I've learned to focus on many of the simple things with this. Doing this, for me, is not a whimsical or haphazard event. I think about what I'm doing and much more focused these days.
I've been in some really awesome situations where women have just been over-the-top outstanding. Others not so much. I've found that too often when I have showed up at a gangbang, or been following up when another guy was whoring his woman out... that too often they didn't have a clue (the man or the woman)... no initiative, no energy, and many times lots of arrogance/attitude... it was like showing up with expectations of good quality and enjoyable sex... then *POOF* they turn into duds. She is boring, without sexual energy, and sometimes not really even wanting to be there--since the guy had twisted her arm (effectively) into putting out. Man! For me, having sex with a woman who doesn't want to be there is one of the most major turn-offs I have ever encountered!!! My goals are just so different.
This is why I've been doing what I've been doing for a number of years now. I've wanted to have my own good, quality, sexually adventurous woman who is VERY aware of what this is all about, and enjoys putting out as a fuck whore. For the sex... AND to help me get into good situations where one man is trading/sharing his whore with me, so he can fuck my whore. Put all that together and you have a most awesome experience. I control the coordination and the situation, make a point of actively TALKING/conversing on the phone initially with (not at!) the other parties. I've learned when I invest in listening to them, and finding what makes the other people tick... I'll be doing myself and my whore a good service and providing for a very successful experience. Because now we'll have mutually satisfying interests---not competing agendas!
I know stuff like this is hard. Getting one woman to agree to put out is TOUGH. It is why I am patient. I know for other guys, to already have a woman, much less connect with a new one who'll happily put out is even tougher!
As I said earlier, this is a passion of mine... but it isn't cake, either. I'm not so very concerned with the number of guys these days. That aspect more depends on the woman I've got. My current whore (karen) would like several guys to use her---yet she has taken a growing interest in 3 or more couples. I'm seeing the appeal of that myself. Respect between everyone is a must, as is the easy ability to bounce amongst different partners, in the same location without jealousy or feelings getting hurt. Also, there should always be a foundational care and concern---because we are all human beings.
Another point---some people (even in this lifestyle!!!), view a woman who is a 'whore' as degrading and humiliating. I'm not in that camp. I see a woman who'll not only spread her legs for a man (or men) she has never met before as a humbling and awesomely beautiful event. With that woman to be cherished, cared for and respected. What good could it possibly do me (or her) to humiliate her for doing the very things I enjoy most---and hopefully she does too!?!!!!!
The first time I watched a woman simply lay back (she was already naked) and was spreading her legs wide, for me, to lay down on her, put my dick up inside her and FUCK her... not quite knowing what to expect, but OH so pleasantly surprised when she fucked me back, she'd wrapped her legs around my back and fucking up hard at me... NOT so she could cum, but so I could get off up inside her. I've been hooked on this ever since!
There sure are times when I want sex to be good and mutually consensual; there are times and places for this. The rest of what I'm talking about here, is beyond that. Something different, wonderful and special!
I've enjoyed watching a woman I've whored out, do just that... lay back, spread her legs, looking the man in the eye with beaming eyes, a huge sexually wolfish smile and BE outstanding good pussy for another man.
Another time, I was whoring out the first woman I ever had as a whore. She was 'only' giving blowjobs, as at that time she was on her period. So the guys (I think there were about 10 of them) basically sat around the room... on the couch, loveseat and chairs. She simply undressed herself, except for leaving on her panties. Then she crawled around to the first guy on her hands and knees (they were all still fully dressed), did all the work to get into his pants and devoted herself to sucking him off. She did that to each guy, swallowing their load, and then moving on to the next guy.
There was a most beautiful event was when I'd organized a gangbang with a different whore I had years earlier. There were supposed to be over 20 guys show up to use her (LOTS of bullshit promises in this I've found), but only 7 or 8 did (trying to remember). They did more than their share, too. They fucked and used her good, rough, long and hard. She was air-tight a couple of times. They kept her on edge at one point, getting her cunt and asshole SO excited, then just STOPPING when she was about to go over that edge. The whore was begging them (begging loudly, too) to let her cum, cause she was so fucking close.... they got in her face, telling her seriously, but not as assholes, that no bitch you ain't gonna cum, you are a fuck whore and gonna be USED as a fuck whore. Then they started her up again, and nodded amongst themselves, and just kept going. She was really good about it, no attitude, just sweet and sexually satisfying (which is why I felt she deserved what she got!)--I was most proud of her, as she put her heart, cunt and asshole into fucking them even harder. They not only fucked the shit out of her, she didn't stop fucking them, either in her pussy or asshole... she just kept going. And so did they--until they pushed her over and MADE the whore cum! SHE SCREAMED, and SCREAMED from being fucked so good, so hard, and so long into a rolling set of orgasms. She pushed them out of her and away from her, rolled over on the bed and was she was just fucking quivering, man, from cumming SO intensely. A rare sight. She was cooing and moaning for minutes.
Later on, like several hours later... when the fucking had settled down... a couple of the guys had already left, but of the ones that stayed, she went up to each one... spent a few quiet/private/intimate moments, just hugging them, sitting on their lap and talking quietly. She did that to each one of the remaining guys. After they had all finally gone, her and I talked while she was in the shower washing herself clean again. She'd been sincerely thanking each one of them, and expressing how MUCH it meant to her to be passed around as their whore, and then for each of them them to STILL take the time, effort and energy to fuck her like that. She'd never cum that much, that intensely ever before in her life. That was a most awesome moment.
I could go on....... I think I've shared enough for you to have a bit more insight into all this.
