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| I've recently come back to kink after a long, vanilla marriage. Some things I'm rediscovering, some things I'm learning for the first time.
My current passion is rope. I've started taking classes with Lochai through Bondage Club Baltimore and am very excited to learn from someone so knowledgeable. Now, I need the right rope bottom on whom to practice.
I can be rough, but my preferred style of play is very sensual. I enjoy working with floggers, crop, canes and paddles but I connect better through flesh-on-flesh and generally keep one hand on my bottom throughout a scene. I'm a very big fan of spanking and hair-pulling; just old fashioned I guess.
My ideal partner would be bisexual and submissive. I don't currently see myself as poly but I would like someone with whom I could share other women. I'd also love to have a partner who has a little switch in them. I don't bottom, but I would love to co-top with the right person. An interest in rope, bondage and pain and a healthy appreciation for sex are firm requirements; beyond that, there are few deal breakers.
At this time, I don't see myself in an M/s, 24/7 TPE relationship. It's not inconceivable that the right slave could change my mind on this, but it's not where I see myself right now. I want frequent play and a largely D/s relationship but I also want someone who challenges me in other aspects of life. A keen intellect and good sense of humor are absolute requirements as I'm looking for compatibility way beyond the bedroom. The right match for me will be a partner in crime for beer drinking, sports watching, hiking, wine tastings and general carousing. And kinky sex.
Having just ended a 12 year marriage, I'm not desperate to a long-term commitment with the first woman I see. I'm open to it and that's the end goal, but I'm going to be cautious as I jumped into things with my ex and came to regret it.
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