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BobjustbobGrowlBear
Please note: If you are under 35, keep looking elsewhere, no offense meant, just where I feel comfortable as a rule. I am happy to be friends with those younger, support and lend an ear to, but play is not on the agenda. Because there are those who will not read or note my preferences, I will no longer be responding to messages of those under the age limits I've expressed. If you do not have something to share that will capture my interest, please walk on by. If you wish to be treated as by a Pro-Domme, again, keep moving on. I am not here to solely please you within your needs, just as I don't believe you are here to solely please mine. It is a dual carriageway as far as needs, wants, desires and pleasure is concerned. Wicked and wanton? Have been known more oft than not to own those titles. Love to tease and tantalise, coax and cajole, ensnare and enmesh. I am lush and lascivious of aptitude, attitude and figure (a bbw, fuller figured, whatever the latest catchphrase is). Oh yes, have a thing for alliteration at times. Lure my mind, capture my imagination and my adoring cruelty is yours. I am a woman who is committed to bringing joy to those with whom I share. I am passionate, creative, loyal, lovingly sadistic, intelligent and adore nothing more than to work within the mind to expand, challenge and damnright make it explode. I am socially just, compassionate, empathetic, fiesty, occassionally arrogant (but that could just be the Dutch in me...laughs), possess a wicked sense of humour (that is not the Dutch in me...laughs), politically fatigued but a fierce opponent of ignorance, racism, sexism and discrimmination. As much as I dislike being compartmentalised, for general purposes of understanding, I am a switch. I seek submissives to serve me and a Master to serve. I do not Switch in play and tend not to seek other Switches for more than friendship. Entice me. Serve me. For the nitty gritty. I seek He who is strong of character and conviction, ascribes to personal ethics,and knows His own mind without disrespecting mine. One who knows where His life is taking Him....had enough of the flailers in life, if you can't reach past your 40's and know who you are, then don't bother contacting me. It maybe a cliche but so true here as well, I do not seek a doormat or a twee one to nod and giggle, I like to be challenged. For me this is a learning curve and we don't learn unless we are challenged and made to move out of our comfort zones.
urprnicess
 
 Age: 28
 Dayton, Ohio