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Hello I am a, real, experienced, Dominant, with a, well controlled, sadistic streak and a sense of humour. I am not a 'player' and I am not a 'kinkster' (whatever that means) nor am I a misogynist; I like women. I am not 'evolving', I know who, and what, I am -and have for a long time- although I'm always learning. I have been involved in D/s and bdsm for most of my adult life (ie, since 19) including several D/s relationships each lasting several years. But I am not really a bdsm scene person. Have not been much of a 'joiner' since I left the Military and I'm not into cliques (which seem very prish) honest, intelligent, unattached, and, probably, without children, and who likes to have fun, we can certainly talk. You do not have to be beautiful (except to me) although you really should look at least okay without clothing and take care of yourself physically. (that means not being a BBW, sorry, not my thing at all). I smoke but only occasionally burst into flames. Born in England, I have visited more than 40 countries and lived on three Continents. I lived in Africa for years before coming to Aussie. I was first published as a writer at 17. I used to be a soldier, but I survived. I like boats and have done a lot of sailing. I try to write sensibly on D/s and bdsm, but if you don't agree with me tough, don't read it. I have a relaxed, if slightly cynical view of the world. Whilst I am probably looking for someone who maybe wants, eventually, a 24/7 lifestyle relationship, I would, of course, consider other things. I try never to take myself too seriously. I like dogs, horses and just about all other animals. Cruelty to animals, or children, tends to make me angry. I love books. I try always to be very honest & honourable and expect the same in return. On occasion I can be rather evil. I am 6' 2" tall, both very clean and healthy. In terms of women I like them honest, intelligent, and in short skirts and heels. Whilst I have been married, long ago, I am, actually and really, single. (When I'm not I will say so, and you will not see me on here much). I have a almost grown up son, but he lives on the far side of the world. If you want to know more please ask. And oh yes I'm on F.. L... (IronDuke).

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2/17/2012 3:03:23 AM

A couple of music vids...

 

'Allegretto'

 

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=30QU-vKkJQo

 

Hess is More 'Yes Boss'

 

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F8qiA1DmHdw&feature=related

 

 

ID


2/16/2012 7:47:28 AM

"Good and evil, our moral prison,
Joy and sorrow passing like season,
Fate in the way of logic and reason
Is the victim of far worse treason."

Rubaiyat of Omar Khayyam


2/11/2012 2:56:51 PM

The Rules of the Game...

 

 

This thing we do, many of us who do D/s (if you find D/s scary run along & play bdsm this may not interest you) it is real, but it also involves a game, with unwritten rules.

 

Rule number one for the Dominant is find the woman least likely to, but most likely to want to. She who is intelligent, successful, confident, attractive & in the most ways admirable. Talking to her is like the sun on your face & the smell of ozone when you have been away from the sea too long.

 

If you are very lucky you might get the odd clue that she is incomplete, she might be on alt, she might talk of 'traditional' relationships. She might lament of New Men having nice qualities, but...

 

Now if you are a Dominant this sort of girl is like a 100 carat diamond. She deserves of both your time & your total concentration, she is rare as hens teeth &, if you be an intelligent man, is what you seek.

 

Make no mistake this woman will require your best care, love & attention. She lives on the edge of admiration & dismissal, she is not for those with much self doubt, although, if she comes to love you, she is the most loyal of souls.

 

This woman can make most people look fairly stupid, but she rarely does, because she is a kind person & a true good girl. Take her on & you must expect to spend all your time at the very top of who you are, nothing else will work, sexually, or otherwise. Scared yet? No? Good, you may yet be in with a chance of one of the higher forms of life that human beings are capable of.

 

This woman fully realizes what she does when she crawls for you, & everything else. No other woman's crawls, etc, are worth what hers are. No other submission comes close to that kind of sexual magic. She does that stuff because she will, & needs it, but only for you. When she speaks of her submission it has an almost mythic quality. You had better be worth it.

ID


2/5/2012 11:19:22 PM

Advice for New Dominants and Submissives...

 

Advice to new Dominants: A Dominant is not a 'Dominate', they are not the same thing.

A Dominant is not a rude loud bully, no matter how many you see who claim to be Dominant & behave in that way (at least in chat rooms).

A Dominant will almost never begin a conversation with a submissive he does not know with "Kneel bitch/whore/slut/". Those who do this are most likely dumb not Dominant most especially if they are typing in a chat room.

Calling yourself Master Dark Lord does not make you a Master, or a Dominant.

Calling yourself Slut Master or Bitch Master does not make you a Master, or a Dominant.

Claiming to be a Dominant is not -repeat not- a good way to get lots of 'vanilla' one night stands or even kink one night stands. It is much -repeat much- easier to get 'vanilla' one night stands as a standard non-Dominant bloke.

Washing & grooming is not optional for Dominants. Most real Dominants respect both themselves & others.

If you read John Norman Gor books, or the Story of O or other bdsm wank fiction this will not give you many useful ideas about being a Dominant. There are some useful non-fiction books like 'SM 101' & 'Never Mind the Roses give me the Thorns', etc.

The bdsm porn you see on the net & in videos, when it is not laughable, mostly involves experienced Riggers/Tops & bondage models in well equipped studios. Much of it is not very 'real'. Do not try most of it in your garage with Jane Smith from up the road who had a boyfriend spank her once. Most advanced bondage & other bdsm skills require learning before you try them.

Don't believe your own publicity or take yourself too seriously or you may disappear up your own arsehole. A sense of humour is good.

New Dominants will find some experienced Dominants happy enough to pass on advice. You can find lots of useful information on techniques, aftercare & safety on some places on the net. Local bdsm groups are also good places to seek out good advice, especially those that hold workshops, etc.

Learn basic first aid & CPR.

Real Dominants do aftercare. (look it up on this blog & elsewhere).

Get to know a submissive before you play with her, especially if you are playing in private. When first starting out keep it simple & do not try things you are not confident & comfortable with.

The most dangerous thing in bdsm is extreme breathplay, it kills more people than everything else in bdsm put together. Make yourself aware of the risks.

Enjoy it, it is supossed to be fun.

Advice for new submissives: Most men who claim to be Dominant are not. Many men who claim to be Dominant are in fact 'vanilla', swingers, mentally disturbed, not very bright or a mixture of these.

Don't trust anyone who claims to be Dominant who fails to be both genuinely interested in you & to treat you with respect.

It is highly unlikely anyone aged under 25 is an experienced Dominant. It is fairly unlikely anyone aged under 30 is an experienced Dominant.

Being submissive does not mean being stupid, or taking no responsibility for yourself, especially when it comes to you finding a Dominant.

A man who does not know you & tells you to "Kneel bitch/whore/slut", especially in a chat room, is most unlikely to be a real Dominant.

Rude, loud, bullies are very unlikely to be real Dominants. Real Dominants respect themselves & others.

Most would be 'mentors' merely want to get in your panties. If you feel a real need for a Dominant mentor you should find one who does not want to fuck you & ask him.

A man who asks you to find other submissives for him, especially early in a relationship, is very unlikely to be a real Dominant.

A real Dominant will care about & for you. If a man tells you a Master/Dominant cannot really care for his submissive/slave you should get very suspicious.

Real Dominants do aftercare.

Use the resources available on the net, non-fiction books, local bdsm groups, etc to learn about techniques, aftercare, safety. Don't just rely on a new Dominant to know what to do.

Get to know a new Dominant before you play with him in private. Ask questions. Always meet a new Dominant for the first time in a public place, know his name address, etc, & have a safe call (look it up) set up. No real Dominant will object to this & many will even suggest it to you.

Extreme breathplay kills more people than everything else in bdsm put together. Make yourself aware of the risks.

Enjoy it, it is supposed to be fun

ID


1/26/2012 8:51:08 PM

How to stop Japanese Whaling if you hate it...

 

This will, without any doubt at all, stop Japanese Whaling within six months to 18 months, at most...

1) Do not buy ANY japanese product of any sort.

2) Write and tell the Japanese Embassy that you are not buying any Japanese product until they announce the end of Japanese Whaling 'Research', the end of Japan bribing small Island nations to back thier whaling 'Research' and Japanese Dolphin killing.

After Japan stops, getting Russia, Norway and Denmark to stop thier lesser scale slaughters will not be hard.

And yes I have suggested this to Green Peace who should be the damn people Organizing it.

If even a large minority of us do this in just the western world, Japan will have no choice but to stop killing whales.

Tell your friends, please, it cannot fail...
ID


1/11/2012 1:14:22 AM

Whales, Japanese Arseholes and Politics

 

 

Whaler escalates tensions by ignoring territorial law

Japanese whalers have thumbed their nose at Australia's territorial sovereignty, sailing a harpoon ship inside the 12 nautical mile limit of the world heritage-listed Macquarie Island.

In a move that has infuriated anti-whaling activists, the vessel the Yushin Maru No. 3 was said to have come within five miles of the beach of Macquarie Island yesterday as it pursued the Sea Shepherd vessel the Bob Barker across the Southern Ocean.

But while the Government has criticised the Japanese whalers for intruding into Australian waters before, it was forced to tread more carefully yesterday, fearing too strong a response could jeopardise the release of three WA environmental activists from the custody of Japanese customs officials.

"We have asked our embassy today to reiterate to the Japanese Government that whaling vessels are not welcome in Australian territorial waters," a spokesman for Federal Attorney-General Nicola Roxon said last night.

Last week, Foreign Affairs Minister Kevin Rudd fumed that the Japanese whaling security ship the Shonan Maru No. 2 had entered Australia's 200-mile Exclusive Economic Zone, even suggesting the crew of the ship could be charged if they attempted to enter an Australian port.

The Government confirmed yesterday that Japan had agreed to hand over the three activists, with the customs vessel the Ocean Protector being diverted from a routine fisheries patrol to rendezvous with the Japanese whaling security ship the Shonan Maru No. 2 to pick up the trio.

The mission to retrieve the men, which should be done before the weekend, is expected to cost taxpayers hundreds of thousands of dollars.

Prime Minister Julia Gillard blamed the protesters for the trouble. "Let me make it clear the conduct of these three Australians in my view is unacceptable," she said.

She also cautioned other protesters against taking similar "illegal" action, saying there was no guarantee they would also escape prosecution by Japan.

"I feel very strongly about whaling, I know many Australians rightly do," Ms Gillard said. "But we are taking the most effective action we can against whaling through the International Court of Justice."

Greens leader Bob Brown said the activists were heroes and the Government was to blame.

"The Prime Minister says it (whaling) is illegal but she's pointing her finger at the three West Australians who've gone on board the Shonan Maru 2 for the difficulties they've caused her," he said in Hobart.

"Well, bad luck, Julia. You should have been taking much greater action to stop this happening in the first place."

Simon Peterffy from Bunbury, Geoffrey Tuxworth from Perth, and Glen Pendlebury from Fremantle, from the group Forest Rescue Australia, boarded the Shonan Maru No. 2 early on Sunday off Bunbury in a commando-style raid to protest against Japan's whaling operations.

Geoffrey Tuxworth's father Errol said it was a huge relief to hear his son was headed back to Australia. Mr Tuxworth was not concerned about the cost of the rescue to taxpayers and said it was the sort of thing he payed his taxes all his life for. He doubted his son would have money to contribute to the rescue cost.

"Governments are there to help people in trouble," he said.

"I don't know where he (Geoffrey) would get the money from (to pay for the rescue) but surely the Australian vessel that's going down there, it's part of its job to go out to sea, and our tax money already pays for that sort of thing." He said he was still proud of his son despite his "very dangerous" actions.
Howard government frontbencher turned Sea Shepherd advisory board member Ian Campbell said taxpayers should not be too worried about the cost of the rescue, arguing Sea Shepherd was providing a free service by policing the Southern Ocean.

Me: I would call in the Navy, or an air, strike and sink every every single whaling ship and make no attempt, what so ever, to rescue any survivors. Why does Australia allow the Japanese to get away with this? Write to your MP and tell them 'this is NOT acceptable.

I read Australian Russell Bradon's 'Naked Island' many years ago. It says much about Japans humanity. How you treat people, how you treat whales...

http://www.seashepherd.org/


1/7/2012 5:18:35 PM

What is D/s and bdsm really all about

 

 

You can find out the theory of how to use a flogger, or a butt-plug or do a play piercing. You will find lots of good advice on safety when first meeting someone, you will find endless advice about how, in general terms, to treat a submissive, or behave as a responsible Dominate. You can find out how to write a profile, how to respond to a profile. You might be reminded, in case you needed the reminder, that submissives are human. You can find out the protocols for public & private play parties. You might be told how to start training a submissive to orgasm on command in case you lack common sense. There is advice on how to spot real or fake Doms & real or fake subs.

Lots of men will tell you they are in fact 'Dominates' (but they mostly just cannot spell) but they might also be switches, Tops or Dominants. Their opposites might be bottoms, submissives or slaves. And there are endless, rather pointless, discussions on which is which. There are even people who will, in my opinion, waste your time & theirs by telling you about internet D/s, whatever fantasy that might be. A lot of this is interesting, much of it can be helpful.

But, at the end of the day what this is all really about is none of those things, of & in themselves. What it is about is two (Polyamory types please forgive me) people getting together & doing things together that satisfies them both. It is about a meeting of two compatible minds & bodies & the energy, heat, escape, grounding, release & joy that can bring. It is in the meeting of those two minds, each with their own wants & needs that arrangements are made regarding power exchange, etc. Most of the other stuff is simply complication that we heap on top of the essential of two people with a matching erotic imagination & a desire to explore the hot & fascinating places that can lead.

One of the wonders of D/s-bdsm for me is the way that it can strip us bare, back to what we really actually are. That is very cool indeed. As 2011 arrives perhaps we should try & keep that in mind next year & not get so lost in all the 'top-hamper' we erect around what we do. The core of it remains two people finding in each other that they are able to be far more than either of them are alone. As simple yet as complex as that.
ID
(And please I do not want to hear about your hot self bondage experience, well at least not unless you are female & cute)


1/6/2012 8:39:52 PM

A Bit of bdsm in the Afternoon...

 

 

I had just come home from sea, an afternoon job putting a pilot on a merchant ship, four hours or so of bucketing about in a 48 ft pilot boat with one of the more morose Skippers.

She had the cute little French maids outfit on as I came through the door, all black satin & frilly white lace & she handed me a gin & tonic. "I took the afternoon off Master" says she with a cute smile.

"Cool" I said, sipping my g&t. I need a shower. I slapped her arse & said "I won't be long."

I showered and changed & she got me another drink. "So I take it you are hoping for some fun then slut?" I asked.

"Well, I thought that as you are finished for the day & I'm off early..."

"Indeed." I put my fist in her long blonde hair & pulled her face to mine, kissing her hard & deeply. My other hand exploring between her legs.

"Who gave you permission to wear underwear darlin?" I asked slipping two fingers into her sex. She was wet of course.

"I, I'm sorry Master I thought you might, ummm..."

"Strip", I said, looking down at her, my fist still in her hair. "everything except the stockings & the heels."

I released her & watched as she removed the brief maids uniform. "Hands on your head", I ordered her.

She was a vision naked but for her four inch heels, black seamed stockings & a matching black suspender belt that framed her pretty shaven sex.

"Go and stand in the corner, your nose to the wall". I told her. & went to our toy chest to collect a few things.

When I came back she had not, of course, moved. I slapped her arse, leaving a pink hand print on the pale flesh & took her by her right arm & pulled her up the hall. "Now you are going to get rather more than you bargained for my slut," I told her. I balled her little panties in my hand. "Open wide." She obeyed & I thrust the damp knickers into her mouth, before wrapping several layers of cling-wrap around her head below her nose, to keep them in place. I pointed to the leather wrist & ankle cuffs.

"Put those on & be quick about it." When she had them on I told her to put her hands on her head again. Smiling I produced the clover nipple clamps, she so loved to hate, joined by a nice piece of chain. Slowly & carefully, watching her eyes I pulled on each nipple in turn, before affixing the clamps in place. I put one finger under the chain & & pulled it up & up, stretching her breasts upwards & smiling at her obvious pain.

"Feet apart, wider." I ordered her. I attached a three foot spreader bar between her ankles & then stroked, her now sopping sex. I took two more clover clamps from my pocket & attached one to each of her outer labia & then gently fingered her clit before playing with the dangling clamps.

"Face the door." clumsily, with the spreader bar in place, in her heels she slowly turned. I had purchased two nifty straps that were designed to stay in place on a closed door & I raised her wrists & attached her wrist cuffs to these.

"Now I think we will get this a nice Rosy pink to start with slut", I said, suiting my action to my words & spanking her arse cheeks, half a dozen on each cheek, first one side & then the other, gradually striking her harder as I warmed her up.

I followed this up with my belt, doubled, two dozen strokes, her arse now a nice fiery red. Occasionally I would stop & play with her sex, varying the time between strokes, teasing her.

My crop was next on the menu. "Shall we say 36 or maybe 48 I asked her"? She moaned into her gag & I laughed. The only pity slut is that you cannot count & thank me for each stroke, is that not so"? She moaned again. I swished the crop around behind her, watching her arse flinch, framed so very prettily in the suspender belt. I started fairly lightly, making sure that every so often I caught the tender flesh between her upper thighs & her rear., which always brought a pretty wriggle. To be honest I don't now remember if she got 36 or 48, but probably the latter.

Then I used the end of the crop to rattle the clamps, depending from her labia & to fairly gently slap her sex, spreading her wetness down her inner thighs above her stocking tops.

I picked up my crook handled cane & swished it just behind her pretty marked rear. She knew that sound & again moaned into her gag. Quickly I gave her half a dozen strokes, leaving a fine even ladder of lines across her fine rounded rear. Again I played with her sex, my finger making tiny very light circles on her clit. Without warning I quickly removed both of the clamps on her labia, causing more beautiful moans & some pretty gyrations in her bondage.

I took her hair in my hand & pulled her head back, so she was looking into my eyes. I kissed her slightly damp forehead & said "time to do the front now slut."

This time I took one side of the spreader bar off so she could turn more easily, before refastening it.

I took hold of the clamps on her nipples & smiling & watching her beautiful brown eyes I released them, enjoying the obvious pain in her expression & her gagged moans. I played with her nipples, causing more moans & then picked up a small whippy flogger to use on her breasts, not using too much force & occasionally giving her an upward stroke to her sex.

I was very hard & after a bit I released one ankle from the spreader bar, dropped my jeans & fucked her, fast & hard, using her still attached to the wall. I came fairly fast pumping up into her sopping sex hard. Biting her shoulder as I came, leaving teeth marks in her flesh.

Next I got our favourite vibe, the expensive Swiss one & plugged its long cable into the wall socket. I held this up before her eyes.

"Now remember cutey", I said. "Don't even dream of cumming without permission will you"? She moaned at me.

I crouched down & began to tease her sex watching her carefully & taking her to the brink, time, after time, as she moaned & wrived in her bondage. I teased her for minute after minute, before allowing her, eventually to cum & cum & cum, ten or more times.

Afterwards I took her down & sat her on my lap, removing the gag. I held her for a while, talking soothing words & stroking her hair, kissing her gently. I even made her a cup of tea (nasty insipid stuff, but she liked it).

"So are you still glad you took the afternoon off gorgeous"? I asked.

"Oh yes Master", she replied. "But can we do it again..."
ID


1/4/2012 8:49:58 PM

What is it really all about?

 

There is lots of information out there... You can find out the theory of how to use a flogger, or a butt-plug or do a play piercing. You will find lots of good advice on safety when first meeting someone, you will find endless advice (including on this blog) about how, in general terms, to treat a submissive, or behave as a responsible Dominate. You can find out how to write a profile, how to respond to a profile. You might be reminded, in case you needed the reminder, that submissives are human. You can find out the protocols for public & private play parties. You might be told how to start training a submissive to orgasm on command in case you lack common sense. There is advice on how to spot real or fake Doms & real or fake subs.

Lots of men will tell you they are in fact 'Dominates' (buit they mostly just cannot spell) but they might also be switches, Tops, Dominants or even subs (never believe everything people claim). Their opposites might be bottoms, submissives or slaves. And there are endless, rather pointless discussions on which is which. There are even people who will, in my opinion, waste your time, & theirs, by telling you about internet D/s, whatever fantasy that might be. A lot of this is interesting, much of it can be helpful.

But, at the end of the day what this is all really about is none of those things, of & in themselves. What it is about is two (Polyamory types please forgive me) people getting together & doing things together that satisfies them both. It is about a meeting of two compatible minds & bodies & the energy, heat, escape, grounding, release & joy that can bring. It is in the meeting of those two minds, each with their own wants & needs that arrangements are made regarding power exchange, etc. Most of the other stuff is simply complication that we heap on top of the essential of two people with a matching erotic imagination & a desire to explore the hot & fascinating places that can lead.

One of the wonders of D/s-bdsm for me is the way that it can strip us bare, back to what we really actually are. That is very cool indeed. As 2011 arrives perhaps we should try & keep that in mind this year & not get so lost in all the 'top-hamper' we erect around what we do. The core of it remains two people finding in each other that they are able to be far more than either of them are alone. As simple yet as complex as that.
ID
(And please I do not want to hear about your hot self bondage experience, well at least not unless you are female & cute)


11/20/2011 9:03:09 PM

Good Girls...

 

I really like good girls, but what is a 'good girl'?

Good girls are intelligent & can be witty, they are interesting to talk with & like to smile & laugh. Their intelligence & wit allows them to be cheeky &, sometimes, to get away with it. Good girls are feminine, because they like being women.

Good girls are open minded & enjoy learning new things. Good girls accept & enjoy their sexuality. Real good girls like to do good, their work often reflects this. Good girls are submissive, but only to someone they believe is worth submitting to & who they trust to value them as the high value woman they are. Good girls like candle lit dinners, but know candles might be used for other things later.

Good girls take care of themselves because they are proud of who they are &, just as they expect a high standard from their Dominant, they expect to be held to a high standard themselves. Good girls are honest & open when they trust someone. Good girls sometimes like to be called slut, when they know what that expression means. Good girls like to get down & dirty.

Good girls like to have fun, they can get bored with the 'same old same old'. Good girls like to dance. Good girls like to try. Good girls get excited by chains, blindfolds, gags, clamps, cages, etc, but good girls also like flowers. Good girls like to cum & cum & cum, but good girls only cum with permission. Good girls are drawn to men who can do evil things.

Good girls are sensitive, their skin is alive to all sensation, from a finger gently stroking the nap of their neck, to the line of fire from a cane across their upthrust arse. Good girls are brave, but occasionally they swear under their breath as they hold that perfect position. Good girls enjoy serving, when they know the service is valued. Good girls like to please.

Good girls make good coffee & like to fetch a cold beer on a hot day. Good girls like to kiss & be kissed in many ways. Good girls know how to ask for something in just the right way. Good girls are good friends, & loyal. Good girls strive & enjoy striving. Good girls like excited butterfly's in their belly. Good girls like to be fucked senseless, but good girls sometimes also like to be made love to.

Good girls fetch the crop in their teeth, on all fours, with the most beautiful expression in their eyes. Good girls are obedient because the connection between their sex & their brain is strong & being obedient for their man makes them wet & satisfies their soul.

Good girls are beautiful in the real sense. So are you a good girl?
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