Nothing worth having is easy to obtain. Things we have to work for have more meaning to us. you maybe a natural sub but still there is work to do just as I need to work on myself.
Learning and growth, I am big on both. These things help your mind to stay allert and your body to be healthy.
I do not write about things I would do to you, because I have no idea untill I know you and what you need. I do not want to make you my perfect sub I want to help you to be your perrfect sub.
What do you believe the purpose of pain is in a session? Pain is a punishment Pain is a reward
Whatever pleases my partner Not sure
What is your sexual orientation? Heterosexual exclusively Bisexual Homosexual BiCurious
Sex (intercourse, oral) in a scene for me is….. An enhancement Not necessary or expected Expected, unless punishment is taking place absolute must Out of the question
What is your Gender? Male Female TG / TS / TV
Who can know of your activities? No one A very few trusted friends Other scene people Doesn't matter who knows
Your main Interest : Sensual and physical Psychosexual and mental Both equally
Which settings are you comfortable playing in? Public play Scene parties One on one Three way play Intimate groups of 1-3 other couples
What is your level of pain (what are you looking for)
Pain slut Whipping, caning, paddling Light paddling, sensual whipping, no marks Punishment only when necessary Interested, but never tried it WAY beyond my limit
Your level of interest in bondage is:
Total helplessness Light bondage Not my favourite thing Outside my limits Never tried it
When it comes to sex or intimacy
I'm a slave and love it I'm a little Submissive I enjoy power exchange I'm a little dominant I insist on complete control ! I'm not into dominance/submission
What kind of relationship do you prefer?
Long term, live in Offline, meeting often Offline, meeting occasionally Online only Not sure yet
Are you? (rate each from 1-10, one being the least)
Listed below are several examples of roles to be played by either Dominants or submissives. Please list the examples that interest you. Then list the examples you would like your partner to play.
Amazon
Baby
Barbarian
Bitch-Goddess
Boss
Burglar
Child
Clergy
Cowboy
Cowgirl
Daddy
DoctorEvil
PriestEvil
Priestess
Femme Fatale
French maid
God
Goddess
Hooker
Indian
Inquisitor
Interrogator
Hero
Kidnap Victim
Knight
Leather Man
Master
Mentor
Mistress
Mommy
Nun
Nurse
Rapist
Role Reversal
Pet
Pimp
Pirate
Policeman
Ponygirl
Ponyboy
POW
Prince
Princess
Principal
Puppy
Savage
Secretary
Sex Object
Sissy
Slave
Slave Owner
Slut
Student
Suspect
Teacher
Teen
Torturer
Victim
Warrior
Wild Beast
I would like to play
I would like my partner to play..
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Please list any specific fetishes you have. (example: foot worship, latex)
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List any medical, physical, or emotional concerns. (example: past breaks, phobias, diabetes)
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List your HARD LIMITS. (what you won't do no matter what)
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List your concerns about the depth and exclusivity of a relationship.
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List your preferred method of birth control and avoidance of STD's
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Below are 6 parts of the body and 3 activities that can be done safely. Using the codes, rate them at what you would be comfortable experiencing.
Letter Code
N = Never
T = Thuddy
S = Stingy
L = Light
M = Medium
H = Heavy
? = Unsure
N/A = No Way
Part of the Body
Bondage Tied to a bed etc.
Corporal Spanked, caned
TortureCock/ball etc
Back / Shoulder
Bottom/ Thighs
Breast / Chest
Genitals
Feet / Ankles
Hands / Wrists
Activity/Interest List
Dom or Sub?
Intrested?
Tried Before?
Enter either/both a D (Dominant) or S (submissive) (to distinguish which activities you like to do in which mode).
Then enter the number (or symbol) indicating your level of interest in the middle spot .
Finally, put an X to indicate which activities you have tried
Interest Codes
1 = YES (pant, drool}
2 = Mmmmmm, I like
3 = Doesn't excite me, but I will
4 = Absolutely not
# = Intriguing, but scary
! = Embarrassed to admit it
Bondage (arms, legs, wrist, feet)
Dom or Sub?
Intrested?
Tried Before?
Silk Scarves
Rope (nylon, cotton, hemp)
Rope (nylon, cotton, hemp)
Leather (cuffs, ties)
shackles (wrists, ankles)
Arm sleeves
Chains
Interest Codes
1 = YES (pant, drool}
2 = Mmmmmm, I like
3 = Doesn't excite me, but I will
4 = Absolutely not
# = Intriguing, but scary
! = Embarrassed to admit it
Bondage (body or body parts)
Dom or Sub?
Intrested?
Tried Before?
Spandex bonds
Plastic wrap
Straight jackets
Chastity belts
Body bags
Gags (ring, cloth, bit, ball)
Genital bondage
Breast bondage
Interest Codes
1 = YES (pant, drool}
2 = Mmmmmm, I like
3 = Doesn't excite me, but I will
4 = Absolutely not
# = Intriguing, but scary
! = Embarrassed to admit it
Bond Too Items
Dom or Sub?
Intrested?
Tried Before?
Ceiling hooks
Wall hooks
Slings or Swings
Stocks or Pillory
Crosses or T-Bars
Suspension on toes
Full suspension
Spreader bar
Cages
Interest Codes
1 = YES (pant, drool}
2 = Mmmmmm, I like
3 = Doesn't excite me, but I will
4 = Absolutely not
# = Intriguing, but scary
! = Embarrassed to admit it
Time & Setting
Dom or Sub?
Intrested?
Tried Before?
Public
Semi-Public
Private group
Private one on one
1-3 hour duration
3-6 hour duration
Over night duration
Outdoors
Indoors
Interest Codes
1 = YES (pant, drool}
2 = Mmmmmm, I like
3 = Doesn't excite me, but I will
4 = Absolutely not
# = Intriguing, but scary
! = Embarrassed to admit it
Dress and Adornment
Dom or Sub?
Intrested?
Tried Before?
Macho
Slave
Child / baby
French maid
Uniform
Domina
Ultra-Feminine
Prim and Proper
Slutty
Conservative
High Heels
Symbolic jewelry
Biker / Leathers
Spandex
Rubber / Latex
Masks / Hoods
Boots
Corsets / Cinches
Garters / Stockings
Lingerie
Costumes
Interest Codes
1 = YES (pant, drool}
2 = Mmmmmm, I like
3 = Doesn't excite me, but I will
4 = Absolutely not
# = Intriguing, but scary
! = Embarrassed to admit it
Humiliation / Exhibition
Dom or Sub?
Intrested?
Tried Before?
Verbal Abuse
Dirty words
Lead on a leash
Crawling
Kneeling
Foot kissing
Public sex
Shaving
Medical examinations
Symbolic jewelry
Public displays
Secret sex in public
Public embarrassment
Name calling
Interest Codes
1 = YES (pant, drool}
2 = Mmmmmm, I like
3 = Doesn't excite me, but I will
4 = Absolutely not
# = Intriguing, but scary
! = Embarrassed to admit it
Corporal Activities
Dom or Sub?
Intrested?
Tried Before?
Spanking (by hand)
Leather paddles
Wooden paddles
Floggers
Yard Stick
Strap
Interest Codes
1 = YES (pant, drool}
2 = Mmmmmm, I like
3 = Doesn't excite me, but I will
4 = Absolutely not
# = Intriguing, but scary
! = Embarrassed to admit it
Torture and Sensory Play
Dom or Sub?
Intrested?
Tried Before?
Mummification
Breath play
Straight jacket
Blindfolds
Hoods
Headphones / Ear-plugs
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I have been movning my hand now for a few weeks. it still has pain and does not like to do what I want it to. sounds like a bad subbie! lol
My birthday passed with out much hastle and that I apreciate.
My car is running but I still have work to do to make it drivable. really hard to do much one handed. but by the time top down riding weather is here I will be ready to go. I just hope I will be able to ride my bike by then too.
1/6/2009 4:56:43 AM
My hand is finnaly healing!! The sundat before thanksgiving I pasically cut it in half on my table saw! Ouch!!
I am out of my splint and will soon be alowed to make a fist on my own