You know just once id like to see a profile that says 'WARNING SO AND SO IS ACTUALLY A WOMAN!' it would reaffirm my faith in humanity and its capacity to be bloody ridiculous whenever possible.
We all hide behind illusions of one kind or another, we spend most of our time pretending to be something we are not or something we wish we were rather than just being ourselves, im sure somewhere on here theres at least one woman masquerading as a man although gods knows they are probably doing it with considerably more skill than the men.

Wow didn't realize how long it had been since I'd updated this page, ah well new pic time and with that I shall return to the shadows where I belong until this site either becomes more interesting or someone says hello...

On here I see so many Dominants who talk about breaking their submissive or slave but it has always seemed to me that breaking a person is easy its putting them together again thats hard.
As a person im forever helping friends to put the pieces back together so im left wondering why is the idea of breaking a submissive/slave down seen as acceptable, surely it should be more important in this world where so many of us are unhappy with ourselves to build people up rather than knock them down.

Perhaps im just waffling in a philosophical vein again or maybe im just fed up of seeing people I care about hurt by dumb idiots who don't know what they are doing.

To all my friends on CollarMe, Have a Delightfully Decadent Christmas & a Kinky New Year! 

Its been over a year now since I left Kent, (although I have visited a few times) I have made new friends and generally had a great time and id just like to say thank you to some lovely people for making me feel welcome in a place where I really knew noone...

Gor is somewhere I like to visit, but I wouldnt want to stay there *smiles*

While its facinating and I do love the books and the beautiful imagery they provoke Ive met enough kajira and Gorean masters to decide that Gor is not for me.

While I do like to play with Gor I couldnt live it 24/7 its just a little too much for me.