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Iriss

First off, if you're male, I'm not interested in any interactions with you.
Just looking for interesting people to talk to right now. It would be nice to know other people like myself, have been feeling a little...well all my friends are vanilla wafers, and despite the awesome people that they are, I guess I kind of need the assurance of like-minded people lately, as this part of myslef is getting kinda squeezed out of my life in a bad way. I've never really had any choclate friends, and it seems some things are starting to get pushed to far down these days--and I won't have that--i don't believe in baggage. I need to learn and find ways to express this stuff, as my old avenues of expression seem to no longer function. Scenes and play seem to be nearly impossible to arrange or do with my gf in such a way that I have actually been able to let myself....go? Having still never had a domme, I've slowly gotten a little rigid and mostly given up. Perhaps my standards have been too high for the small amount of dommes in existence that could pique my interest. I was raised old-school feminist and consequently I refuse to comprise, or accept anything less than I deserve. Submissiveness does fit in there somewhere: this I still believe.

  My only requirement is that you're intelligent enough to offer unique incites about politics, philosophy, feminism, etc. If you spend any time filling your mind with such trash as reality tv shows and unchallenging reading--like mystery, crime, and romance novels, then I'm not interested in corespondence. I'm really not as pompous as this sounds, but I'm not going to waste my time in unstimulating conversation via email or in person.  I'm also in a commited semi-vanilla relationship that isn't open, poly, or anything cool like that (but I am very much in love with her).
10/13/2008 4:48:00 PM
So many angry Dommes! I suppose They get a lot of stupid emails to deal with, but i still find myself astounded. Perhaps when one receives so much affirmation to Her stories from those around Her, it becomes much more difficult to discern the stories from the feelings. The compassionate subbie must be very rare, if not non-existent.
babyxprincess
 
 Age: 23
 Canton, Ohio