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Hello and thank you for stopping by. Better get some popcorn, this is gonna take a while.

Before you read my profile I would like to explain a few things so you may have a better understanding of my dynamic.

As a Master that believes in 100 control with basically no limits. Many people may read my profile and think of it as some sort of check list of things I will always do. That couldnt be further from the truth. Every relationship is different as well as what makes every slave tick. My main focus is to have control over her mind. Although my likes are just about as varied as can be. The one thing that always drives my actions, is getting a desired reaction from my slave.

If she likes pain, I will enjoy pushing her limits until I take her where I want you.She may like ropes, I will tie her into submission.If she enjoys being humiliated I will grind you into the ground.Another way to explain it is. A dominant that is a sadist gets his satisfaction from inflecting pain on his submissive. He will always inflect pain (generally speaking). He would not be happy with a slave that hated pain and would only shut down upon receiving pain. If the Dominant is into ropes 99 of the time he will be tying you up. If you hate to be bound or if you hate the thought of spending hours not moving while he ties the most amazing designs upon your body. That would not be a good match and probably wouldnt last very long.

For me the knowledge that, as your Master I can do anything I wish is what drives me. Take pain for example. I have had slaves that love pain and have a very high pain threshold. For me to push them I was very extreme. I have had slaves that hated pain of any kind and even the thought of a spanking would push their limits.I crave the mental domination and submission from my slave, not some crazy check list of tasks that has no relationship with her and her personal limits. Something that many submissives seem to forget when they are starting out is, any slave can be mentally and physically broken. I am stronger then most and could always beat you until you pass out, tie you until your limbs go numb or verbally abuse you until you lose all self worth. The thing you need to remember is. WHY? Why would any serious dominant what to break a slave he loves and cares about? Why would he want to break the trust that has taken so long to develop? I want a slave that is strong and confident, I want a slave that takes control of the world around her. I want a slave that never just submits to anyone. I want a slave that ONLY submits to me! It is almost meaningless if a slave is submissive to anyone. What am I getting out of this if she is so weak she drops to her knees at the first sign of domination from a stranger on the street. What have I taken from her? I want a slave that will stand up for herself in the vanilla world, yet melt at the very thought of me.This is why I would never break my slave will through play of any kind. I want her mind fully functioning and strong. What could be more satisfying then knowing she is ONLY submissive to me?

So I hope you now see that the things I list as my likes are just showing you that I am not limited to any particular area of play.

Strong yet CaringTotally Unpredictable yet ConsistentWicked yet KindSadistic yet TenderMight Humiliate You then Praise You in the same breathLoudOpinionatedAlways RightHandsomeLongwinded..lolSpiritedItalian

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***Total Control-Mind, Body and Soul*** Body Restrictions of all types*** Bondage*** Wax Play*** Flogging*** Humiliation when I see fit*** Breast Play*** Clamps*** Anal*** Heavy use of Toys*** Cock Worship*** Breath Restrictions (usually my Cock being forced down your neck)*** Orgasm Control*** Collars

I always enjoy talking with others in the lifestyle as long as they are Female. It doesnt matter if she is subslaveDommeundecided as long as she has a question or something to say I will listen and help in any way I can by sharing my points of view.

I am a strong believer in the MIND FUCK and total trust for one another being the most important thing in a slaveMaster relationship. Without trust there is NOTHING!

I feel I need to clarify something here because so many novices may not understand what is meant by the MIND FUCK. This has nothing to do with screwing over your pet in a bad way. This is not about lies and the normal head games pricks often use on submissive ladies in the vanilla world, or sadly what many fakes do to them under the guise of BDSM and the title of DomMaster. The Mind Fuck is what most true Masters use to control their pets. It gives them the ability only after building a deep knowledge and trust of their submissive. It is what makes their pet melt with just a look or a single word. It is the ultimate connection between the two. It is the ability to know the pet better than she knows herself and in turn lets him control her emotions from deep within. Anyone that thinks a slave is kept because of fear of punishment is sadly mistaken. The only way to truly control and own your pet is by taking her mind first, after that she has no options, she has no choices, she has no escape. Only then will she become YOURS!

If you still dont understand please feel free to ask, I will always be happy to explain it more.. .

One thing I do think that makes me an unusual Master is the fact that no matter how strict I may be at times I do enjoy spending time as friends so she may talk about and express her feelings to me(this is actually strongly encouraged). I am also VERY consistent at all times. My slave will never be wondering what she is or is not allowed to do. A steady hand is one of the most important traits a Master MUST have. Otherwise it falls on the slave to try and figure out the Master instead of the Master getting in the slaves head. I will always make sure she will neverMUST NEVER feel lost or unguided in her training.

I expect my slave to be VERY sexual and want to be my sex slave, my slut, my cock whore and be proud to be called such. I believe that control of a slaves mind and soul are the most important aspects of a relationship but be sure sex is a very close second. Please note that the term whore is not meant for you to walk the street and pay my rent LOL! I mean you will be expected to be MY whore.

I am also married, so if that is a problem for your submission I understand. New friends are always welcome.

Well now you know a little bit about me.

I am always looking for like minded people to talk to so feel free to say hello and feel free to ask any question you may have.

Thanks for stopping by.

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SomeGeekyGirl
 
 Age: 36
 St. Louis, Missouri