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It's not about the pain. Pain is simple to administer. It's about the torment. Done well, torment can be completely painless and absolutely exquisite all at the same time. At least that is my personal philosophy when it comes to BDSM.
I'm not currently seeking anything or anyone. I've got a wonderful collared boy who treats me well, a husband, a wife, and have been blessed with a full and busy life. If you want to know what I'm about, read on, otherwise good luck and be well.
I enjoy watching a good struggle. Be it with a task I've set, a challenge I've issued, a punishment I've meted out, or just the internal struggle of a submissive to obey when uncertain. Sometimes I'm a sadist, and sometimes I'm a senusualist, but I am always into this to have fun on my own terms.
I have been in the scene for over a dozen years now, and I've developed my own style of play. I do not bark orders or speak abusively to my submissives, but when I speak, I expect to be obeyed.
I respect the value and worth of a good and open submissive or slave, and I expect that consideration to be returned. Limits will always be respected, but they will always be tested, and it will always be at my discretion. My subs are pushed, stretched, challenged, and used for my amusement.
My favorite flavor is someone strong and confident enough to have an independent life away from the scene. I enjoy those who are strong and alpha in their day to day tasks, those who are proud of themselves as people, proud of their accomplishments, and who are unafraid to acknowledge that they take pride in their submission and service as well.
What I do NOT want: I am NOT seeking a 24/7 relationship, nor am I looking to have anyone live in my home. I am not looking for love or for online friends. I want to be able to play with my toys, and if you're too far away for that and don't want to get on a plane to meet me, then find someone local to play with you. We all deserve to have our needs met.
Kink on!
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After being asked to compete at the last minute and taking a whirlwind run at it, I am the 1st runner up for 2010 Ms. San Diego Leather. It was perfect!! I got what I wanted. Experience, a respectable performance, and the opportunity to participate. Tiger, the woman who won, is AMAZING, and I am looking forward to the upcoming year. |
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So, I'm confused. I don't understand how a person can send me a message that in NO WAY responds to my very CLEAR instructions, and still claim to have the heart of a slave desperate to serve and be owned.
It seems to me that if the intent and desire are genuine, then the would-be slave would make their first effort the very best they have to offer. Instead I get one liners and phone numbers from men "begging" to serve. It is disappointing on some level, and yet on another level, I suppose I should be thankful that they have saved me so much time and energy by showing their lack of dedication at the outset.
Ah well. At least there are the few dear ones I keep close! |
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| Age: 51 |
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