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I identify with submissive and 1950s to Victorian style household, where the man is the master and Lord of the home, and the woman who is at home to make his day easier. Domestic goddess, as I cook, clean and iron, my house stays immaculate and orderly, so that I can relax in it at all times.

I am a devout christian, and I do believe that a man was made in Gods image, and women were designed to be under them, both for their protection and their natural subservience, giving respect and honor to the man in her life. I have been on the site before, but found that my profile was being used by others word for word, so I am not willing to go into details, unless I correspond with someone who wants to know about my past, and my past experiences.

I am on disability for high functioning autism, and I currently live alone in my own apartment in Iowa. I have been out of the lifestyle for a few years and I know there is a lot of flakes and fakes on most sites.

I am looking to start out as correspondents, develop a friendship and move on from there. Not looking to go fast into a relationship, but take my time as I am looking to find someone for a life long commitment, and not simply a hookup.

I am looking for someone who does not live the lifestyle 247, but lives it in the bedroom and privately at home. I personally feel that what goes on in the bedroom is between the couple involved, and not necessarily for the neighbors to know. Close friends within the community are great, as it gives support to the couple.

I am 49 years old, I am big breasted 44DD, and I have a big ass, size 22, I dress modestly in public, and behind closed doors, I wear what I enjoy wearing, mainly sundresses and caftans. I enjoy vaginal, anal and oral, so I am all around well versed in being able to be open for my mans enjoyment without a lot of hangups. Not truly into pain for pains sake, not into the extreme aspects of BDSM, my likes are more BDSM lite....

I enjoy most things, like going out to dinner, the movies or a play, and I enjoy camping, fishing and picnics, time spent with friends. I love the outdoors and I like being around positive people. I believe in showing respect to others, and not simply following protocol for protocols sake.

Master and Lord are terms a man earns in my life, not simply given to just anyone online, but they are granted only in a long term relationship once he has proven to be both in my life. Just as I know the man should be given proper worship in the home, as I submit to Him and his personal desires just as I would submit to God.

This is my philosophy I live by.

I have found that the Bible from Genesis through Revelation to be a guiding force, a Book on how to properly submit myself to a man in my life. I am a devout christian who also is into submission and the BDSM lifestyle.

It starts off in Genesis stating that Man was made in Gods image, God gave man the dominion to subdue everything on the Earth, to put it under his control. He made a woman from the man to be his helper, to meet his needs and to bring him pleasure.

It specifically stated that a woman was designed for the mans pleasure, God designed her body to have extra padding on her ass so she could be put in submission through his natural dominance, and discipline her there without causing harm to the other body organs.

Reddening her ass cheeks to keep her focused and for his pleasure, this is done to teach her how to obey him in every area of her life without question. Discipline is a good thing as it keeps her focused on her man alone, and not things she has no need to think on.

God made her breasts and they were made plentiful to fill his hands, her mouth was designed for his pleasure, hot and wet with a throat that expands to take his length fully in it, so that none of his seed falls on the ground, but is protein to her, her voice was given to praise him. Both her holes were put close together so he could choose which to use to please himself, she was taught in the bible to prepare herself, to keep herself clean and well oiled, so that her man would find pleasure in her smell and never need to seek out lubricant for taking his pleasure from her body, the oil allows his hands to glide over the body and her reddened ass to glow.

She was made physically and mentally weaker than the man so he could force his will upon her and obtain her submission anytime and anywhere he desires. Man was not designed to ask permission, but to obtain submission from a woman, she is the one who must ask permission from the man, that is why obey is in her vows to a man and not in his to her. That is Gods way, not current day society.

A woman is told to wear a dress in public, so that she is always available for him to access without a hindrance, knowing that she should never wear panties to obstruct him in any way. Because by not being able to submit fully to him, she is in disobedience to God. She should never wear that which is designed for a man, God had loincloths for men in the Bible, to protect him from harm, not women as their organs are hidden from view and are open in submission to please her man.

The Bible states that I should submit to a man as I would submit to God, willingly and wholeheartedly, even when it is painful to do so. Just because a hole is sore, does not mean she can withhold it from him, it is his property, and her cries of pleasure and pain belong to him as well.

Pleasing God takes effort because it subdues my will for the pleasure from God, giving obedience out of love and not fear. I call God my Daddy, and Jesus my Big Brother, because I am a christian and I have been grafted into the family of God. I submit to the man in my life for the same reason, obedience out of love and not fear.
I know that the Bible states that I should willingly and freely give myself, heart mind body and soul to the man in my life, knowing that he will always be the one that I willingly obey in all areas of my life, just as I would submit to God.

I know that my attitude is not a popular even in our lifestyle in this day and age, especially not among the 50 shades of BS crowd that joined the c o m munity after the movie hit and made it Kosher and in fashion to state this as a lifestyle choice, instead of it simply being your life.

I am choosing submission when society wants to force an unnatural equality and womens rights which we were never designed to have by the creator. It causes men to act like boys well into adulthood, and women to think they should dominate the men in their lives, causing confusion, friction and verbal and mental abuse to be in their lives.

God designed a woman so that her softness elevates the mans strengths, her submission fuels his dominance, his power allows her to feel secure and protected, and her love, honor and respect she gives him, builds his character and self esteem so he can conquer his world, to take his dominion naturally, by his God ordained right, to control his home and every facet of his life.

Calling a man her Lord and her Master is simply giving home the respect he deserves inside the home and outside of it. It is a Victorian and Biblical term that should be used out of respect in the home. Using his Christian name in public, and the titles in the home keeps the veil over the private life.

Yes, it is true that today, we live in both worlds, the vanilla and the BDSM have to find a way to coincide harmoniously, but the values and the relationship should overlap into both worlds, so we have to find a way that is socially acceptable to explain the submission and deference to your dominance and guidance to others.

By stating it as Christian values, the Bible allows that to intersect, without raising a red flag to the BDSM c

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rhian20
 
 Age: 26
 Mankato, Minnesota