Whether your spanking gene is fully awake or just begun to be noticed, it is all quite marvelous. The spectrum runs from playful to very intense but even the usual implements can be used lightly. I often prefer sensation play to real pain sensation play is often erotic without explicit sexual contact. Everyones threshold of sensationpain is wildly variable and warrants very careful and caring exploration. All encompassing trust is paramount for both participants.

Key for most people is emotionally believable scolding, which can be delivered in regular conversational tones - it rarely requires a more elevated volume. Who in our circle can resist the siren call of words like naughty, misbehaved, white, pink, red, crimson, hot, sore, tender, burning, and stinging?

Equally provocative are the familiar expressions How dare you? This is long overdue Did you really think you would get away with that? Your impudent behavior will not be tolerated in this house Wait for me in the corner Bring me the brush I guarantee that you wont sit comfortably for a few days Over my knee now Dont you dare wriggle or reach back to interfere with your king It will be over when I say so, not before or back in the corner and leave your panties at your knees until I say otherwise.

Although I am a switch, it is proportionately rare to switch with the same partner. When it happens, it is wonderful when it doesnt, it is wonderful. I adore generously proportioned, curvy women who wear panties in the 7-14 range, although any size woman is welcome to contact me. Novices will be introduced to adult king kindly and gently those with experience might have different needs. All will be accommodated according to their preferences. See my FetLife profile (Relevant-info) and my group memberships there.