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Discretion is important to me as I have a career which places me in the public eye quite frequently. I am not ashamed of my interests in BDSM but unfortunately there is so much public misunderstanding about it that I cannot be open regarding my involvement. My career comes above all else for me. I am single, not married, engaged, or divorced.? Other basic information. I live on my own, work quite a bit to support a comfortable life style, and am very independent. ? I am looking for a meaningful connection with a partner who I can play with. I do not want a relationship but I am absolutely not looking for a "hook up". We would build this connection through conversation and discussion first before anything happens. I would prefer that anyone I play with be local and that we meet in a public and non-threatening place (ie a coffee shop) first. Not only is this a safety measure this would also give us time to feel for chemistry. ? I believe very strongly in safe, sane, and consensual. Any and all activities I do abide by those rules. With that said, I am a dominant sexual sadist. I respect my partners immensely and appreciate the gift of submission. I enjoy blurring the lines of pain and pleasure while playing. Ideally my partner would be a mild-moderately submissive sexual masochist. We WILL have a safe word and we will have discussed anything that would happen first. I have no problem with someone who has limited experiences. We can explore together. ? My favorite activities are spanking (bare, OTK), caning, flogging, and bondage. I have done some intense scenarios in the past, at the request of my partner, involving rape play or discipline scenarios and while exciting they aren't my first choice of activities. For me the best sexual experiences involve plenty of sensation and slightly less mental activity. I'm not in to head games and all that but I can appreciate the mental aspect for submissives to achieve sub space. ? If you have any questions for me please contact me and I will give you full, honest answers. ?

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softkittty
 
 Age: 40
 Northwest OK, Oklahoma