In this day and age you would think that people would stop looking at the cover of a book and judging what is inside of this book just by the cover and possibly read the back page where you might find what is inside. This is for those who chose not to read and only look at this book and its many chapters.

     Yes I was a professional Dom. I chose to give up that life before it consumed me and I ended up losing all of my passion and love for this wonderful lifestyle. I left the large cities and moved to a small town so I could find the passion that I had for this wonderful lifestyle yet again as well as find a slave/sub that could care for me as a person as well as there Master.

     In life everything has a balance. The BDSM world is balanced with the vanilla world. We no matter how hard we fight it must come to terms with this balance. Many say they want 24/7 lifestyle but they have never truly lived 24/7. Never out of the role. Not even when you go to the store or out on a walk. Yes some have come close but they still for a moment had to go to work or take the kids to school or talk to there parents. For these brief moments in time these are breaks in the 24/7 lifestyle. This is part of life and part of reality.

     I am not looking for 24/7 nor do I want it. I am looking for a balance. How much of a balance is up to the person that I am with and I to decide we can handle. A 60/40 split would be ideal but lets also get realistic. This can not always happen. Im not looking for a mindless person who wants to move in and me take care of them so they don’t have to work and they can be lazy the rest of there lives. This is reality and there is only one Bill Gates. Sorry ladies Im not him.