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IronJose

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WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR: Experienced Dom, with a sadistic edge, primarily looking for a sub female. I'm looking for a play partner (possibly a live in slave). Open to both long term relationship and short term relationships. Not looking for any young skinny girls, scammers or woman who want to be relocated. I'm open to women of any race, ethnicity or marital/relationship status. I like a woman with curves and booty. I've had several BBW play partners and am open to women of all sizes. I prefer women over 40, but can be a little flexible about that. ABOUT ME: I'm retired military, educated (BS/MS) medical professional (also retired) and have lots of free time on my hands. I'm Hispanic, from South America, and immigrated to USA when I was young. I have been to almost every continent and much of the USA. I'm fluent in both English and Spanish. I also know enough French and German to get in trouble. I have facial hair, tattoos (mostly military) and I don't shave any part of my body. WHAT I'M INTO: The list format on here is limiting so I will spell it out. I'm want a Sub who understands what submission is. I believe in treating a woman with respect, but when I play, I am into being verbally abusive. I'm into bondage; including ropes, handcuffs and soft restraints. I like to gag and blindfold sometimes. I'm into pulling hair, especially while receiving oral sex. I don't normally like slapping, but I've had partners that are into that, and have done it. I'm into breath play, choking ect. I like tit torture and have lots of little toys for that. I like rope play, on breasts, nipple clips and nipple suction. I love butts and punishing them. I use canes, riding crops, paddles, belts and floggers. I'm into candles and I don't mean just for ambiance. I like to use low heat wax candles on breasts, butts and just about anywhere else. I like needle play and have large supply of sterile medical needles. I like electrical play with my TENS unit. I like ass play with butt plugs (of all sizes), beads and anything else you want. I love anal sex, and if you don't, I probably won't like playing with you. I like to restrain and stimulate vagina and clitoris with my hands, vibrators and my tongue. I like vaginal sex on spread and restrained partners. I like it from the back, especially with hair pulling and a hand or belt around the neck. I do have some hard limits: No water sports or scat and not anything that is medically dangerous or that will leave a permanent scar (that includes knife play). All of the above, being said, I will respect any limits. I believe in communication and mutual understanding of what is expected. I expect a parter to be explicit as to what's acceptable and to them. I require the use of a verbal safe word and a visible signal. I require that a partner be in reasonably good health to play. I will not play until we get to know each other and understand what we both want and expect. No games or drama please.
4/20/2017 5:59:06 AM
I've been on this website for just a few days and I'm still trying to figure everything out. I've been on FetLife for a few years. I've tried other pay websites. I had a great play partner, for over a decade, but she move away. I've played with a few other people but I've had a hard time finding a steady partner. I Want to go to a Cinco de Mayo BSDM event (in Gatlingburg) but would really like to go with someone. I'm am on FetLife and am going to a munch today. I wouldn't mind finding someone there.