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About me
In every day life I am a friendly, intelligent, refined and well-mannered man. Born in 1972, 165 [cm] “tall”, average built, blue grey eyes and brown hair with some grey accents.
My character is calm, inquisitive, cheerful, direct with an above average control over my emotions.
I have a university degree in mechanical engineering, a nice job, a good income and as a non smoking single man without kids I am completely unattached.
I grew up around Nijmegen (the Netherlands) and now live in Almelo (the Netherlands close to the German border near Bad Bentheim). Because I live so close to the border I also made this profile stating Germany as half the interesting people within travelling distance live in Germany and this site only looks in one country at the time. For my Dutch profile look at my only friend here.
In my spare time I like to be creative and build things. For this I have a workshop at my home where I design and build among other thins BDSM equipment. Some examples of what I have built can be found in my pictures.
Besides being creative I like to cook, good food and fine dining, movies, hiking, taking photographs, nature, technical things, culture, computers, fly-fishing and a lot more.
I have been active as a Dominant in the BDSM world since 1992 however my interest in bondage and captivity go back to my early childhood. My dominance is something I was born with that comes deep from within me and it is not a role I play. I have a very wide interest in many aspects of BDSM and have gained a lot of experience over the years.
For me BDSM revolves around control (deciding what is and is not allowed), guiding (giving direction to behaviour) and the restriction of freedom (bondage, cuffs, chains, cages, mental bondage, discipline, helplessness, sensory deprivation, etc.)
My creative side is always working on new forms of bondage and restricting freedom. Besides that I have a sadistic side that through suffering, pain and humiliation aims to confront my submissive with her restriction of freedom and helplessness. I have a lets call it educational side that is aimed at altering her behaviour to my liking. This side also finds gratification in seeing my submissive grow in her submission. Because of this it does not matter to me if she is a beginner or an experienced submissive seeing her grow and discovering new things together is very satisfying to me. I also have a caring side that likes cuddling from time to time. This side takes care of incorporating the nicer things in vanilla life (like fine dining) into the D/s dynamic.
Over time I gathered a large collection of BDSM equipment. In my house I have a separate floor dedicated to BDSM containing a well equipped play room, a small guest bedroom, a shower, a toilet and a kitchen. This part of the house is separate from the normal every day living part of the house making it possible to leave all toys out without affecting every day life. Because of this vanilla life and BDSM life can coexist without to much difficulty.
Beside the guest bed room I have a cell in the attic (elsewhere in the house) suitable for short or long term confinement. My house is big enough for permanent live in or long-term visits. I have a lot of privacy and except for things in the garden I can do whatever BDSM activity I desire.
In this profile there is a list of activities I like. More can be found on my Tumblr blog (http://inventerius.tumblr.com/)
All pictures in my profile where made by me (unless indicated otherwise) they show just a part of my toy collection more pictures are to follow. However I still have to find a model to help me show some of them in a proper manner.
If you have any questions or just want to talk send me a message. Do not be scared I do not bite until we have agreed that you are mine and I can bite you all I want ;)
Polite messages will always get a response and I live by the motto that the only stupid question it the one you did not dare to ask.
I speak Dutch and English. I also speak and read some German but I have difficulty writing it.
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If you want to know what kind of D/s relationship I am looking for have a look at the special section of my blog where I am writing a very detailed description.
http://inventerius.tumblr.com/tagged/rel1/chrono |
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I have started a blog about my vision on bdsm and things I like… have a look
http://inventerius.tumblr.com/ |
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Added some photo’s of the new cage I built. It is meant for sitting in with the slaves head sticking out of the top. It was based on the kind of small cage used on the insex and invernalrestraints website.
With the big difference that mine can me taken apart for easy storage and making it lighter to move to other places in the house like the bedroom.
Size is about 45x45x60 cm |
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| Age: 29 |
| NYC,
New York |
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