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Gay Male Dominant, 58,  Portland, Oregon
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 Dominant Male



 6' 2"

 200 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Male










 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control

 Rubber Fetish


 Old Guard



 Anal Play


 Body Worship

 Canes and Crops


 Electrical Play



 Gas Masks


 Mental Bondage




 Intellectual Discourse

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 New Age Music

 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes








 Accounting Professional

 Investment Professional

I am looking for male subs/slaves/boys that are looking for training as life-style slaves. I am most interested in men who have a Yes Sir attitude, outlook and 'heart' in their approach to serving a Master; who are service oriented and are looking for a formative and transformative experience through the use of SM and BD as part of slave training. Fetish interests include Chastity, as well as Leather and Rubber -- all of which are of particular interest. 


I have a professional background and education.  While I do not expect those I work with to be scholars by any stretch, an ability to communicate and connect with me on a intellectual basis is as important as a emotional, sexual or any other connection. I have found that I am not an effective trainer if I am not making a mental connection, but more importantly a soulful connection.


I like to think of myself as old-school, old-leather; however through life experience I have come to appreciate that Mastering and training is as much about mentoring and patience as it is about the tools and technique.


I am part of an open relationship with my life-partner, but we live apart.


The pathway of success with communication with me by slaves involves a conversational style -- asking questions, sharing experiences and thoughts, voicing a perspective.   One word - one line - one thought messages will very likely not catch my interest.  

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