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FirmIsGood

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I've been training Dominants and managing a pro-bdsm, film and adult web site business for the last four years. I'm one kinky, experienced mother fucker.

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12/10/2010 8:38:37 PM
I really wasn't sure how hard to swing the belt, to be honest.  Sure... I've "spanked an ass" before.  I've used flogger and hand and crop and paddle but I don't believe I ever did it properly.  It was always tentative at best and I can't help drawing a parallel between my lack of confidence in that simple act of domination and my struggle with my identity as a Dom. 

It's selfish to believe the Dom is in charge at all times and that he alone shapes the bond.  The bond is mutually defining, and I really believe each of us is incomplete until the bond is created.  With each submissive the bond is quite different, and so I am different.

And that was true until very recently.  I finally had the opportunity to share time with a sub that allowed me to explore pain limits and the barriers were far, far away from where I usually stood. 

8/13/2009 3:04:20 PM

I love those photographs that freeze a person in the frame while all of the people around them streak by leaving long blurred lines on the photo.  It's as if the photographer has chosen to show that person moving at their own pace, not influenced by the masses, no lemming prepared to jump with the rest. It shows the beauty and singularity of the subject.  I see my submissive.  Billions of people in the world but only one moving at the perfect pace.

I hate those photographs that freeze a person in the frame while all of the people around them streak by leaving long blurred lines on the photo.  It's as if the photographer has chosen to show that person's anguish, their loneliness, the isolation that comes from being misunderstood and living with a secret.  I want to pluck my submissive from that photo and wrap my arms around her and infuse her with love and joy and the knowledge that she is a treasure above all... not alone, but complete.


7/27/2009 8:19:57 AM
You long for something...  You don't feel complete unless you're owned.  The vanilla world swirls around you and most people simply don't "get" you or even begin to understand that very important piece of your identity that drives you.  It's not like you're left empty when you surrender your power. In those moments when you totally give yourself you feel the roaring power of your Master.  As you release your inhibitions and self-control you feel him take the reigns.  You see his eyes as he transforms into that powerful creature that always lives within him.  You revel in what he does to you and what you willingly give to him... completely give to him. He takes it all. He pushes you to places you didn't know existed. He uses you for his pleasure but he knows it pleases you as well. You feed off him and he feeds off you.

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MistressKatte
 
 Age: 27
 Germany