Looking for that sexy, sensual, smart, passionate, confident and adventurous submissive. I am a passionate mystical Artist, I am looking for a straight/bi female sub with which to explore, grow, learn and experience pleasure. I am a strict, intuitive, sensual Dom looking for an obedient sub or sub in training. Looking for a grounded, intelligent, and pretty woman/girl, that has interests beyond BDSM...Vanilla included. Is that you?
You should love creativity and be turned on by it as well. I sculpt, paint, draw, act, and write...I enjoy learning and growing on many levels and expect my sub to either have interests or be willing to read up on, or learn as instructed! You will grow and learn and become a better person under my guidance. I will expect that you will value and remember those lessons and integrate them into life.
On the Collarme side, expect to experience an intuitively insightful Dominance. Knowing when to raise the sensual level of a flogger, crop or paddle, at the right pace...a pace that seems to read you mind and your inner secret desires. Looking for a sub with at least a little fire in her. If you are powerful, confident and secure in your daytime life, and wish for a strong yet caring person to deliciously take that power away from you then you are reading the right profile! I can at times require strict verbal compliance, along with discipline, be it punishment or reward. You should be into or willing to explore spanking, flogging, caning, aural stim, bondage, ropes, restraints, oral, nipple play, vaginal sex, anal, corset training, & (at times) daytime compliance. Taking care or your master's pleasure should be turn on too...
NOTE: When I read a profile in the some of the non-kink things that really catch my eye and interest "Loves" area, are: Giving massage & intellectual discourse. Within the rest of those lists I am pleased when I read a confidence of self sexual expression and understand that "curious about" indicates an openness to exploration even if there does not yet exist a proclivity for that activity, nor a commitment to liking it once explored. Some shared vanilla entries that peak my interest include sailing, a passion for good food and of course the arts.
I enjoy being creative and inventive in play will explore new areas and not limited to what is included here. I am also not limited to "the lifestyle" by any means. BDSM is a wonderful part of my life but not all of it. I wouldn't want to live without it that is for sure. There is just too much pleasure and fun to be experienced... I also love movies, TV, scuba diving, horseback riding, gardening, travel, learning, outdoors, camping, garage sales and more.
Ideally: I am Looking for a petite, 5'-5"6" between 28-46, 96-140 lbs, open to all races, with knowledge of massage and a good sense of pleasing her Dom.
NOTE: I am looking first and foremost for who you are, so I am open to other ages (age is more a mental thing really) and body types, as long as you are sexy, smart, secure, spontaneous, clean, disease free and open minded.
Most important is chemistry, & mutual attraction through spirit. I do have Preferences: Prefer darker hair, and whatever the color-The longer the better {note: I have a weakness for a sexy swept "bob'}. If you meet the other criteria and have short blonde hair that's OK)
Geographically Best on the Island within 10-15 miles of my location or NYC.
Wanting someone preferably, that at this time is without children living at home. If they live at home, they must be respected. If you think they don't know or get the vibe of what you do in their home, you underestimate and disrespect them. Respect for your kids as a priority and their utmost well being is important as parent and any close friends of that parent.
Looking for someone who knows how this fits into and compliments her life. I believe in a Dom/sub relationship where self-esteem is built up, not broken down. I will teach you to grow and learn. (Don't worry, there's still room for nasty dirty times/talk within that)
I know what it feels like for you to bottom and know how glorious the sensation will be for you to submit to that tender yet strict Master. I am also honest, single, discreet, clean, and disease free.
Professionally I am an artist, actor, writer, photographer, healer, and intuitive so there's always room for creativity in our sessions. I'm an excellent masseur and gourmet cook, so if you treat your master well and are an obedient sub, the rewards are wonderful!
If you are single and would really like to meet someone here on the island for exploration and learning the ropes, even romance...I want to help you find your sub edge, and dance there.
If this sounds like you, please let me know a little about what turns you on, what you're looking for and we'll go from there.
-ktlman/Ktlmaster