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Jelliet

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My basics

Ive had submissive experiences. Ive had LTRs. Ive never had both together. I am interested in developing enough trust in a partner to fully explore my submissive nature. I am hoping to find and explore both with someone I connect with beyond the sexual. I want vanilla with the Kink. That means Im looking locally for now, and not actively seeking couples. That also means please do not contact me if you are not single, or if you are already committed to a submissive or slave.



Im a northerner who decided a few years back to see what the tropics had to offer. Im a smartass, and a smartie in my real life, and that is probably not going to change anytime soon. Once comfortable, I have a goofy, feisty personality. I dont think I am a good match to be a 247 slave, or a 50s housewife (I really cant cook, anyway. But good wishes for those who seek those in a partner). I have opinions, and they are a part of my feisty nature. But then, there is this other side to me....



Ultimately Im looking for a partner one who can appreciate and celebrate my personal strengths, while secure in the knowledge that with just a word or signal from Him, all of that falls away as I hand myself over in submission. In other words, I prefer to be my goofy, feisty, smartie (and often smartassed) self when not leashed.



*an important note I spent my whole life in decent shape (running, SCUBA, boot camp classes, etc.) until I experienced some profound health issues. Those health issues have been resolved, but my body is still paying the price. In short, the weight above is accurate. I am actively working to change that, but it is not an overnight process. I am not interested in being Fed, as I am actively working towards a decent fitness level.


Power exchanges require trust. Trust requires honesty. I have few pics of me at this weight because apparently my ego requires vanity.

Theres also FL w the same handle. Easier to post pics there, but please dont friend me there - or here, for that matter - unless I request that you do.

UPDATE Im also very open to a Fitness Dom to help me with my long term fitness goals. It sure if thats actually a thing, but I hope it is!

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4/2/2018 2:33:55 PM
I generally dislike negative journals and negative statements in profiles. 

But I'm starting to get it. So here goes...

It strikes me as rather unsettling that there are quite a few people here who spend pieces of their own lives inventing personas or scenarios that would make it "ok" to interact with women online. 

To those who approach women here with that intent: 

Is a small moment of online "connection" and perhaps a few lines of sexy chat really worth spending all that time and energy? 

I can't imagine how little worth your time and energies must have for you to use any part of it to focus on something with so little benefit. 

Even more importantly, to base an exchange on misrepresentations is to remove the other person's ability to consent. 

This world is ALL about consent. Period. 



Whew. With that out of the way, I think I'll get back to enjoying my day :-)

3/6/2018 7:27:08 AM
People ask me what I am looking for. Fair enough. 

This is not going to be a list of kink. For me, those decisions are between two people who develop a solid connection.

I'm looking for:

Someone who chooses honesty over convenience. Someone who values what is fair over what merely increases their comfort. Someone who looks for their truth without regard to fitting into boxes or cultural norms. Someone who strives for these things even though missing the mark is inevitable. Someone brave.

Someone who expects the same things from Me



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mistressstephine
 
 Age: 22
 Nikolaev, Ukraine