Having been unsure as to what to expect from CM I have been pondering my initial experiences. I expected to find a microcosm of society in general, a cross section of backgrounds and intellect. A divergence of wants and needs. My expectations have been met in full. However, what I did not anticipate (and yes, more fool me) was the amount of liars, idiots (and I use that word advisedly) and deluded people.
Yes, the internet is a place where fantasy often replaces realism. But even in this environment surely basic honesty is the best policy? If you are fat, why post pictures of a slim person? If you are married, why say you are single? If you are looking for a quick orgasm, why say you are seeking a committed relationship? Surely basic honesty would enable people to find partners that don't care if you are fat, married, and want a quick wank?
As for those that post seemingly genuine profiles and then send a sob story asking for money......................
To those who get upset if I visit their profile and don't leave a message: perhaps it is because we are clearly not suited? Or, if it makes you feel better, perhaps I was so overwhelmed by your profile that words simply failed me?
On the plus side, there are indeed some intelligent, honest and articulate people on CM. To them, and all the other honest people here, I say thank you for having the courage to be who and what you really are. |