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Nothing worth having is easy to obtain. Things we have to work for have more meaning to us. you maybe a natural sub but still there is work to do just as I need to work on myself.


Learning and growth, I am big on both. These things help your mind to stay allert and your body to be healthy.


I do not write about things I would do to you, because I have no idea untill I know you and what you need. I do not want to make you my perfect sub I want to help you to be your perrfect sub.


If that makes sence to you, write me.

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2/4/2009 4:23:44 AM
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From: Eddy have to ask (sirvex@hotmail.com)
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BDSM Activities Negotiation Questionaire
 

General Questions and Information

What is your level of experience?

Very experienced Experienced

Limited experience Beginner

What do you believe the purpose of pain is in a session?
Pain is a punishment Pain is a reward

Whatever pleases my partner Not sure

What is your sexual orientation?
Heterosexual exclusively Bisexual
Homosexual BiCurious

Sex (intercourse, oral) in a scene for me is…..
An enhancement Not necessary or expected
Expected, unless punishment is taking place absolute must Out of the question

What is your Gender?
Male
Female
TG / TS / TV
Who can know of your activities?
No one
A very few trusted friends
Other scene people
Doesn't matter who knows
Your main Interest :
Sensual and physical Psychosexual and mental
Both equally

Which settings are you comfortable playing in?
Public play Scene parties One on one
Three way play Intimate groups of 1-3 other couples

What is your level of pain (what are you looking for)

Pain slut
Whipping, caning, paddling
Light paddling, sensual whipping, no marks
Punishment only when necessary
Interested, but never tried it
WAY beyond my limit

 

Your level of interest in bondage is:

Total helplessness
Light bondage
Not my favourite thing
Outside my limits
Never tried it

 

When it comes to sex or intimacy

I'm a slave and love it
I'm a little Submissive
I enjoy power exchange
I'm a little dominant
I insist on complete control !
I'm not into dominance/submission

 
What kind of relationship do you prefer?

Long term, live in
Offline, meeting often
Offline, meeting occasionally
Online only
Not sure yet

 

 

Are you?
(rate each from 1-10, one being the least)
Sadistic ----- 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Masochist -- 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
Dominant --- 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

Submissive - 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
 

Is there anything you would like to add?

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The Art of Role-playing
Listed below are several examples of roles to be played by either Dominants or submissives. Please list the examples that interest you. Then list the examples you would like your partner to play.

Amazon

Baby

Barbarian

Bitch-Goddess

Boss

Burglar

Child

Clergy

Cowboy

Cowgirl

Daddy

DoctorEvil

PriestEvil

Priestess

Femme Fatale

French maid

God

Goddess

Hooker

Indian

Inquisitor

Interrogator

Hero

Kidnap Victim

Knight

Leather Man

Master

Mentor

Mistress

Mommy

Nun

Nurse

Rapist

Role Reversal

Pet

Pimp

Pirate

Policeman

Ponygirl

Ponyboy

POW

Prince

Princess

Principal

Puppy

Savage

Secretary

Sex Object

Sissy

Slave

Slave Owner

Slut

Student

Suspect

Teacher

Teen

Torturer

Victim

Warrior

Wild Beast



I would like to play
I would like my partner to play..
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Please list any specific fetishes you have. (example: foot worship, latex)
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List any medical, physical, or emotional concerns. (example: past breaks, phobias, diabetes)

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List your HARD LIMITS. (what you won't do no matter what)

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List your concerns about the depth and exclusivity of a relationship.

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List your preferred method of birth control and avoidance of STD's

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Below are 6 parts of the body and 3 activities that can be done safely. Using the codes, rate them at what you would be comfortable experiencing.

 
Letter Code

N = Never

T = Thuddy

S = Stingy

L = Light

M = Medium

H = Heavy

? = Unsure

N/A = No Way

Part of the Body
Bondage
Tied to a bed etc.
Corporal
Spanked, caned
Torture Cock/ball etc
Back / Shoulder
Bottom/ Thighs
Breast / Chest
Genitals
Feet / Ankles
Hands / Wrists
 

 
Activity/Interest List
 
Dom or Sub?
Intrested?
Tried Before?
Enter either/both a D (Dominant) or S (submissive) (to distinguish which activities you like to do in which mode).
Then enter the number (or symbol) indicating your level of interest in the middle spot .
Finally, put an X to indicate which activities you have tried
 
Interest Codes
1 = YES (pant, drool}
2 = Mmmmmm, I like
3 = Doesn't excite me, but I will
4 = Absolutely not
# = Intriguing, but scary
! = Embarrassed to admit it
Bondage (arms, legs, wrist, feet)
Dom or Sub?
Intrested?
Tried Before?

Silk Scarves

Rope (nylon, cotton, hemp)
Rope (nylon, cotton, hemp)
Leather (cuffs, ties)
shackles (wrists, ankles)
Arm sleeves
Chains
 
Interest Codes
1 = YES (pant, drool}
2 = Mmmmmm, I like
3 = Doesn't excite me, but I will
4 = Absolutely not
# = Intriguing, but scary
! = Embarrassed to admit it
Bondage (body or body parts)
Dom or Sub?
Intrested?
Tried Before?

Spandex bonds

Plastic wrap
Straight jackets
Chastity belts
Body bags
Gags (ring, cloth, bit, ball)
Genital bondage
Breast bondage
 
Interest Codes
1 = YES (pant, drool}
2 = Mmmmmm, I like
3 = Doesn't excite me, but I will
4 = Absolutely not
# = Intriguing, but scary
! = Embarrassed to admit it
Bond Too Items
Dom or Sub?
Intrested?
Tried Before?
Ceiling hooks

Wall hooks

Slings or Swings
Stocks or Pillory
Crosses or T-Bars
Suspension on toes
Full suspension
Spreader bar
Cages
 
Interest Codes
1 = YES (pant, drool}
2 = Mmmmmm, I like
3 = Doesn't excite me, but I will
4 = Absolutely not
# = Intriguing, but scary
! = Embarrassed to admit it
Time & Setting
Dom or Sub?
Intrested?
Tried Before?
Public
Semi-Public
Private group
Private one on one
1-3 hour duration
3-6 hour duration
Over night duration
Outdoors

Indoors

 
Interest Codes
1 = YES (pant, drool}
2 = Mmmmmm, I like
3 = Doesn't excite me, but I will
4 = Absolutely not
# = Intriguing, but scary
! = Embarrassed to admit it
Dress and Adornment
Dom or Sub?
Intrested?
Tried Before?
Macho
Slave
Child / baby
French maid
Uniform
Domina
Ultra-Feminine
Prim and Proper
Slutty
Conservative
High Heels
Symbolic jewelry
Biker / Leathers
Spandex
Rubber / Latex
Masks / Hoods
Boots
Corsets / Cinches
Garters / Stockings
Lingerie
Costumes
 
Interest Codes
1 = YES (pant, drool}
2 = Mmmmmm, I like
3 = Doesn't excite me, but I will
4 = Absolutely not
# = Intriguing, but scary
! = Embarrassed to admit it
Humiliation / Exhibition
Dom or Sub?
Intrested?
Tried Before?
Verbal Abuse
Dirty words
Lead on a leash
Crawling
Kneeling
Foot kissing
Public sex
Shaving
Medical examinations
Symbolic jewelry
Public displays
Secret sex in public
Public embarrassment
Name calling
 
Interest Codes
1 = YES (pant, drool}
2 = Mmmmmm, I like
3 = Doesn't excite me, but I will
4 = Absolutely not
# = Intriguing, but scary
! = Embarrassed to admit it
Corporal Activities
Dom or Sub?
Intrested?
Tried Before?
Spanking (by hand)
Leather paddles
Wooden paddles

Floggers

Yard Stick
Strap
 
Interest Codes
1 = YES (pant, drool}
2 = Mmmmmm, I like
3 = Doesn't excite me, but I will
4 = Absolutely not
# = Intriguing, but scary
! = Embarrassed to admit it

Torture and Sensory Play

Dom or Sub?
Intrested?
Tried Before?
Mummification
Breath play
Straight jacket
Blindfolds
Hoods
Headphones / Ear-plugs
 
You can save this form by clicking "File", "Save As" Name the file and save to your documents.
 

1/28/2009 4:53:33 AM
I have been movning my hand now for a few weeks. it still has pain and does not like to do what I want it to. sounds like a bad subbie! lol

My birthday passed with out much hastle and that I apreciate.

My car is running but I still have work to do to make it drivable. really hard to do much one handed. but by the time top down riding weather is here I will be ready to go. I just hope I will be able to ride my bike by then too.

1/6/2009 4:56:43 AM
My hand is finnaly healing!! The sundat before thanksgiving I pasically cut it in half on my table saw! Ouch!!

I am out of my splint and will soon be alowed to make a fist on my own

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