I'm a introverted kind of person looking to get to know new and like minded people. I've been told that I'm really easy going and laid back, I don't care for drama and can be very discreet when need be. Also, in my book patience and understanding is a hot trait.

I'm not looking for a relationship but if your interested in getting to know me the first step is to send me an intelligent and respectful message and see where things go from there.

A few things about me are that I was born at Reynold's Army hospital in Fort Sill, Oklahoma and raised just off the base in Lawton, Oklahoma before moving to Woodward, Iowa shortly after the Iowa floods of '93 subsided.

I've led a life full of mistakes and poor decisions but I wouldn't trade one day of it for anything because it has made me into the man that I am today. I attended and graduated from the Valley Junction School of Bartending in 1995 and became an ordained minister with the Universal Life Church Monastery on 02/08/2010.

I've been married since 08/13/2006 and I'm dad to three boys and a girl. I have seven children altogether, five biological and two step-children. They consist of my son that lives with his mother in Oklahoma, my daughter that lives with her mother in Oregon, my son that lives with his mother in Iowa, my daughter, my son and two step-sons that live with myself and their mother.

I enjoy a variety of activities, mostly outdoors. Simple things like riding bikes, hiking/walking a trail, spending time on a beach, boating, off-roading, picnicking, visiting the parks, grilling out. Some of the things I do indoors are wasting way too much time online, trying some experimental cooking, watching something semi-educational on T.V., attempting to keep up on the cleanliness of the house and staring out the window wishing I could be outside. Most of all though, I enjoy spending time with my family no matter what we're doing.

I've been heavily influenced by women throughout my life and thoroughly enjoy my feminine side, during my childhood I spent quite a bit of time with my grandmother who would often have me model a dress or outfit that she was sewing for my female cousin so that she could make adjustments to it. During our time together she taught me the age old art of "domestic servitude" or being a housewife. We'd clean, cook, clean, garden, sew & run all kinds of errands during the day. We'd even have lunch and dinner ready and waiting to be served.

It wasn't too long after before I found my mother's closet and makeup collection, started experimenting with it and discovered all the joys and wonders of cross-dressing.

During this time my admiration of women and all that they do grew , as an adult I suppressed this side of me for many years due to criticism and fear of rejection and only only allowed myself to dress up on Halloween or any special occasion