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KinkyHornySub

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INTRODUCTION - I am not looking for random hook ups, FWB or NSA! I want to explore and experience my desires and kinks, in a LTR, with someone that I connect well with thats dominant, preferably a Daddy Dom, Soft Dom, Caregiver Dom type. That also includes serving, pleasing and keeping my partner happy along with enjoying and sharing in our kinks and fetishes together. I have absolutely no interest in any poly situation. Nor do I want a Dom who wants to have play sessions or scenes with other people outside our dynamic. I am looking for a monogamous 1 on 1 LTR. Though I am starting to give up hope of ever finding one. If you live more than 2.5 hrs away from me PLEASE dont bother trying to message me for a possible relationship. I have absolutely no interest in pursuing anything long distance, its not something I can mentally or emotionally handle. Also, I NEVER rush to meet anyone, if you cant respect that, then dont bother messaging me. If you have an interest in me...share with me how you would provide structure and guidance for me as my Dom. Tell me whether or not you think aftercare and safe words are important in a dynamic. If you are interested in me PLEASE DO NOT send me a sexualized message as your first introduction to me...be more respectful. 

ABOUT ME - I am looking for a deep connection to pursue a LTR with someone who is a Daddy Dom, Caregiver Dom, Soft Dom type. For me I consider myself a sub, good girl, princess with a sassy side. Ideally looking for someone 30 to 50 yrs old and within 150 miles of me. I am looking to go through the actual dating process to find my long term Dom, not just get into casual hook ups. I am a BBW, 5ft, 220lbs and green eyes. I am not just thicker. Got a belly (from weight gain over past year and from constant bloating with my IC and IBS). I am still not fully comfortable with my weight, as this is the heaviest Ive ever been and I gained 40lbs over the last year from less activity. I eat a very bland boring limited diet due to my IC and IBS (still learning what to eat), going to a restaurant is not really an option right now. My teeth arent the greatest from acid reflux breaking down my enamel and meds over the years, so thats a big insecurity of mine. I do suffer from chronic neck and back pain for the past 8 yrs. This may require positioning modifications with regards to restraints and things like that. 

I have had a mostly vanilla sex life through my 20s. Started to explore some milder kinky stuff in my midlate 20s. I have always been sexually submissive but just got into the lifestyle as a sub on and off over the past 6yrs, initially exploring most kinky stuff with myself. So my experience of being a submissive is limited but I am willing to learn and have room to grow and learn with a patient Dom. Most of my submissive experience has been through casual or FWB Doms, limited to bedroom submission, along with whatever Ive researched on my own. I really do not have experience as a submissive outside the bedroom, except for spending long weekends or a week at a time with someone. I have not had any longer term serious Doms. The following list is most of my topfavorite interests-kinks that I enjoy. I have had to remove several kinks from my list due to my worsening IBS and recent IC diagnosis. There are some kinks I have not ruled out completely because of my IBS and IC. I just moved them to soft limit list where with lots of trust and a caring Dom it might be possible to try. I will give my hard limits if asked. KINK INTERESTS: FOR ME... 
1. Bondage/restraints - Only thing to take into consideration is positioning as to not aggravate my neck or back pain. 
2. Forced Orgasms and Edging 
 3. Impact Play - I am not into being severely whipped-beaten. Not into stingy impact play with canes or whips. 
4. Toys 5. Wax Play 6. Sensory Play/Deprivation 
 FOR BOTH...
 7. Watersports - Nothing in my face...neck down only. Not something I am into on a regular basis just once in awhile. Also I do not drink urine that is a hard limit. 
 FOR HIM
... 8. Cock sucking/licking - I love to suck cock and will do so for as long as and as often as my neck tolerates
 9. Sucking/licking balls 
10. Rimming - you must be clean back there 
 11. Anal finger or toy - I will do anal play with you with fingers or toys. However I am not into full on pegging, using big toys or fisting you. 
12. Urethral sounding - while I had to give this up for myself, I will still gladly do it for my Dom if it is an interest. 
My hard limit list is available upon asking (not enough room here).

I do suffer from chronic neck, upper back and lower back pain 24-7 (for the past 11 yrs)...if that is something that you are not able to work with me through and work around it, then please look elsewhere. It is not hugely limiting but may require positioning changes or rest breaks etc. I also deal with chronic migraines, Irritable bowel syndrome and Interstitial cystitis Ideally Im into someone 35-50, if you are older than that then you are too close to my fathers age and thats too weird for me and a turn off. I don’t do well with long distance relationships. Im looking to connect with someone on the deepest of levels while we explore our deepest desires together. I want a loving relationship where we will be devoted to each other. A relationship based and built on trust, honesty, respect, loyalty and open communication. As a submissive, I yearn to serve and please my Dom. In return I seek guidance, protection, support and a deep inner strength to lean on and training as needed. I want someone I can completely submit to, giving all of my mind, heart, body and soul to, knowing that in giving up full control my hard limits will always be respected never broken or forcefully taken away as a punishment. I need someone who believes in aftercare for me, just as I believe aftercare is important for you, someone who will never punish me because I’m having a bad day health wise. I like things like being given a list each day of tasks I should try to complete as tolerated, with reminders to take time for myself to rest and relax. I like the day to day guidance and structure. If you do not respect hard limits, safe words or agreed upon aftercare, you are an abuser and I will not waste my time with you. I am at a point in my life where I need a Dom with experience. I understand there are people who are new to the lifestyle and new to being a Dom. I just do not have the mental energy to handle a new Dom that is learning. I am not looking to teach someone how to be MY Dom either. Yes a Dom and sub work together to be the best for each other and help each other in that aspect. However if you have no experience whatsoever I can not “teach” you to be my Dom. PSA: My health comes FIRST. Any kinks, sexual activities or non sexual activities come in second. Sorry to burst your bubble. My submission is NOT more important that my well being!! Any true Dom who cares about his/her sub will always make their physical, mental and emotional well being a priority. If anal play/anal sex is a top priority/necessity sexually, then we are not a match as all anal activity is off limits for me for health reasons.

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12/19/2022 9:23:06 PM

What a joke, seriously!! Edited profile end of September and its now the middle of November and still not approved yet. 


10/31/2022 7:45:55 PM

Still waiting and waiting for edited profile approval lol. If anyone sees this message, you can easily find me on other places to message me, like fetlife, with same name. 


10/13/2022 9:34:31 AM

I'm still here...just waiting and waiting and waiting for re-approval of changes to profile. Don't recommend making changes because it takes way too many weeks. It's been several weeks now for me. Other sites do approvals to profile changes within 24-48 hrs. 


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Rachelle23
 
 Age: 25
 Sri Lanka