As I read the entries of folks looking for someone, I'm fascinated by the age requirement. Most all seem to limit their "field of play" to those within a few years of their own. I suppose this is understandable for those looking for a permanent relationship but I also think, in general, it may be due to the idea that "anyone much older than me is over the hill". I'm coming up on 59 and I've bedded women for 16 to 83. From time to time we all say "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" but we are all so conditioned to see just the outer shell and not take the time to see the beauty within. The older the lover the more experience/pleasure they can bring to a relationship. My lover that was 83 was once a beautiful women physically, when l her she was 81 and she was magnificent within.
My point; don't limit yourself, open your horizons and take the time to look further.
Stay well. |