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* Romantic Sensual Surrealist pushing the boundaries of sensory experience. READ TO THE END!!!** Does that mean Journal entries? yes...
NOTE** I am having a problem up loading another more current photo. Once communications is established I will be happy to provide more once communication is established. Also to answer the question I get often the Art is mine some are stillis from moving images some not.
A Duchess in the dining room, a Gourmet in the kitchen, a ......... in the bedroom and beyond, educated, with comportment?
Know the difference between erotic sensory exploration and abuse, appreciates the use of psychology as well as the physical?
If this is you, I am searching for a vibrationaly aligned complimentary and compatible entity. Sub(s) D/s and or Slave(s) M/s relationship(s) (these are two different dynamics and should not be confused) but they can be combined ;), for long term 24/7 relationship. D/l, with a thoughts towards a family.
Until that is achieved short term (weekend or longer adventures/ travel).
In all relationships there is an "exploration" period, familiarity period, where a level of comfort and trust is established, a "training" period *(if that is the word you would apply) no matter the experience level as each experience is unique but note my main goal is a LTR 24/7.
When I write "common interest" I am speaking about more than the “BDSM” portion of your or my profile (as long as there is something in your profile, if not you caught my eye), which is "easy and logical", I am looking for a Muse/sub/slave/lg/doll and you are looking for a Artist/ Dom/ Master/Daddy/Puppet Master, but these are just convenient terms to a yet undefined relationship. If I contacted you it is safe to assume that we share some of the same music, estethics, art and therefore Ideals, concepts.
Before Moving on to the BDSM portion you should know that in any relationship, I believe and practice positive re-enforcement. I do not accept, engage, or continue in abusive relationships (note this does not preclude S/m practices just not what I deem abuse). It is my practice that in a relationship we encourage each other mentally, physically, and energetically. This lead to positive expansion of our lives in total.
As my profile says I am a Romantic, Sensual, Surrealist pushing the boundaries of sensory experience". What does this mean...
It means that I believe that each experience from the table to the bed and everything in between should be made with a combination of these elements, in all aspects of life. Not just in the bedroom, this extends to all aspects. I am not at all objectionable and seek to push past boundaries of previous experiences, this leads my tendencies towards D/s and Bondage mental and physical, Rules while venturing into extremes as the specific experience, passions, circumstances, and duration dictate.
In other words I only believe in positive re-enforcement in any relationship, no matter if it is delivered with a well placed word or well paced hand.
Fellow explorers, friends and libertines are always welcome for fun times and adventures. (adventures take many forms...)
My current objective is to obtain a vineyard and make wine, along with some eco/ agri tourism, perhaps a psy-art retreat to go along with my other business activities.... this is already in process I am deciding on Italy or France. The reason for this choice is the proximity to my parents (they retired to Italy) it is that time of life for my parents. I am targeting the first of the year to be traveling back and forth.
What that means for you and I is moving at least part time to Europe. This is a partial relocation for me while I am U.S. born I have lived in Europe as an adult. It also means an expedited time to become familiar, or if there is instant cohesiveness jump in right....
I think the envisioned venue(s) provide an environment(s) to push the boundaries of sensory experience, No matter if it is attending or performing at art and music festivals, making wine, or intimate times.
I would be pleased to receive your letter of interest.
Me:15+ years of the life style 5'11 240, athletic, blue eyes, bald
Education: MacroEcon, Banking, Mil. Sci., Comp. Sci, International Relations Post-Doc.
Previous and or current residences: New York, Brussels, Lake Como (Italy not NJ), Rimini, Dom Rep, Nevis.
Fun: s.c.u.b.a., surfing, dancing, full moon ceremonies, horses, wine, single malts, fine dining, cooking -- I cook 85/15 Paleo Thai, Italian, Japanese, Belge, Israeli, Southern-- , camping, spinning fire, shiatzu, body alignment, acupressure, Thai Yoga massage, ninpo, fencing, Creating and appreciating art ( most forms and media), Film, Festivals ( Boom, WGT, C.O.S.M. Etc.), Comics, playing games, yes I just saw the pre-screening of Deadpool, I am a dyed in the wool.....
Music: Punk, Post -punk, Industrial, Goth, Noize, Ebm, Jazz, Rockabilly, Jam Bands, Swing, Folk, Bluegrass, Rock, Math Rock, Classical, Symphonic, Apocalyptic Folk, PsyT, Dark tribal, Blues, Cyber Ritual, Witch House, Swedish Pop, Dark Wave, Cold Wave (you might get the Idea I have a passion for music I do).
VJ/DJ/LD, Audio visual hypnotist and digital god, Former production manager for several bands. (currently building content for a new exhibition).
This leads me to describing what I desire. First and foremost not lacking the courage of your convictions, this is important to me. I Like intelligence, comportment, artistic, adventurous, funny, attractive (I love the all natural look as point in fact I prefer very little to no makeup as well as punk/goth/emo/tribal/ska, dreadlocks, skull beads glowing things), free spirited, not afraid to learn and explore... comfortable in Oshkosh as well as D&G. Hmm..
A muse.
As for sensuality and sexuality, there is very little difference between the two, it is my objective to be synergistic and I enjoy the discovering ways enhancing our experience. Like I said I am a romantic as well as a surrealist.
It seems that saying Saying "be real" is not enough.
No I will not send you money/join another site.
**This is very important. If you are located in the following locations or situations don't even bother to contact me: Any place in Africa, Puerto Rico ; held captive by slavers, doctors, Aliens, Cruel step mothers, Angry step fathers, Henchmen from the great cosmic Hench himself, Owe money for training, want money for training.**
This is a starting place it lacks the physical, if you are expecting a platonic online relationship then you have not read this profile or comprehend my intent.
"Imitate the libertines as much as you can. Blow up the foundations of prayer and abstinence" - Omar Kahyyam
"The sun gives us light, the moon provides inspiration. If you look at the sun without shielding your eyes, you'll go blind. If you look at the moon without covering your eyes, you'll become a poet" - Serge Bouchard
Disclaimer: The provisions herein, if effective, will not result in adverse effect on the human condition.
Please only print if necessary
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== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ == 99% Primal (Hunter) 97% Dominant 95% Bondage giver 95% Experimentalist 92% Owner 91% Master/Mistress 87% Sadist 82% Voyeur 80% Non-monogamist 76% Brat tamer 74% Exhibitionist 67% Daddy/Mommy 67% Ageplayer 59% Masochist 55% Primal (Prey) 53% Degradation giver 50% Pet 38% Slave 37% Switch 36% Bondage receiver 35% Brat 32% Vanilla 29% girl/boy 17% Submissive 7% All-Rounder 6% Degradation receiver See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.?id=511011 |
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“ In this stillness that is at the same time movement, in this darkness that is at the same time light, change is found not in the realm of ideas but in the energizing desire that is realized through precipitation. Desire tends towards its own realization and change takes place when the desire for it shatters the bounds of the possible, breaking the dialectical equilibrium holding together the framework of what is existent. It is at such moments that the imaginary flows into the real and overwhelms it, inundating it until it has been absorbed. Michael Richardson , Dedalus Book of Surrealism 2: The Myth of the world |
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Well it has been a few years since I updates this profile, Life has been Surrealistic to say the least...
I noticed the picture is from my last posting, as soon as I have a new one I like I will put it up.
Hmm.. What else Oh Ya I can not stress this enough:
"This is very important. If you are located in the following locations or situations don't even bother to contact me: Any place in Africa (well maybe not any place you get the idea), held captive by slavers, doctors, Aliens, Cruel Step Mothers, Angry step fathers, henchmen from the great cosmic hench himself, Owe money for training, want money for training..
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This is very important. If you are located in the following locations or situations don't even bother to contact me: Any place in Africa, Puerto Rico ; held captive by slavers, doctors, Aliens, cruel step mothers, Angry step fathers, henchmen from the great cosmic hench himself, Owe money for training, want money for training.
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Just as a note My original profile is ICITINURI if your interested in seeing how long I have been active on this site
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I have noticed allot of people are so concerned with having a picture attached or receiving a novella in an initial email and are unawares of possibilities that a Letter of Introduction offers.
So for the gormless(often implying lack of capacity of will to remedy the condition), those unfamiliar with the Lexicon (types of relationships between words as well as how words were created), and lazy. This is not a command.
If you have received a request for a Letter of Introduction you can safely assume that I have read your profile and found something that has caught my attention, inspired my passion.
I have taken the time to fill out my profile (my calling card in the modern sense) including interest sections, provide a picture. Giving you the opportunity to do the same and if interested provide the requested letter to open our conversation.
I can assure you that I am looking forward to your early response. |
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In Response to a question....
Tala you have hit the nail on the head religious zealotry/ fanaticism
by its very nature is exclusionary, just as any other philosophical
exercise is built on the pre-existing framework of established theory
so is any reformation of religion, a book you might find interesting
to read is Hegel's Logic, aside for the necessity of the times referencing as you will see the church (but makes a brilliant disclaimer), presents a basis to original thought or his absolute Idea free from the constraint of divine origin.
It goes back even further; the idea of beauty to be revered and not hidden comes down to the question of virtue vs. voluptuousness. It is precisely the distinction Xtians missed and mistakenly condemns Pleasure for; he (Xtians) desires voluptuousness and does not attribute any virtue to it.
Pleasure with all its consequences, was for the ancient Greeks, the
sentiment most virtuous and fecund in grandeur's. They did not attach to it those ideas of shamelessness and immodesty, which Israelite tradition, along with Xtian doctrine has handed down to us.
Herodotus says to us quite naturally: " among the barbarous races it is considered disgraceful to appear naked". When the Greeks or the
Latins wished to insult a man who frequented "daughters of love" they
called him Moechus, which merely SIGNIFIES "adulterer".
On the other hand, a man and a woman, who being free from other bonds,
united themselves, even though this were in public and whatever their
youth or age might be, were considered injuring no one and were left at liberty.
One sees the life of the ancients, or our life could not and cannot be
judged by the moral ideas that come to us from Geneva, or Rome.
There is confusion here, how can "modern society" still utilize the
Greeks as "moral roll models" then?
One considers Aristophanes exceptional? Yet we possess important
fragments of fourteen hundred comedies, due to one hundred and thirty
two other Greek poets, some of whom, such as Alexis, Philetor, Srattis, Eubolos, and Cratinos, have left us admirable verse, and no one yet dares translate this "shameless" and sublime collection.
Xtians quote always, for the purpose of defending Greek customs, the
teachings of some philosophers who condemned the sexual pleasures.
Again there is confusion here. Those scattered moralists reproved all
excess of the senses indiscriminately, with out the existence, for them, of a difference between the debauch of the bed and that of the table.
More over, these austere "philosophers" were generally regarded by antique society as abnormal and dangerous madmen; they were mocked on
stage, treated with blows in the streets, seized by tyrants to serve
as court buffoons, and exiled by free citizens who judged them unworthy of submitting to capital punishment.
It is then by conscious and voluntary deceit that modem educators from
the Renaissance to the present time have mis-represented the antique
moral system as the inspiration of their narrow virtues. If this moral
system were great- if it merited indeed to be taken for a model and to
be obeyed- it is precisely because no system has better known how to
distinguish the just from the unjust according to the criterion of beauty: to proclaim the right of every man and woman to seek individual happiness with in the limits set by the rights of others and to declare that there is nothing more sacred than physical
pleasure- nothing more beautiful than the human body.
Such was the "morality" of the people who built the Acropolis; and if I add that it has remained that of all great minds, I will but state the value of the common place.
What is this counsel of sentimental intrigues to use as a guiding maxim? The French have the idea "Love! Why dost thou form the happy state of all beings and the misfortune of man?
It is because, in this passion only the physical is good, and the moral side is worthless"
Where does this come from and how does it happen that across the perversion of antique ideas the Greek sensuality remains like a beacon.
It is because sensuality is a condition, mysterious but necessary and
creative, of intellectual development. Those who have not felt the demands of the flesh, whether as a blessing or a curse, are incapable of understanding fully the demands of the spirit. Just as the beauty of the soul illuminates the features, so only the virility of the body nourishes the brain.
The worst insult that Delacrois could address to men-- that which he threw indiscriminately at the railers of Rubens and the detractors of Ingres was the terrible word "EUNUCHS" For me the worst insult I can address to them is; A GOD TO THEM! And seeing that they have received this and the subsequent disease morality enough said.
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Age: 21 |
Baltimore,
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