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Not looking at this time.
Looking for a monogamous Ms relationship. Poly considered, if all the participants are aware and consent to the arrangement. For me, the mental aspect is equally important to me as the physical. Be willing to take your time getting to know me. That means sharing vanilla activities to check for compatibility as well as the BDSM aspects. Im not looking for one night stands. I dont play casually. The type of relationship I seek is too intimate to share in a casual atmosphere. I require the mental intimacy to be able to submit to a Dominant. As the writer Isabel Allende succinctly stated, if you cant reach me mentally and intellectually you wont reach me intimately.
Im 59 years old, single, nonsmoker, medical professional. Im not sophisticated or fancy. Blue jeans and t-shirt type of gal.That doesnt mean I am not intelligent, articulate or engaging. I enjoy working with my hands, hiking, playing poker with the neighbors and DIY projects. My most recent DIY project was learning how to lay tile. Figuring out how to cut the tile with a manual cutter, figuring out the lines so the design was pleasing to the eye, grout, thin-set, to butter or not to butter...that is the question. -) A little tile humor. Most importantly, doing it so no one could tell it was done by an amateur! I tried my hand at making stain glass windows and ended up placing a smaller piece in my home. Check out the picture. -)
I like to keep busy and am always up for an adventure. On a recent trip to Vegas I signed up to drive a bulldozer. That was a good time! Maneuvering the dirt around, carving out holes, building grades and leveling. Very fun.
To the One I seek If you are looking for a submissive partner in our private life and an assertive partner in the life we project to the vanilla world I might be the one you seek. You should possess a good sense of humor. No serious types, please. Be able to comport yourself with a modicum of civility and intellect. Im seeking a dominant that is at least in his fifties, single, and a non-smoker.
Not interested in long distance relationships as I have a need for frequent physical contact with my Dominant. Expect to move from online chat to phone quickly if there is a connection.
If the first thing I see from you is your male appendage on your profile picture, I can tell you positively, I will have NO interest in you.
UPDATE While, I do appreciate the younger gentleman inquiring, my tastes are for the older gents only. If you are young enough that I could have given birth to you, it isnt going to work from the mental stand point for me. That doesnt mean you are not a good dominant, it means you are not a good dominant for me. -)
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So many profiles accusing others of not being "real". I think a fair amount of it is the difference in the experience levels of the participants. Those that have been around a while and have the experience and knowledge that less experienced folks do not possess. Yet, those less experienced folks think they know/understand what it is about and make judgements or deductions from a place of ignorance based on lack of experience. Kinda like expecting a high school kid to perform at the same level of a PhD. The high school kid thinks he/she has got it all figured out, but they don't know what they don't know. Just my thoughts and observations. As always, YMMV(Your Mileage May Vary) |
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What I am finding is that people forget that the majority of time a couple are living their real lives. Going to work, paying bills, doctor and dental visits, grocery shopping, hobbies and all the other activities and mundane tasks that take up everyday living. When seeking a relationship, you need to be sure the vanilla part of life with him/her is every bit as compatible as the BDSM part, because vanilla is where the most amount of your time will be lived. That doesn't mean your roles do not remain in place during those times, it means that you are not performing a scene 24/7. YMMV
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