If you've been on CollarMe for a while, you'll recognize me


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	If you've been on CollarMe for a while, you'll recognize me as the user formerly known as CagedUp. I've been on this site for a number of years as that handle and another handle. I feel it's time to change things up a bit. So why GDIinMd, which stands for God Damn Independent in Maryland? Well the answer is quite simple. That's who I am. I don't identify as any label within our community; I identify as me. I have no issues if you or anyone else chooses a label for themselves, its just not for me. I am willing to relocate for a Master. I had previously stated that i was not available for relocation and this is no longer the case. All of my Dom/sub experience has been as a submissive. I've been a part time boy and a 24/7 slave. Over the past few years, I've been a top not by choice. I've been in relationships where I had to be the top to make things work. I love fucking a guy in the ass but that's where the "top" in me stops. I have no interest in being a Dominant and owning or collaring a boy or a slave. I have had a collared boy in the past year and I'm not fulfilled with being a Dominant. I haven't been submissive whether it be as strictly a play thing or as a boy/slave in nearly seven years. I'm looking to learn the ropes again. I have a laundry list of intos which I'll list later. I'm looking for a Dominant who has patience, respects limits, will respect what I'm seeking, and is genuinely interested in redeveloping me back towards a service oriented submissive. I'm a no bullshit kind of guy. Not looking to play anyone or waste anyone's time. If you want to get together and fuck, say so. If you might want a romantic date, say so. If you want me to eventually be your collared boy or at least explore that path say so. If you might want me to be your slave, well, be in the Baltimore/DC area, and say so. . I've been accused on here of faking my interest and love for sports. Sorry guys, I'm not faking anything. I grew up with baseball in my life and baseball is still a very active part of my life. I had a great career in professional baseball working as a baseball umpire and have earned ceritification from Major League Baseball. It's not an act. This is me. Yes I own lots of sports gear but I have NO interest getting geared up in my sports gear for the point of fucking around. If that's your thing, great. Enjoy it. It's not for me. I wear it to work and this will never been an interest of mine. Unless its a wrestling singlet, I'm not down with the sportsgear fetish. Other things to note, I'm a cigar guy. I smoke cigars regularly. Right now I'm stuck on Cain Daytonas. They're a great smoke that has only been on the market for a few months. I also smoke Casa Magnas, Rocky Patels, Perdomos, and occasionally an Acid. As far as unprotected sex and barebacking is concerned, I am HIV Neg and get tested every six months. My last test was 23 November 2011. I will not have unprotected sex unless I've been with someone for a while and we both get tested. Monogamy would be a must for this to happen. If you want something real, please do not hestitate to contact me. I will respond to every message even if I dont think we're a match. I figure you've taken the time to send me a note the least I could do is respond. This profile may come across as me being a prick. I'm really not a prick. I'm a bigger guy size wise, act like I'm about 21, and am a huge goofball. I love to make others laugh. If you think we'd be a match, shoot me a message and lets chat. I can be found on the two instant messaging services as BnMLover

11/7/2011 10:42:52 AM

Loving how some people on here are so mighty-er than thou about "realness" but can't post a face pic or just a pic without their face showing. Newsflash: maybe, just maybe if you took your ad seriously, people would take you seriously. Not a sermon, just a thought.

10/25/2011 5:48:26 PM

So here goes:

i can't believe so many people on here are serious about this lifestyle. i'm single and available for real time service. while i understand attraction is a part of this, i cannot believe that so few on here are actually interested.

i have previous experience and am able to relocate.

also, my age is real. most on here have been the same age for years.