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Ktlman

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Looking for that sexy, sensual, smart, passionate, confident and adventurous submissive. I am a passionate mystical Artist, I am looking for a straight/bi female sub with which to explore, grow, learn and experience pleasure. I am a strict, intuitive, sensual Dom looking for an obedient sub or sub in training. Looking for a grounded, intelligent, and pretty woman/girl, that has interests beyond BDSM...Vanilla included. Is that you?

You should love creativity and be turned on by it as well. I sculpt, paint, draw, act, and write...I enjoy learning and growing on many levels and expect my sub to either have interests or be willing to read up on, or learn as instructed! You will grow and learn and become a better person under my guidance. I will expect that you will value and remember those lessons and integrate them into life.

On the Collarme side, expect to experience an intuitively insightful Dominance. Knowing when to raise the sensual level of a flogger, crop or paddle, at the right pace...a pace that seems to read you mind and your inner secret desires. Looking for a sub with at least a little fire in her. If you are powerful, confident and secure in your daytime life, and wish for a strong yet caring person to deliciously take that power away from you then you are reading the right profile! I can at times require strict verbal compliance, along with discipline, be it punishment or reward. You should be into or willing to explore spanking, flogging, caning, aural stim, bondage, ropes, restraints, oral, nipple play, vaginal sex, anal, corset training, & (at times) daytime compliance. Taking care or your master's pleasure should be turn on too...

NOTE: When I read a profile in the some of the non-kink things that really catch my eye and interest "Loves" area, are: Giving massage & intellectual discourse. Within the rest of those lists I am pleased when I read a confidence of self sexual expression and understand that "curious about" indicates an openness to exploration even if there does not yet exist a proclivity for that activity, nor a commitment to liking it once explored. Some shared vanilla entries that peak my interest include sailing, a passion for good food and of course the arts.

I enjoy being creative and inventive in play will explore new areas and not limited to what is included here. I am also not limited to "the lifestyle" by any means. BDSM is a wonderful part of my life but not all of it. I wouldn't want to live without it that is for sure. There is just too much pleasure and fun to be experienced... I also love movies, TV, scuba diving, horseback riding, gardening, travel, learning, outdoors, camping, garage sales and more.

Ideally: I am Looking for a petite, 5'-5"6" between 28-46, 96-140 lbs, open to all races, with knowledge of massage and a good sense of pleasing her Dom.

NOTE: I am looking first and foremost for who you are, so I am open to other ages (age is more a mental thing really) and body types, as long as you are sexy, smart, secure, spontaneous, clean, disease free and open minded.

Most important is chemistry, & mutual attraction through spirit. I do have Preferences: Prefer darker hair, and whatever the color-The longer the better {note: I have a weakness for a sexy swept "bob'}. If you meet the other criteria and have short blonde hair that's OK)

Geographically Best on the Island within 10-15 miles of my location or NYC.

Wanting someone preferably, that at this time is without children living at home. If they live at home, they must be respected. If you think they don't know or get the vibe of what you do in their home, you underestimate and disrespect them. Respect for your kids as a priority and their utmost well being is important as parent and any close friends of that parent.
Looking for someone who knows how this fits into and compliments her life. I believe in a Dom/sub relationship where self-esteem is built up, not broken down. I will teach you to grow and learn. (Don't worry, there's still room for nasty dirty times/talk within that)

I know what it feels like for you to bottom and know how glorious the sensation will be for you to submit to that tender yet strict Master. I am also honest, single, discreet, clean, and disease free.

Professionally I am an artist, actor, writer, photographer, healer, and intuitive so there's always room for creativity in our sessions. I'm an excellent masseur and gourmet cook, so if you treat your master well and are an obedient sub, the rewards are wonderful!
If you are single and would really like to meet someone here on the island for exploration and learning the ropes, even romance...I want to help you find your sub edge, and dance there.

If this sounds like you, please let me know a little about what turns you on, what you're looking for and we'll go from there.
-ktlman/Ktlmaster

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5/29/2009 8:04:06 AM
Profile updated...5-29-09

7/21/2008 3:54:52 PM
I am continually amazed at the way people filter what they read. I have, in that extraordinarily long list of the questionnaire, checked a few things about which I am curious, meaning I wonder about them and have not ruled them out. When I read someone else's profile I look at what they love, like and what their dislikes or hard limits are. I do not fully judge them on that either. Perhaps you'd be willing to eat the worm in the bottom of a bottle of tequila...perhaps you are curious and if you had a board meeting the next morning you might say "No!"...I have checked curious about things which I hope to keep an open mind about. I have listed "preferences" because in life if you are not willing to ask for what you want then getting it is a total crap shoot.
 My type is greatly varied. The musts for my type are basically a mind, intellect, spirit, openness, loves to give massage and passion. My entire life has brought so much experience my way which I was unaware of in the first place. I believe that is how many of us have come to be here... one day we discovered that certain sensations or mindsets were so much more stimulating than our lives and teachings could have ever revealed. YET,  when we felt or administered that first spank a light bulb went off that burned ever brighter. It has led me to be even more open minded than I was before...What if...that thing we find so incomprehendable is really a great deal of fun? How many of us have Vanilla friends that think there is anger behind all BDSM? I do not know how my basically monogamous mindset would feel if I were presented with two open-minded lovers that were OK with each other...SO I checked "CURIOUS ABOUT-POLYAMORY" Who knows?...It is not in my "Lives for", "Loves" or "Likes"... Sometimes it feels gooooood! Sometimes there is relief in letting go, or taking control. I wish all that read this a satisfying day!
 

10/7/2007 7:22:58 AM
The passion for the sea and sailing runs through my veins. the saltwater for now quenches the thirst....when retuning to land, the desire is to find that elusive yet harmonious match...that compliment to my soul.

I keep searching, like the sailboat seeking port...still I hope to find her

8/18/2007 12:49:51 PM
the turn of her pen,
like a masters brush stroke,
held my eye and my mind
with equal fascination...

I felt her smile as she read my words
So distant in the near future
it made me smile when that moment came

I remembered it before it happened
I rejoiced in it after it was recalled
  
I celebrated her strength,
toasted her beauty
And fell prey to her pretty smile

1/26/2007 11:50:58 AM
1/26/07
The wind is howling, the bitter arctic air pushes forward...Ah isn't life beautiful....! It seems the universe brings you what you seek. Even if you didn't know it, even it its still not here...energy vibrates and attracts like energy. I am so anxious to see what specatcular inspiration comes from the winds of change.
*Note: for NY state and Long Islanders; in case you did not get the memo, skinny dipping at Jones Beach this eveniing has been cancelled.

6/2/2006 2:44:08 PM

Black and Blue Ball  2006!

The venue was the best...The old limelight church! Very cool setting, the turn out so so... Met some very cool people and had some fun with brand new floggers...one soft purple suede and the other Teal green FIRM suede... however they are still not realy broken in. Hoping to meet my destiny sub soon so she can enjoy what i've crafted... They were running a movie trailer for "GOTHKILL:The soul collector" a feature film that co-stars many lifestylers in the community.... it looks like a lot of fun and camp! Hello again to all that came and played, l hope we meet again before next year. Perhaps at the SMACK club party on Saturday?


9/13/2005 9:17:39 AM

I've rec'd so many compliments from the collarme commiunity and thanks to all. Making aquaintances and replying to inquiries as well. Pending meetings, requests... ah the beauty of the future... I am enjoying this search and hope you're enjoying yours. Getting closer every day...


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 Age: 21
  New Jersey