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Hi, I am looking for a sadistic white Dom who is my friend, confidant, lover and the ONE I search and crave for. I am an extreme masochistic painslut with 27 years experience. I am not looking for a Domme or Dominant female or couple as I am not into partaking in a poly household or relationship. I don't share well with others (i.e. with another sub/slave) Only things I am not into are scat, watersports, facials, animals , humiliation, phone sex, degradation, foot/cock worship, cages, webcam, public play, married men or children. There may be a few others but I can't think of anything else right now. In all my years in the lifestyle I have loved edge play, needle play, knife play, breath play, medical play, blood play, vampirism, outdoor play, kidnap/fantasy rape scenarios, older man/little girl, fistings or Double penetration, blindfolds, sensory and sensual play; just to give you a taste of what I have experience in not necessarily still willing or wanting to do. I also am looking for that Daddy who will not only want me as a sub for lifestyle activities, but vanilla activities as well. I am intelligent and articulate. I can be as comfortable in sweats and a tshirt to something formal. I enjoy movies, going to dinner, theatre, the symphony, art galleries, to just staying home cooking for my Daddy or us cooking together, to just relaxing on the couch to a bottle of wine or cocoa having interesting intellectual discourse. As you can see I am a woman who likes the finer things as well as the simple things life has to offer. Even though I am independent in my everyday life; I miss someone who wants someone who can stand on their own, but also likes it when someone takes care of them and that wants to embark on something that can be mutually respectful, wonderful and be beneficial for both of us. Do not take my wanting/needing to be cared for as weakness by any means as I have a lot to offer the right Daddy in return. A few things need to be clarified on my profile. One, I have a petpeeve of people that ask questions that already have been answered on my profile.(i.e. do you like needle play?) Also, please know the difference between a sub and a slave. If you are a real Dom and you live the BDSM lifestyle not only as a lifestyle, but a way of life you Will know the difference. Please do not contact me to ask what the difference is as I am not here to teach you so-called slaves/subs or Doms/Dommes. This way of life can not be taught. It is already in you. You either have it or you don't. One more thing I am not looking for fun on the phone or your online fantasies I am looking for someone real. Meaning I am looking only for a LTR R/T Daddy Dom who wants nothing more nothing less. Can you handle it, do you want to, take a chance if you dare....

4/16/2018 11:03:55 PM
Please Michael, enough with playing games with me. It's really beneath you. I am sorry if I hurt you, but facts are facts. You have four failed marriages with you being the common denominator. You also started I am not what you are looking for, nor are you what I am looking for. Unless something else is on your mind? Otherwise, please let it go. You have me blocked so i had to respond to your blanked message to me.
1/1/2018 3:39:28 AM
Happy 2018!
7/19/2017 3:24:15 PM
Glad Michael is finally finding something better to do than cyber stalking me.
7/18/2017 1:30:25 PM
You're right,but my sheriff friend said he sees a pattern because I told you to stop
7/17/2017 2:49:03 PM
Stop checking my journal Michael or I'll have you charged with cyber stalking.
7/16/2017 12:26:06 PM
Unsend your message Michael? Why? It's ok if you still want to talk. I won't hold it against you. Now who's playing games.
7/15/2017 11:30:04 AM
Funny how you think I was saying bad things about you, but what you want is a piece of Meat and a woman that also believes she's inferior to men. I'm I correct? How is that saying bad things about you if that's truly what you are looking for. You even mention it in your own journal wanting to find a woman who is inferior to you was harder than you thought. Have fun in search of your mindless drone Michael.
7/14/2017 11:44:11 AM
Come on girls who consider themselves just a piece of meat and beneath any man Michael is looking for you. Enjoy!
7/10/2017 6:39:50 PM
Enjoy your piece of meat Michael.
7/10/2017 6:29:51 PM
I'm not comfortable doing that and I'm sorry you can't understand that Michael.Enjoy your lonely life as you're not with anyone either.
7/8/2017 11:59:12 PM
Happy belated birthday Michael
7/8/2017 9:36:31 PM
Michael please Read my messages
6/22/2017 8:12:51 AM
I'm sorry Michael
6/17/2017 7:11:44 PM
I miss you
5/28/2017 3:23:12 PM
You didn't have to block me Michael
3/10/2017 1:32:35 PM
Wow, someone needs to learn some decorum. You would think he would understand where I was coming from and not be disrespectful. Dementia setting in or too much champagne old man or was it you being obtuse like I stated? Block me? That's fine! Let some mindless twit deal with you.
2/28/2017 3:53:08 PM
Tornado Warning...
10/22/2016 8:31:07 PM
Go Cubbies! Off to the World Series!
9/11/2016 9:39:51 AM
September 11, 2001. Never forget!
8/28/2016 4:27:52 PM
I'm bored
9/15/2014 10:42:55 PM
Now that i called him on it. I am a bitch! Too funny! Well he can go find him a useless drone that won't care if he can spell or not. Wonder what he would have called me if i said who it was that couldn't spell. Please Do ms help me out here. Do you want a useless drone as your submissive or slave? Or, do you want someone that also can offer some intelligence? I'm curious to hear from you if you are already taking the time to read this.
9/15/2014 10:31:20 PM
I really can't stand a Dom who can't spell. I mean seriously if you can't spell what you want to do to me i should let you do it to me. No thanks, I'll pass on that one.
7/31/2014 6:27:06 PM
I'm in search of a male slave. If you would like to apply please do, but don't waste my time if you're just going to play games.
6/15/2014 3:45:24 PM
Happy Father's Day 2014 to all the fathers out there. Also to the fathers to be!
1/5/2014 2:55:47 PM

I just love when people complain about how some people can be childish or rude on a website.  Note to people if you're not interested just say so.  It's not that serious to the point you have to block someone and take the coward way out like this air force guy on here.  Been in the airforce and can't' even tell someone they're not interested.

1/1/2014 6:58:04 AM

Happy 2014 everyone

12/24/2013 10:32:25 PM

Happy Holidays to all

11/29/2013 3:06:58 PM

Hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving

6/16/2013 9:30:41 AM
Happy Father's Day!!!
6/11/2013 8:51:46 PM
GO HAWKS! ! !
4/24/2013 5:22:27 AM

Still grieving

4/22/2013 7:48:45 PM
I'm sad.
4/1/2013 3:39:42 PM
Females please if you are marrying a guy call them your fiance' and yes that mark over the e is necessary. I ran across a journal who a woman wrote how she can't wait to marry her fiancee. Ohhhh maybe it is a girl shes marrying. Hope the guy she lives with knows this. LOL
3/30/2013 11:50:07 AM
We have a troll amongst us. As always be careful and play safe.P
3/26/2013 9:29:14 AM
I'm being admired again by men who haven't talked to me. How can they even consider themselves worthy of this site?
12/25/2012 3:07:40 PM
I was just basically told to kill myself. Check out his hot pink panties.
12/17/2012 11:39:13 PM
I just met an honest cheater. Told me he wanted to tell me he's married. Well, good boy. Want a cookie? Think he's this honest with his wife? How would he feel if another man, men or woman for that matter was pleasuring his wife? For the love of God if you're not happy in your relationship either try to make it work. Don't just coexist. Change is good. The truth is good.
12/17/2012 8:37:06 PM
No 6 year old should ever have to say Mommy I'm ok, but all my friends are dead. No one at any age should have to experience or have to say that.
12/17/2012 1:41:05 PM
Today, we saw the faces of the souls of the elementary school shooting. Let's all pray for them, and their families. Not only them, but all that are affected. God bless them. We all need to love a lot more and remember how they lived.
10/30/2012 8:15:08 PM
Let's all of us say a prayer tonight for those affected by hurricane Sandy. May God bless the souls that were lost and may He protect the ones who need His guidance and love through this tragedy.
10/24/2012 4:06:14 PM
in the beginning I was complimented and then when I ask about the pic that looks like worms I'm ugly, fat etc and now I'm blocked. Too funny as I don't know what was derogatory. Play with worms and such is called genki is it not? A former master of mine was into it. I wasn't though.
10/21/2012 10:05:24 AM
Ok so this guy is mad enough that he wishes me and everyone in my family gets cancer. I only asked if he really thought 99 year olds were hot as stated in his profile. Can I help it that he either forgot he wrote that or that I pointed out something he now realizes is stupid? Nice beer gut and not so impressive dick pic
10/19/2012 10:07:50 PM
Just thought I would help some women out here. We have another married man amongst us who just happen to omit that fact stating he doesn't have to as it should come out in conversation. That man has a great profile. Ladies if a profile or correspondence sounds too good to be true it usually is. For the ones who wish to cheat that is on you. As always play safe.
10/19/2012 6:34:33 PM
Since I have no experience in this realm of the lifestyle I have a question to ones who have the proper answer. You don't have to have proper spelling or grammar do you as a gorean slave?
9/26/2012 6:34:03 PM
WARNING: To all women; please be careful of a certain guy on here. He is a self admitted violent PTSD BIPOLAR in messages to me. He had stated he is done with treatment, but with the messages I received from him it's obviously not the case. Can anyone say restraining order? Yes, he's been blocked.
8/29/2012 8:23:54 PM
Slim pickins for a decent dom/master. Until I do find Him, maybe I should go back to being a Domme. A lot of switches and sub/slave boys out here that could use my guidance. If you think you are worthy of being under my control I'd like to hear from you. If you are not sure don't even think of wasting my time. Otherwise I will make you regret it. ~ Ms. Temptress
8/18/2012 1:41:45 PM
Word to the subs and slaves if you're not looking for married stay clear of men who are. He did tell me before we met. For that, I'm glad. All I am saying is play safe and have open and honest communication.
8/9/2012 4:16:04 AM
This goes to anyone out there. If a person originally states after viewing your profile he's not interested both parties should move on right? Then he sends a few more messages and I finally called him out. In doing so he told me I was trying to top him. Now he's blocked me. Mission accomplished. Got to give him credit for doing it first. Haha
7/11/2012 5:36:00 AM
Thank you to the Doms and Masters who admire my profile. It would mean more to me though if you sent a little note telling me why you admire it so.
6/21/2012 8:59:12 PM
I've brought this subject up before. Before I begin though I wanted to correct again that when speaking of this specific female the word woman should be used when describing one female not the word women as that is plural (multiple). I am wondering how many so-called masters and doms do only care about what's between their sub's or slave's legs and if they have anything else to offer?. Maybe that's the reason I haven't gotten many responses as I do have much more to offer and the so-called men here are intimidated by that. I say that because most of the responses I've gotten lately are men that can't or don't take the time to read my profile. Sad just sad.
6/3/2012 11:24:01 PM
Are there any good decent and honest men out there?
6/3/2012 11:19:06 PM
just got asked for phone sex. He can't read obviously either as I believe I mention phone sex on my profile as something I don't partake in.
6/2/2012 12:35:00 PM
Please for the love of... Stop sending penis pics or if you have them in your profile and you think its a selling point; you're selling yourself "short". LOL
6/2/2012 12:24:47 AM
So I tell a guy he's handsome and I don't even get a thank you. Guess that's my cue to go to bed. Nite nite everyone. XOXO
6/1/2012 10:57:03 PM
A guy tells me today he works for the government, but he can't even spell the department he works for. Guess that's why our country is in such turmoil? LOL Not that I believe him because if he does kinda funny how he has pics of himself etc. Say hi to Obama, Michelle and the kids for me.
6/1/2012 1:34:52 PM
Oh gawd how funny is it when a guy sends you a penis pic and wants you and tells you how beautiful you are yada yada you comment back is it doesn't impress me much. Then you get slammed with you're ugly this that and the other. Too funny.
5/31/2012 10:27:12 PM
Had two guys today contact me. One was from Canada one was from Greece. Do you not know what real time means? Also had a hit from Indiana who couldn't spell extreme and its even part of my screen name. Too funny.
5/31/2012 8:34:37 PM
A word to all lifestylers. Please be careful whom you play and fall in love with. Especially when there is money, businesses, homes etc. that are involved. If you marry and don't even have their name on things if you divorce things can get messy and they may be entitled to some of it if there is ever a divorce. I know of a slave who just married and has a business. I hope I am wrong although I know the one she married. Prenup anyone? LOL
5/31/2012 4:16:36 PM
I just got a great laugh. A Dom just pointed out that 78 percent of people won't know what the word obtuse means. So without looking in the dictionary or online how many of you do know the definition? Second, how many of you know the difference between outdoor and public play? Good luck and thanks for playing.
5/30/2012 2:33:28 PM
Someone just sent me a second message asking if I would serve in a poly household. I believe my answer is in my profile. That is why I won't answer you. How obtuse are people today?
5/20/2012 6:48:02 PM
I just had my laugh for the evening. A Dom just told me why I may be getting those penis pics. He said maybe it was to show me how much of a Sadist they are by sticking me with a tiny penis. LOL.
5/20/2012 2:29:15 PM
I wonder if the house she speaks of is in Harvard
5/4/2012 5:47:29 AM
Enough already with the penis pics and people asking questions already answered in my profile. You'll be blocked.
5/2/2012 2:01:13 AM
Please Everyone stop sending penis pics. It's not going to get you any closer to speaking with me. If anything I won't at all because you're not worth my time. That goes for Doms or anyone else who.sends me one. I mean unless you want me mentioning names and then others can comment on how small and useless your pecker is as well.
3/4/2012 5:30:25 AM
She did contact me Please tell her to get over the texting you did last Apr cuz what happens when you lose your contract. Oh that's right she will support your loser ass. Still have the text messages if she wants them
3/3/2012 9:51:40 PM
Ok I've heard the saying incest is best but when you see a pic and actually looks like a brother and sister kissing it gives me the heebie geebies. Still good luck to the happy couple Cheers LOL
3/3/2012 9:22:13 AM
Wow still not getting it right. Person is telling me they checked their family plan and saw no calls between me and their (so-called) Master back last April. Funny cuz I told her we texted each other not talked, but why be bothered by it still. Again good luck to them both. Seems they need it. An ex is still bothering them and she's dreaming of their dead daughter that they haven't conceived yet. Hmm be careful what you wish or dream for. Also now getting married in Il where in former posts she was planning a theme wedding. Last year too they were living together and now they bought a house and they are buying furniture together. Too much to keep up with. Too much drama too many lies. Oh and yes now its three children she has from the four she had before. Hmmm wonder if he's figured out yet they're from different daddies but last dad manned up.
12/11/2011 6:13:09 AM
To the guys who send out penis picture/s I thank you a head of time for helping me weed you out. If you have to do that its not because its not that you have something so great. It just shows how insecure and inadequate you are. It's like really? Is that all you have to offer. It could be 11 inches, but showing me in a picture doesn't impress me nor will it when you don't know how to use it.
12/11/2011 5:40:02 AM
I'll take comments from anyone on this one. What do you think of a person who keeps sending messages after you told them you're not interested? Yes, you can block them, but what does that say about them as a person especially being a Dom?
12/4/2011 10:16:00 PM
Also getting responses from Doms that want to play with me that are not even from this country. Just to clarify I want R/T. Meaning real time. How you going to do that from another country? Just trying to help those who either aren't reading my profile correctly or don't know what R/T means.
12/4/2011 10:00:42 PM
I just had a Dom tell me he wants to beat me senseless. I told him if he wanted to beat me senseless learn how to spell senseless first. Too funny. There should be a bdsm book for dummies with a dictionary in it.
12/3/2011 11:17:12 PM
Ok so I revamped my profile. I can't believe some of the responses I am getting. My last journal entry was from months ago and I am now just getting comments about me being hung up on grammar and such. I am sorry if you want your sub or slave not to have anything else but her body to offer to the table that tells me the Dom doesn't have much to offer her as well. Thank you to those who did appreciate my new profile and did have positive comments about my journals. To you subs and slaves out there believe it or not even having a Dom in your life you have the power to be what you want and control what happens in your life. If you think about it you know exactly what I mean. If you're a doormat you'll be just that. Stepped and walked on and that's not what the lifestyle is about. That's abuse and you're being bullied and are in this for the wrong reasons. Please Doms I beg of you. Be aware of your sub or slave and why they are doing this lifestyle. If they are in it for the wrong reasons you may be doing your sub or slave more harm than good.
8/23/2011 4:25:51 PM
Continuation of the other day's grammar lesson. Please know when to use the words your, yours and you're. Please also know when to use there and their, here or hear, weather or whether, dominate or dominant and lastly let's not forget two, to and too. Did you know that our biggest erogenous zone is our brain? Yes, yes I will wait for those of you who need to look up that big word I just used in the last sentence. Ok let's move on. It was funny when a sub wrote back to me and told me she wasn't here on cm or in the lifestyle because of her grammar or spelling. Which makes me ponder the question why are we here then? Is it just for the toys, sex and control? I guess that's where the phrase where are your brains comes from? Do men only think with their penis and as women do we only have to offer what's between our legs?
8/21/2011 9:36:44 PM
Please if you're going to threaten me at least use proper grammar. Woman is singular. Women is plural.
8/12/2011 10:27:28 AM
As real lifestylers we should all know that Doms are males and Dommes are female right? So why is it that I saw someone speaking of a female but then calling them a pro Dom? Makes you wonder if they know the lifestyle at all or is it just another spelling error?
7/13/2011 7:28:24 PM
Does anyone know how to get a hold of Paraphilist? In need of real pain release
7/8/2011 11:30:15 AM
It's like nails on a chalkboard when I see spelling errors.
7/4/2011 5:51:30 PM
And the laughter continues... It's a shame that CM doesn't have a grammar and spell check.
7/3/2011 9:49:34 PM
So glad someone is enjoying my sloppy seconds
7/2/2011 3:01:02 PM
You know sometimes we all need a good laugh.
5/30/2011 7:28:34 PM

A note to Doms and Dommes: if you want to punish your sub/slave don't take a cane or crop to their ass for punishment as they will probably enjoy it. Let's face it if they enjoy it; tell me how is that a punishment? Here's what you do...get some ginger root and stick it in some bengay or icy hot and stick it in their ass and/or pussy and have them stand in a corner with one knee bent so they are balancing on one leg for half hour. If they move rub more bengay or icy hot on their ass and or pussy . Let me know the results. Now that's a punishment.

5/26/2011 4:03:42 PM
I think people who do journals really should know how to spell. Maybe as one of the things Masters micro-manage is their slave's spelling. It is a reflection of them after all.
4/30/2010 4:13:30 PM
My dad died a week ago.  Just hanging out to see who is out here.
4/4/2010 1:28:00 PM

Happy Easter

11/14/2009 11:54:34 AM

ATTENTION FEMALES and BITCHBOYS:  if you think you have what it takes to be with me then please feel free to apply.  If not then don't even waste my time.

11/2/2009 7:37:27 PM

IT'S OFFICIAL!!  AS OF OCTOBER 2, 2009, I BECAME THE LITTLE GIRL OF DEMIDION.  HE IS MY TRUE ONE AND ONLY DADDY AND SADIST I HAVE SO WAITED AND LONGED FOR.  PLEASE BE RESPECTFUL OF MY NEW STATUS AND AS ALWAYS I AM WILLING TO ONLY TALK TO OLD AND NEW FRIENDS, BUT I AM NO LONGER LOOKING.

9/13/2009 5:47:16 PM
Can someone do me a favor and let BDMK68 know I would still like the chance to apologize to him?  For whoever does this for me I would be forever grateful. 
9/5/2009 3:07:25 PM
Just a little more than a month and here goes another person sending me a penis pic.  What makes someone think that would impress me?  It doesn't!!!!!  It only makes me think thats all they have to offer which isnt much
8/2/2009 7:45:06 PM
I am so frustrated by the so-called Doms on this site.  Its funny how one thinks he can order me when he doesn't own me.  The other just assumed he could set up a weekend for us to get together.  Remember lil boys when you assume you make an ass out of yourself and me
8/2/2009 4:12:38 PM

Question: Why does a person (won't even call him a man let alone a real Dom/Master) feel the need to send a pic of their cock? Especially when it's not even that impressive... hahaha  just thought I would share that with you and hey anyone want to see the pic just ask.  He didn't give me permission to show it but then again he didnt say I couldn't.  hahaha  Doms/Dommes /Masters/Subs/Slaves/Lifestylers etc Feel free to answer the question.  Would love to hear some of your comments.

7/26/2009 1:00:53 PM

HOPEFULLY BDMK68 reads this:  I would like to personally apologize to him.  If given the chance I would like to make it up to him in anyway I can. 

7/3/2009 8:05:38 AM
I am looking for someone to play with me this long holiday weekend? R/T  If you are interested contact me.
6/27/2009 9:23:27 AM
I just added a little bit more info. to my profile to clarify more things.  If you already liked my profile check it out now as you might  like it even more.  Hope to chat with you again or talk with some new people who haven't already read my profile.
6/21/2009 3:51:39 AM

a little different version of Mae West's favorite saying When I am good I am good but when I am bad I am at my best.

5/23/2009 10:19:24 AM
oops actually his name is ToFlogorNot2Flog
5/23/2009 10:17:31 AM
Can someone give ToFlogorNottoFlog a hint that I can not send him a msg cuz he has me blocked
5/23/2009 9:28:41 AM
ToFlogorNottoFlog you have to unblock me if you wish for me to speak with you
5/10/2009 11:49:55 AM
I was just about to sign off, but my new journal entry must have intrigued some female submissives as I see them looking at my profile.  Too funny or are they just in agreement with the last journal entry?
5/10/2009 11:44:37 AM

I am going to take a nap.   Wake me up when there is a true sadistic Dom available!!!! Guess my nap will be a long one as there doesn't seem to be any.

5/9/2009 7:18:23 AM
AnimalMaster48 If you want me to respond youll have to unblock me
4/19/2009 9:37:11 AM
Thank you for the Dom who made my hospital stay more enjoyable.  If he would like to continue it now that I am home; I hope he knows what to do.
1/24/2009 9:21:04 PM
I am responding to the so-called Dom that just blocked me for stating a fact from what he had stated in his proifile.    Why would someone block you for pointing out something in their profile?   He is intrigued tho as he just viewed my profile. Now that is funny!!!!!!
1/13/2009 5:40:49 PM
its still early who wants to celebrate my bday with me??????
1/3/2009 10:42:33 PM
Once bitten twice shy looking to get bitten again   who wants  a  taste?
1/1/2009 8:13:40 AM
Happy Belated Merry Christmas and  a Very Happy New Year. Hope everyone had a nice and fun maybe even naughty NYE.  I am looking for some R/T fun later today with a Local Caucasian Dom .  Anyone interested?
6/21/2008 9:27:44 AM
It's funny how people will put you as admirers or friends and we haven't even talked.
5/4/2008 10:05:04 AM

Are there any Doms out there that are real and want a true sub with slave tendencies?  If so, I would like them to contact me and let's set up a face to face meeting or at least let's  chat and start to get to know each other.

4/5/2008 5:22:11 PM

My chat feature here on CM doesn't work so if you want to IM me we will have to exchange yahoo ID's

1/13/2008 1:02:42 PM
It's my birthday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
9/15/2007 10:24:54 AM
Miss Me?  I  haven't been on much in the last month due to a illness that landed me in the hospital so I am sorry if I missed you here online and you wanted to chat.  Please feel free to now if you so wish or choose to.
8/18/2007 7:58:04 AM

I do wish people responding to me would thoroughly read my profile.  How hard is it to read that I am not interested in a poly situation?

dejagirl
 
 Age: 27
 BC, Canada