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Edited Apr/06

Daddy Dom - I have never liked that term. The phrase has a vaguely incestuous undertone that disturbs me. I think it's for this superficial reason that it took me a long time to accept that the concept of a Daddy Dom (ugh, that word again, lol) mirrors who I am so very well. To want, no, to NEED to care for a woman in every way possible. To love her obsessively, until it feels like your heart is going to explode. To feel so honored that this adorable creature is trusting you with her well being, with her future. To walk that fine line between wanting to give her all that her heart desires, and knowing that you must also enforce strict discipline not to spoil her. And of course there's the regular "dom" traits, like being in control, etc. Oh, and there's the small detail that I can be attracted to a woman half my age, lol. Not that I'm only attracted to young women, I am a great admirer of female beauty of all ages.

There's also a harder side of me though, that desires a woman with a slave's heart. I don't feel a need to keep her in a cage, and I certainly won't share her. But still, a little objectification and humiliation does turn my crank. As does complete obedience. Nor do I crave to beat the snot out of her, but I will not hesitate to give a decent beating if she displeases me. And these latter traits, I don't think are very typical Daddy Dom.

So what does that make me? A Daddy Master? lol! Ah, fun with labels.

I will tell you one thing that's very comforting though: there is someone out there for each of us. Our match. Our other half. Our soul mate. Whatever you want to call it. Somewhere out there is a beautiful young woman looking for me, as I am looking for her. Now doesn't that thought just warm the cockles of your heart? :)

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Edited Jan/06

Well, things are pretty much patched up in the marriage dept. I guess we just have to learn to avoid a certain sensitive topic :)

Am ready to slowly dip my toes back into the online world ... thanks to those who took the time to drop me a note of encouragement during my self imposed exile, lol.

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Edited July/05
Not really looking anymore. My wife and I are questioning our marriage, and we may go our separate ways in the coming months. So this isn't the time to get into an online relationship with anyone. I'll do the HNG thing for a while and just look at the pictures :)

And dream of a day in the not-so-distant future ...

Always open to interesting discussions and friendship of course!
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I have an insatiable appetite for getting into people's heads and understanding how they think and feel. In the context of D/s, it's a terrific rush. I'm looking for a slim, attractive female with slave tendencies. Age is not critical, though I have a preference for younger women. This is for online only, to pick each other's brains until it feels like we're one and the same. A lofty goal, perhaps.

I am married vanilla. So this stays online - do not have expectations of a r/l experience with me.