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KrushedVelvet42

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I'm primarily polyamorous.  I am married, he does know everything that I do.  We require that he meets and approves of anyone before I play with them.  I want someone I can be friends with, first and foremost, everything else is just bonus.

I have not explored this side of myself very throughly yet, so I would like help doing so.  I know that I like ice, hot wax, knife/edge play, bondage, hair pulling, biting, and threesomes. 

My schedule is complicated, so it often takes a while before I am able to meet up with someone and get to the point where we can play.  It will take time, if you don't want to take the time to get to know me, and wait for our schedules to match up, don't bother to contact me.
2/15/2009 11:17:44 AM
While I do like the attention, and getting lots of emails, it would be nice if I had some more information about the people before I was expected to contact them.  If someone's profile is incomplete, or has almost nothing on there, then it's very difficult for me to know if I want to talk to the person at all.  So, if you read this, and you contact me, please tell me SOMETHING about yourself.
2/13/2009 1:09:19 PM
There are rules in my relationship with my husband.  No "sex" prior to his permission, which requires him meeting my potential partners at least once, usually more than that.  Sex includes oral, anal, and vaginal, though I can receive oral prior to his permission.  Condoms are a must after his permission.

Also, I am not desperate enough to be topped or find a dom that I am willing to just submit to anyone who comes along.  It must be earned. My trust must be earned prior to my submission, and that is not an immediate thing.  If I am going to put myself in someone's hands, esp bound, or if I am going to follow someone's orders, than I have to trust them and know that they are looking out for me.  That takes time. 

If you can't deal with this, don't waste your time on me.  This is a hard line, a hard limit.  No pushing either one.  I will stay in control of myself and my choices until I choose to give that control over.  I will follow the rules I have with my husband for as long as he requires.  This is non-negotiable.
MoonKissedDruid
 
 Age: 26
 South England, United Kingdom