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My desire is to do things for you, to make you happy, to do the things you don't want to do, whether it be housework, errands, or just having someone you can always rely upon to be there and do what's wanted and necessary.
I am a submissive man who is intelligent, friendly and has lived this lifestyle most of his life. I don't play games, create or seek drama, and am very easy to get along with.
I'm Single, never been married and am educated. I'm a writer, having published numerous novels and two generally well known bdsm (femdom) novels. Ask me about them, and I'll gladly give you information...I'll just avoid advertising them here because that's not the purpose of this profile.
I'm definitely a service submissive and someone who will put your wants and needs first. I'm not interested in men.
I've had extensive real life experience as a houseboy for a dominant before, and I'd be quite willing to explore a relationship with this dynamic. Having said that, I'm interested in a dominant woman who seeks a submissive, not a vanilla woman who is interested in free housework. Strangely enough, I've run into the latter sometimes while seeking the former. But having said that, for the right woman, I'd be willing to do practically every bit of housework she ever desired. And I'd do it without struggle, argument or any negativity whatsoever.
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Maybe it's just this area, but as a service submissive, finding a dominant woman who desires someone who does housework and obeys a woman's instructions used to be a lot easier to find. Kind of interesting. |
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Moved to Corpus Christi a month or so ago, which oddly enough seems to be about as far away from any women on this board in Texas as I was when I was living in Michigan. One of these days, I hope to move somewhere where people on these boards actually live. Until then, my stuffed animals and I will fight tumbleweeds. :) |
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Well, received a job offer from Texas, so I guess I'm going to be leaving Michigan and going to the land of cowboy hats and cowboy boots. |
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I'd be lying if I said I wasn't interested to see how this whole CollarMe fiasco is going to affect the site, basically trying to figure out if the majority will accept CollarSpace.com as the new domain or if the battle continues for the original domain. I have no stake in the outcome, other than hoping that people who want to find each other are still successful, but I can't argue that I'm not fascinated by the whole thing.
I was one of the early web designers for a very well known bdsm site that kind of went through the same sort of problems. I got out amicably, and shortly after the site became a cesspool of spammers and scammers, but I've seen how these kinds of things can devolve quickly. |
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I thought I would try a photo on this site, as it would at least let people know this is a real person here. Hopefully, this won't lead to the problems of the past. I figure that if someone sees my picture on this site, then the person seeing it probably is interested in the content of this site as well. So hopefully, this leads to more positive outcomes. |
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I'm starting to think about moving to a new location across the country as nothing has really worked out for me in Michigan. Keep finding women who want to be submissive, are mostly interested in endless email exchanges without ever meeting or just seem to have elimination processes that work a lot like companies that advertise for jobs but don't actually really want to hire anyone. As this semester is finally winding down, perhaps I'll find a new location to teach at and try my luck there. It's amazing how different being a submissive in Michigan is from when I was one in California (almost a completely different world the more I think about it). Oh well. |
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Currently finishing touches on my latest novel. Looking forward to finally being finished with it. Yeah, I know it has nothing to do with bdsm, but my life seems to be a lot more vanilla these days. |
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What I find interesting is that I come across women who appear to be looking for a house slave, an errand boy, or a service submissive quite often, but they always seem to be in locations far from where I live. When I try to pursue it in my own area, no women seem all that interested (until I'm not looking, and then suddenly I keep reading journal entries from women who can't seem to find a submissive who is totally into actually serving (rather than being served)).
So, I'll put it out there. If there is a dominant woman looking for a sincere submissive who will totally go out of his way to serve her in any way she feels helps her in some way, I'm definitely that submissive. I've lived this lifestyle through most of my relationships in the past, and aside from a few moments feel that most relationships have been very beneficial to all involved. |
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I used to have pictures up for myself, but then one of my college students contacted me because of recognizing me and thought it would be "fun" to dominate her teacher. So, I took my photos down for now to avoid inappropriate situations. |
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I've been gone from CollarMe for awhile. To be honest, it was getting a bit frustrating looking at all the people in my local area who are into kink and then just never connecting with any of them. To be honest, I've never had so much trouble connecting into a local bdsm community before. Anyhoo. I'm back. |
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Well, the funny thing is: The last time I updated this, I was doing National Novel Writing Month in 2010. I'm now in the middle of NaNoWriMo for 2011 with my new novel, a mainstream, romance novel (that doesn't really fit the usual genre categories). This is my 14th novel. |
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I'm in the middle of National Novel Writing Month, something I participate in every year. I'm at 17,000 words right now (the goal is 50,000 words). I haven't written a fantasy novel in quite some time, so this has been a lot of fun so far. I guess my profile isn't all that complete, or I'd probably have mentioned I'm a novelist; I've written quite a few so far. |
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