attention. 

Whips and Kisses,
Lady Aingealicia
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 Age: 27
 Walkersville, Maryland