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Perhaps, by now, I should know better...but...here we go again....

Who am I???

I am no one special. Over the years, I have come to understand and firmly believe that. Is it a self-depreciating statement? Possibly. Yet it allows me to operate from a position of strength. Let me explain....I was once asked what a "true Dom" is. I considered the question at length. The answer that I developed was this: A "true Dom" is someone who understands that this life we lead is not simply about control. It is not about controlling another person. It is not about keeping that person chained or bound. It is not about inflicting pain on another human being, no matter how creatively one might do so. It is about binding that person to you. It is about making that person want to obey you. It is about making that person want....no, need to be bound and hurt by you....even if for no other reason that your own personal amusement and enjoyment. Recognizing, and being able to accomplish that, does not make me special. It does, however, make the chemistry that enables and allows that to happen, very special....extremely rare, in fact. I have been alternately described as intense, extreme, diabolical, dark, twisted, evil and an edge player. Aside from the givens...death and kids...my only limit is my imagination. I have not even begun to stretch the boundaries of my imagination. Nor have I found anyone with whom I could attempt to. There are some technical aspects of BDSM that are not particular favorites of mine. There are some that are. As for the ones that are not, I will certainly employ them if the situation calls for it. There is a decidedly sexual bent to my play, and everything that I do within the life. I have a sense of humor, twisted as it may be. You should as well. I can make you cry in a heartbeat. To make you laugh requires true commitment. To bounce you back and forth from one to the other requires artistry. So what does someone such as I seek in this life? I seek someone that understands that this is a life choice for me. I don't care for the terms "play" or "play partner". I try not to use them although it is virtually impossible. I don't play. I live. I seek someone who understand the concept of "chattel" and "property". Who understands that the words "cunt", "whore", and "slut" can be terms of endearment and praise. I seek someone who is willing to dig deeply into the dark recesses of their psyche and pull out those slithering needs and cravings that are afraid of the light of day...the fantasies that one is afraid to give voice to...someone who will dig that deep knowing full well that I will shine light on them, fulfill them...and, yes...even put my own evil twist to them, leaving one to wonder "Did that really just happen??" I seek someone who possesses the burning need, and the intestinal fortitude, to live by the mantra "My Master, right or wrong, my Master". I seek someone who understands that limits are just artificially created and imposed psychological safeguards that allows one to justify ones needs, desires and actions. One can truly do anything one chooses to do. Limits are meant to be stretched and expanded. If you are not coloring outside of the lines...always reaching...you are in a state of stagnation. Stagnation is not life. Therefore, if you stagnate, you might as well give up and die. I refuse to give up. I will not die. I will live forever. I am not everyone's cup of tea, nor am I for the faint of heart. In my almost 20 years of walking this path, I have met a lot of people. Some very intelligent and knowledgeable...some completely retarded and suffering from clue deficit disorder. I have scened with many, publicly and privately. I have mentored and guided a few, considered one, collared none. I know what I seek. I would rather walk my path alone than to do a disservice to the life by settling for less. I rarely initiate correspondence any more for reasons the simple reason that I believe the person I seek will simply find me through fate and divine fortune. However, I will correspond with anyone who approaches me with respect, decency and sincerity. Just because we may not be what each other is seeking, does not mean we can not be friends. I am open to all...

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1/27/2012 9:23:43 AM

In order to save some time....

 

I have been in this lifestyle for over 25 years, and it is just that to me...a lifestyle...not a game or a fantasy. My outlook and philosophies have evolved over time and I am very cognizant of exactly what I desire. If I had to sum it up in ten words or less, it would be "unquestioning loyalty, submission and obedience".

This is not something that I will commit to quickly. For, with ownership comes responsibility. I will spend at least six months to a year getting to know someone...online, by phone, as well as face to face visits. After that time, if I choose to consider someone, there will be a one year trial period before I commit to ownership.

 

My ownership will come with appropriate symbols and may include piercings, tattoos and even branding. I will tell you up front that my interests and kinks (both leather and sexual) are far ranging. There is very little that you could name that I have not at least tried.

 

NON-NEGOTIABLE DEAL BREAKER:

 

I often enjoy seeing a woman that is possessed by me used sexually by other men at my direction and under my supervision....and I will push your absolute limits where that is concerned.  If this is an issue for you, I wish you the best...but i am not the man that you seek


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 Age: 50
 Catonsville, Maryland