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I have been Dominant all of my adult life. First serving in the military for 17 years and now in my current job where my life depends on my Dominance. This is more than Rough Sex to me. It is a lifestyle where every action has a equal or greater reaction.
I process a Dominant personality in everything that I do. I am not a Dom because I say so? Most on this site are just that. They do not understand that this life is not about them and their needs, but the needs of the ONE. The Dom/sub relationship as a whole.
Call me old school. In fact, please do... To me a Dom/sub relationship is built on trust, integrity, honesty and the desires of both parties. Let me say that again. The desires of both parties.
I have read so many profiles of "Master" that I am not sure if they have even "Master" themselves.
So many young "Master", Master of what? It's funny, the term Master is a title earned by ones actions, not one you give yourself. If you demand to be called "Master" than you just haven't mastered it yet!!
A True Master understands that their desires are second to the desires of their sub and to where they want to be.
Not to insult, but what is a subbie submissive to? Is it her desire to spend life as a whipping post? To be degraded and humiliated? To be used and abused as nothing but a piece of raw meat.
Why would I seek one that all they believe is that pain, humilation and abuse is what they are here for. Is not the subbie an extension of the Dom. Should she not reflect who I am. Through her actions, mannerisms and posture. Her dress, not as a "slut", should be that of a strong woman and sexually being. Her head held high, back straight, eyes glowing and full of life. (hopefully never lost on cruelty).
Sexual and sensualized, cared for and loved to a depth no "vanilla" relationship could ever take her, taken through their fears where they will go again and again, pushed past ones limitations. Managed, controlled, respected and one day owned by just one.
The sub desires to ultimately live a life that is focused on pleasing and being found pleasing in all that she does - knowing that her greatest pleasure can only be felt after her Dom has first felt his.
True submission is a gift given by one to another of mind, body and soul. It is not taken, nor is it beaten out of the one.
I seek a True Submissive that carries a natural inborn feeling, and at times a surging and powerful force that needs to be recognized, controlled and managed.
I seek a True Submissive that is not a weak person, for it takes a strong female to commit to the drive inside, to serve, to obey and to please.
I seek one of deep convictions and high self esteem. One that is secure within herself and understands that her submissiveness is a gift, of most importance, that she presents of her own free will.
As a whole the Dom is proud of his property and the sub would wear no other collar. With that I want to add; that the collar that most seek here is not a piece of leather around ones neck. That is only a symbol, misunderstood by most, of a mindset. The "Collar" is something worn with the heart, not around the neck.
What I seek is the Lifestyle. Where the "Vanilla" world is enhanced with structure and disciplines. Where the two are the ONE.
The end result – Long Term 24/7 Dominant/submissive relationship.
S. I. R.
Submission Is Rewarding
One more thing in closing: If you happen to receive an email from me, "On your knees and suck my dick, bitch" or anything similar, you have my permission to tell me to go to HELL. No respect?
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| Age: 35 |
| Louisville,
Kentucky |
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